I'm happy where I am in life
Okay here goes the venting....I just turned 25 and things are going really well in my life. I've moved to a new state/city and I'm happy. I haven't been able to say that I've actually been happy in years. So here's why I'm posting. It's been three years since I've been with a certain person and now after all this time he comes back into my life. I'm thinking how uncool it is of him to come back into my life. I just wanted some feed back from some cool pearl jam fans and what they thought about exboyfriends/exgirlfriends coming back out of nowhere. After everything he and I have been through I just can't see myself being friends with him. Am I wrong for wanting to be done with him and just move on?
The only things permanent in my life are my tattoo and Pearl Jam.
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I know it's not always that simple, but sometimes it is.
for the least they could possibly do
So in all honestly, really examine your situation with this person both past and present and I say make a decision based on how they have acted in the past.
My best friend kicked me to the curb for drug addiction. He knew he needed me and help, but yet shot down everything I told him to do. Based on 1000x times I heard him say he was gonna change, sober up, blah blah, blah, he didn't.
As much as it pained me to kick people I thought were my friends out of my life, it was for the best. Fyi- I found out through one of my mom's close friends' that this so called friend of mine, got arrested about a year ago. I haven't spoken to or talked to him in almost 5 years.
I don't want to sound like a psycologist or counselor, but as you can see I am better off (even alone, though it sucks). Just really examine your situation and rather you can really trust this person based on your past experience of their behavior and patterns, and make your decision for what is best for you on that.
Just my .02, Best of luck to you.
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In my past Ive had to push people in my family away from me. Only because they were dragging me down in negativity. 1 took a year to come to me and find a way that they could fit back in. ( the other never did, but because of the strength I found in myself I found room)
and thats my message If they can change and fit into your life as it is now thats great. if not see ya later.
but its really your call, lay the ground rules and if they break them dont let it continue.
or just keep them out completly
Still in the same school of thought there
Right on.
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time to talk directly to this person. just my two cents. at the end of the day you are going to do whatever you want to do regardless of what anybody here has to say.
Can move this to AET - jeez.
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I didn't realize you'd be deputized as a board monitor.
Lighten up, Francis.
for the least they could possibly do
Do yourself a huge favor and don't commit or get into any serious relationships right now, your at a great age. Your happy, your in a new place. Enjoy it, try to make some money right now and splurge on yourself. Travel, get a new car, splurge on some clothes etc..
Don't look for any serious relationships until your maybe 28 or 29, that's a good age to start getting serious. Take this from a Married 33 year old, I got married when I was 31. That's a good age.
it's tough..i know. i've had to cut a few people out of my life that i once truly cared about. but i take comfort in knowing that those weren't impulsive decisions and they made me appreciate my life that much more.
best of luck to you and congrats on realizing what was happening before it was too late.
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How those Texas shows treating you.
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