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Need some good break up songs (not sad, more like F you type songs)

stevieraveonstevieraveon Posts: 413
edited November 2007 in Other Music
So just found out my girlfriend of 4 years (who's been living w/ me for 3) has been cheating on me and is moving out. I'm not one wants to wallow in sad break up songs, but rather like songs that are more positive.

One that I was listening to that I like was John Mayer's "I'm going to find another you". Great lyrics.

Any other good suggestions?

Edit: Sorry, probably should have put this in Other Music
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  • gue_bariumgue_barium Posts: 5,515
    4 years is a long time. Ouch.

    I guess, if I were in your shoes I would take solace in the fact that
    in a couple of years, after the pain has subsided and things are back
    in perspective, you'll probably have a chance to bang her again just for fun.

    There's got to be a song out there about that.
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  • roarroar Posts: 1,116
    i don't know about this being a "positive" song...but sometimes it feels positively good to let it all out. :D

    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=poOfsDVq9KE
  • MahoganySoulsMahoganySouls Posts: 357
    Good Riddance (Time Of Your Life)
    Green Day

    It Don't Matter to Me
    Bread

    Favorite Mistake
    Sheryl Crow

    Wherever You Are
    Moody Blues

    Wherever you are
    Celeste Prince
    (even better)

    Still
    Commodors

    Go Your Own Way
    Fleetwood Mac
    "When you're climbing to the top, you'd better know the way back down" MSB
  • brainofPJbrainofPJ Posts: 2,361
    Satans Bed

    Lukin


    Esther's here and she's sick?

    hi Esther, now we are all going to be sick, thanks
  • stevieraveonstevieraveon Posts: 413
    roar wrote:
    i don't know about this being a "positive" song...but sometimes it feels positively good to let it all out. :D

    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=poOfsDVq9KE

    I like it, I guess I didn't mean so much "positive" as just not a sad song but more of F it, type of thing.

    Good suggestions
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  • pj10alive42pj10alive42 Posts: 381
    When I found out my ex was cheating on me, I found the high pitched squeel of her voice as I slid the knife across her neck to be quite soothing....but that's just me.
    I'm trying to drink away the part of the day I cannot sleep away...
  • vedderfan10vedderfan10 Posts: 2,497
    "You Oughtta Know" - Alanis Morrisette....
    "Cold Shot" - Stevie Ray Vaughn


    PS. What Moody Blues song is "Wherever You Are"?
    be philanthropic
  • AllieAllie Posts: 2,908
    Oh my goodness! I am so sorry. That's terrible! What's with people lately, this is at least the third thread I've seen with this having happened to someone.

    I find the entire Vs album to be cathartic (ie: i'd rather be with an ANIMAL)

    and also Screaming Infidelities by Dashboard Confessional
    "...like a word misplaced, nothing said, what a waste.."
    "Sometimes life should be consumed in measured doses"
    6-01-06
    6/25/08
    Free Speedy
    and Metsy!
  • pj10alive42pj10alive42 Posts: 381
    Allie wrote:
    Oh my goodness! I am so sorry. That's terrible! What's with people lately, this is at least the third thread I've seen with this having happened to someone.

    I find the entire Vs album to be cathartic (ie: i'd rather be with an ANIMAL)

    and also Screaming Infidelities by Dashboard Confessional

    If I was with Allie, I dont think I would break up with her.
    I'm trying to drink away the part of the day I cannot sleep away...
  • surferdudesurferdude Posts: 2,057
    Motley Crue - Don't Go Away Mad (Just Go Away)
    “One good thing about music,
    when it hits you, you feel to pain.
    So brutalize me with music.”
    ~ Bob Marley
  • hippiemomhippiemom Posts: 3,326
    Idiot Wind - Bob Dylan
    You Go Your Way And I'll Go Mine - Bob Dylan
    14 Years - Guns & Roses
    Used To Love Her - Guns & Roses

    I know there's tons more, but I'm sleepy and my brain isn't working.
    "Nothing in the world is more dangerous than sincere ignorance and conscientious stupidity." ~ MLK, 1963
  • hrd2imgnhrd2imgn Posts: 4,895
    I used ot love her by guns is good but

    I HATE EVERYTHING ABOUT YOU- UGLY KID JOE

    this song will make you feel 100 times better, sing with it too

    sorry about her being a total BITCH
  • gue_bariumgue_barium Posts: 5,515
    Allie wrote:
    Oh my goodness! I am so sorry. That's terrible! What's with people lately, this is at least the third thread I've seen with this having happened to someone.

    I find the entire Vs album to be cathartic (ie: i'd rather be with an ANIMAL)

    and also Screaming Infidelities by Dashboard Confessional

    For the longest time I thought animal was about Ed getting love letters from gay men.
    Turns out I was way off!

    I can't remember where I read it but I think it's about a gang rape.
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  • Phantom PainPhantom Pain Posts: 9,876
    GNR


    I used to Love Her


    I used to love her
    But I had to kill her
    I used to love her, Mm, yeah
    But I had to kill her
    I had to put her six feet under
    And I can still hear her complain

    I used to love her, Oo, yeah
    But I had to kill her
    I used to love her, Oo, yeah
    But I had to kill her
    I knew I'd miss her
    So I had to keep her
    She's buried right in my backyard
    Oh yeah, Oo yeah, whoa, oh yeah

    I used to love her
    But I had to kill her
    I used to love her, Mm, yeah
    But I had to kill her
    She bitched so much, She drove me nuts
    And now I'm happier this way, yeah
    Whoa, oh yeah

    I used to love her
    But I had to kill her
    I used to love her, Mm, yeah
    But I had to kill her
    I had to put her, Oo, six feet under
    And I can still hear her complain
    My drinking team has a hockey problem

    The ONLY thing better than a glass of beer is tea with Miss McGill



    A protuberance of flesh above the waistband of a tight pair of trousers
  • gue_bariumgue_barium Posts: 5,515
    Phantom Pain wrote:
    GNR


    I used to Love Her


    I used to love her
    But I had to kill her
    I used to love her, Mm, yeah
    But I had to kill her
    I had to put her six feet under
    And I can still hear her complain

    I used to love her, Oo, yeah
    But I had to kill her
    I used to love her, Oo, yeah
    But I had to kill her
    I knew I'd miss her
    So I had to keep her
    She's buried right in my backyard
    Oh yeah, Oo yeah, whoa, oh yeah

    I used to love her
    But I had to kill her
    I used to love her, Mm, yeah
    But I had to kill her
    She bitched so much, She drove me nuts
    And now I'm happier this way, yeah
    Whoa, oh yeah

    I used to love her
    But I had to kill her
    I used to love her, Mm, yeah
    But I had to kill her
    I had to put her, Oo, six feet under
    And I can still hear her complain

    That was even dumb when I heard it new.
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  • Phantom PainPhantom Pain Posts: 9,876
    gue_barium wrote:
    That was even dumb when I heard it new.

    There was a cover band we used to see and they sang it all the time

    I guess when you've been drinking all night in a bar it sounds good !
    My drinking team has a hockey problem

    The ONLY thing better than a glass of beer is tea with Miss McGill



    A protuberance of flesh above the waistband of a tight pair of trousers
  • gue_bariumgue_barium Posts: 5,515
    Phantom Pain wrote:
    There was a cover band we used to see and they sang it all the time

    I guess when you've been drinking all night in a bar it sounds good !

    I can see that.

    But, to me, when it comes to romance, love, sex, and a beautiful woman... and an unfortunate time to let it all go, I don't want to get hissy-fitted about it. If I spent four good years with someone, I would be grateful for those four years. I'm not saying the cheating wouldn't hurt, but I suspect I might already have had a straying eye as well. When you're that close to someone you notice those subtle changes.
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  • EddiEEddiE Posts: 125
    "Leash"....get out of my fcking face! :D
    Paris 7/11/96
    Manchester 4/6/00
  • HinnyHinny Posts: 1,610
    Song For the Dumped - Ben Folds Five
    Binary solo..000000100000111100001110
  • Heineken HelenHeineken Helen Posts: 18,095
    gue_barium wrote:
    For the longest time I thought animal was about Ed getting love letters from gay men.
    Turns out I was way off!

    I can't remember where I read it but I think it's about a gang rape.
    :o I never noticed that about animal actually... dunno what I thought it was about but that makes perfect sense and it may make it more uncomfortable to rock out to now :o :(
    The Astoria??? Orgazmic!
    Verona??? it's all surmountable
    Dublin 23.08.06 "The beauty of Ireland, right there!"
    Wembley? We all believe!
    Copenhagen?? your light made us stars
    Chicago 07? And love
    What a different life
    Had I not found this love with you
  • dunkmandunkman Posts: 19,646
    Heineken Helen wrote:
    :o I never noticed that about animal actually... dunno what I thought it was about but that makes perfect sense and it may make it more uncomfortable to rock out to now :o :(


    i dunno.. its just a song.. some of the worlds happiest songs have some huge undercurrent of death, revenge, brussel sprouts and other nasty shit..

    Last Kiss for instance... Shiny Happy People by REM is about an guy who killed 3 nuns with a simple garden trowel cos he believed that penguins had been sent to inseminate him with Burt Reynolds sperm... i might have made that up though
    oh scary... 40000 morbidly obese christians wearing fanny packs invading europe is probably the least scariest thing since I watched an edited version of The Care Bears movie in an extremely brightly lit cinema.
  • Heineken HelenHeineken Helen Posts: 18,095
    dunkman wrote:
    i dunno.. its just a song.. some of the worlds happiest songs have some huge undercurrent of death, revenge, brussel sprouts and other nasty shit..

    Last Kiss for instance... Shiny Happy People by REM is about an guy who killed 3 nuns with a simple garden trowel cos he believed that penguins had been sent to inseminate him with Burt Reynolds sperm... i might have made that up though
    yeh, you have a point... but reading the lyrics makes me uncomfortable now :o probably just me and I'm sure I'll get over it... but it's strange how a song can completely change once you pick up a different meaning.
    The Astoria??? Orgazmic!
    Verona??? it's all surmountable
    Dublin 23.08.06 "The beauty of Ireland, right there!"
    Wembley? We all believe!
    Copenhagen?? your light made us stars
    Chicago 07? And love
    What a different life
    Had I not found this love with you
  • harmless_little_f***harmless_little_f*** Posts: 8,005
    Incubus - 'Nice To Know You'

    Damien Rice - 'Rootless Tree'
    'We're learning songs for baby Jesus' birthday. His mum and dad were Merry and Joseph. He had a bed made of clay and the three kings bought him Gold, Frankenstein and Merv as presents.'

    - the great Sir Leo Harrison
  • acoustic guyacoustic guy Posts: 3,770
    stevieraveon wrote:
    So just found out my girlfriend of 4 years (who's been living w/ me for 3) has been cheating on me and is moving out. I'm not one wants to wallow in sad break up songs, but rather like songs that are more positive.

    One that I was listening to that I like was John Mayer's "I'm going to find another you". Great lyrics.

    Any other good suggestions?

    Edit: Sorry, probably should have put this in Other Music

    Perfect Song!!!!
    Pantera.......Album is Vulgar Display of Power
    Song......"This Love"
    Trust me, the perfect Fuck You Song!!!!
    Get em a Body Bag Yeeeeeaaaaa!
    Sweep the Leg Johnny.
  • shmapshmap Posts: 374
    I'd add Plain White Ts "Hate (I Really Don't Like You)" to the bunch.
  • civ_eng_girlciv_eng_girl Posts: 2,001
    harmless_little_f*** wrote:
    Incubus - 'Nice To Know You'

    Damien Rice - 'Rootless Tree'

    ooooh! good suggestions harmless! :D

    I was just about to say:

    Incubus - 'Blood On The Ground'

    From now on
    Gonna start holding my breath
    When you come 'round
    And you flex that fake grin
    'Cause something inside me has
    Said more than twice
    That breathing less air
    Beats breathing you at all
    ~~*~~ ...i surfaced and all of my being was enlightend... ~~*~~
  • iluvcatsiluvcats Posts: 5,153
    very sorry she cheated on you, I know how that feels....I used to live with my boyfriend in the eighties and he did what ever he wanted to.

    not a break up song, I just love this musician
    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4jAhifgQ8o0

    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=svqtBWhb5wo
    9/98, 9/00 - DC, 4/03 - Pitt., 7/03 - Bristow, 10/04 - Reading, 10/05 - Philly, 5/06 - DC, 6/06 - Pitt., 6/08 - Va Beach, 6/08 - DC, 5/10 - Bristow, 10/13 B'more
    8/08 - Ed solo in DC, 6/09 Ed in B'more,
    10/10 - Brad in B'more
  • markymark550markymark550 Posts: 5,141
    Hinny wrote:
    Song For the Dumped - Ben Folds Five
    I second this selection.
  • harmless_little_f***harmless_little_f*** Posts: 8,005
    iluvcats wrote:
    not a break up song, I just love this musician
    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4jAhifgQ8o0

    Heartbreaking.
    'We're learning songs for baby Jesus' birthday. His mum and dad were Merry and Joseph. He had a bed made of clay and the three kings bought him Gold, Frankenstein and Merv as presents.'

    - the great Sir Leo Harrison
  • patrickredeyespatrickredeyes Posts: 8,834
    ''Whatever'' Godsmack
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