the greatest man I've ever known

KwyjiboKwyjibo Posts: 662
they told you that you were dying
that your life would never be the same
even mundane tasks weren't worth trying
even with help it would take an hour
to get ready for the day
your disease was a shame,
they'd always say

so you took the pills
and you battled with all of your strength
you battled for 20 years,
taking an hour a day to comb your hair

you outlived the doctor that diagnosed you
and then one day, you were lying in a hospital bed
lying there, clinging to life.
and they took my mother aside
and they told her that after reviewing your files
it turns out you never had parkinson's
and the medications caused the symptoms

20 years of painful struggle for nothing
all of it was in vain
but you never knew,
and you went to your grave with a love for life

"Its not fair that men like me live, and a man like that dies"
The most remarkable thing about you standing in the doorway, is that its you, and that you're standing in the doorway.

I write down good reasons to freeze to death in my spiral ring notebook. But in the long tresses of your hair--I am a babbling brook.
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  • ISNISN Posts: 1,700
    These hearts were woven of human joys and cares,
    Washed marvellously with sorrow, swift to mirth.
    The years had given them kindness. Dawn was theirs,
    And sunset, and the colours of the earth.
    These had seen movement, and heard music; known
    Slumber and waking; loved; gone proudly friended;
    Felt the quick stir of wonder; sat alone;
    Touched flowers and furs and cheeks. All this is ended.

    There are waters blown by changing winds to laughter
    And lit by the rich skies, all day. And after,
    Frost, with a gesture, stays the waves that dance
    And wandering loveliness. He leaves a white
    Unbroken glory, a gathered radiance,
    A width, a shining peace, under the night.
    ....they're asking me to prove why I should be allowed to stay with my baby in Australia, because I'm mentally ill......and they think I should leave......
  • suedesuede Posts: 247
    Originally posted by Kwyjibo
    they told you that you were dying
    that your life would never be the same
    even mundane tasks weren't worth trying
    even with help it would take an hour
    to get ready for the day
    your disease was a shame,
    they'd always say

    so you took the pills
    and you battled with all of your strength
    you battled for 20 years,
    taking and hour a day to comb your hair

    you outlived the doctor that diagnosed you
    and then one day, you were lying in a hospital bed
    lying there, clinging to life.
    and they took my mother aside
    and they told her that after reviewing your files
    it turns out you never had parkinson's
    and the medications caused the symptoms

    20 years of painful struggle for nothing
    all of it was in vain
    but you never knew,
    and you went to your grave with a love for life

    "Its not fair that men like me live, and a man like that dies"

    wow. nicely written. very good...strong. sorry for your loss. the "hour a day" parts really makes this one.
  • ISNISN Posts: 1,700
    just so you know...I read that poem at my father's funeral in 1999.....in London....he had been dumped in a nursing home by my mother when he developed signs of Dementia.....prior to that he had been head of a Department in the UN for 2 continents based in Thailand......founder of the biggest Tourism company in Ireland.....a humorous writer in Portugal.....friend of the Emperor of Ethiopia and acquainted with many heads of state, kings and presidents....embarked on an MA in Journalism at the age of 78....travelled in over 100 countries including driving back from Ethiopia to Ireland overland with two Ethiopian dogs in the back of the VW beetle.....a doting father.....a great man....a diplomat and a knight.....hardly missed....painfully grieved......

    When they die, some people are more misssed than grieved over, others cause us grief but are scarcely missed.

    La Rouchefoucauld - Maxims
    ....they're asking me to prove why I should be allowed to stay with my baby in Australia, because I'm mentally ill......and they think I should leave......
  • KwyjiboKwyjibo Posts: 662
    well this man died about 10 years ago, but I'm just now finding out about some stuff
    The most remarkable thing about you standing in the doorway, is that its you, and that you're standing in the doorway.

    I write down good reasons to freeze to death in my spiral ring notebook. But in the long tresses of your hair--I am a babbling brook.
  • It paints a picture of discovery of his greatness. Thank you. :)
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