Rock Gravesites

vedhead011vedhead011 Posts: 300
edited May 2009 in Other Music
I'm going to get a little in depth here. Just last St. Patricks Day (March 17th), I finally picked up Blind Melon--Soup. And until Tuesday, when 'Pearl Jam' came out, I hadn't listened to anything else. I immediately fell in love with Soup, and hailed it one of the best albums I'd ever heard. And I meant it. At the same time, I started to get really upset about Shannon Hoon's early death, the waste of talent, the inability to overcome an addiction. Literally. At times, when I listen to Soup, I feel brokenhearted. OK, on to the point.

I live between Chicago and Milwaukee, and this past weekend we had a wedding to go to in Indianapolis. I knew that Shannon was buried near his hometown, and I knew that we'd be passing it. But I figured since I was with my entire family, plus my sisters fiancee, my wife, and my cousin, and since we were caravanning, I wouldn't ask them to stop.

This afternoon my boss left early, so I've been fooling around on the internet a bit. So I looked up which cemetery Shannon is buried at, thinking that maybe some weekend when there is nothing to do (and if gas prices go down, not likely) I may make the three hour trip to visit his gravesite. and do you know what I found out? I found out that the gas station that we filled up at on the way home is not even a mile away from the cemetery. I was so close. So now I have the empty feeling of regret that I didn't do my research beforehand. I exited at the right place and everything So now I'm upset.

Felt like sharing.

Has anybody visited Shannon's gravesite? Or any other famous person's gravesite? Any stories you'd like to tell?
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  • AndySlashAndySlash Posts: 3,263
    I'd like to visit Shannon's grave some time.

    When I was in England I went to Sheffield to visit, among other Def Leppard landmarks in town, the grave of Steve Clark. My friend is a huge fan, so it was his idea to go. We walked all over the place trying to find it, eventually making our way just outside of town. There was a bit more fan-placed stuff there than I thought there'd be.

    I also went to Jim Morrison's gravesite in Paris. What is weird is that of the 5 other people that were there, two of them were a couple from Minnesota. It was odd running into someone from here over there.

    While he's not dead yet, there is a bench in Syd Barrett's honor in the Cambridge (England) Botanical garden, so I went there for a bit, too. Saw Grantchester Meadows and a couple other Floyd historical landmarks also.
  • jsk175jsk175 Posts: 70
    Ive never been to a rock starts gravesite, but i must agree with you on Blind Melon's Soup. That is an awsome album. Basically anything Blind Melon has done is awsome. Youll need to get Nico next. I dont like it as much as Soup, but its still pretty good. Too bad about Shannon. What could have been.
  • wow thats really bizarre as i just posted about letter from a porcupine before i read this thread.. sorry you missed going to pay your respects to such a wonderful and talented man, im sure you will get another opportunity to go, i would love to go and lay some flowers there myself, as a way of thanking him for the small amount of songs he sang that made a huge impact on my life from so many years ago, i'm really missing him at the moment ( as silly as that sounds not knowing him... but you know what i mean)
  • I've been a few times. It's too bad you missed the opportunity to pay your respects, but it's never too late. I'm sure you're probably aware, but they have a vigil for his birthday every year the Saturday closest to his birthday (9-26)...If you can get there, I strongly suggest it. His Mom (Nel), Grandma Vernie :), and other family members are there, along with tons of fans throughout the day/weekend. It's an awesome vibe to be around so many people who are sharing the same love, respect, & appreciation that you are.

    Here is a pic of me, his Mom, & Grandma Vernie from last year's vigil (it's not the best pic of me, but hey, I'm with the women who created the man, no time to be vain.) lol.

    http://myspace-762.vo.llnwd.net/00713/26/78/713418762_l.jpg

    :)
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  • I've been a few times. It's too bad you missed the opportunity to pay your respects, but it's never too late. I'm sure you're probably aware, but they have a vigil for his birthday every year the Saturday closest to his birthday (9-26)...If you can get there, I strongly suggest it. His Mom (Nel), Grandma Vernie :), and other family members are there, along with tons of fans throughout the day/weekend. It's an awesome vibe to be around so many people who are sharing the same love, respect, & appreciation that you are.

    Here is a pic of me, his Mom, & Grandma Vernie from last year's vigil (it's not the best pic of me, but hey, I'm with the women who created the man, no time to be vain.) lol.

    http://myspace-762.vo.llnwd.net/00713/26/78/713418762_l.jpg

    :)

    that is a lovley picture!!! how special for you to get to go to one of the vigils.. id love to do that one year but not being in america is a bit of a stretch to achieve.. but its great that people can go and pay their respects, and im sure it helps his family too
  • vedhead011vedhead011 Posts: 300
    Wow. I made the initial post in this thread to kind of get some feelings out, but it turns out it was more than just that because your words have also helped. It was put into perspective that I'm lucky that I live close enough to visit, instead of being on the otherside of the world. I should be grateful, and I am. But it also helped to be informed of the vigil, so that I know that there are certain times I can go and share something with others of like-minds. Thank you!
    AskPearlJam: PearlJama101-guest says: Who's idea was it for Eddie to play banjo on "Soon Forget"?
    Eddie: I don't know whose idea it was but it was turned down.
  • fadafada Posts: 1,032
    When I was in New york I went to the Dakato building. I was full sure it would be signposted but nothing. I had to ask one of the usher's was I at the right building. I taught surely there would be something on the wall. Strawberry fields , I went there but didn't actually feel anything. I was kinda awkward really. Where is he actually buried?
  • charlotte28charlotte28 Posts: 56
    I've never been to any personally but my brother has been forever obssessed with the Doors and his ex's brother brought him back a picture of Jim Morrison's grave from Paris - it was really touching...
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  • audiodaveaudiodave Posts: 1,623
    Upon reading this thread, I decided to get Soup...and I agree with you 100%. Amazing album. Amazing talent. Tragic loss.
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  • vedhead011vedhead011 Posts: 300
    audiodave wrote:
    Upon reading this thread, I decided to get Soup...and I agree with you 100%. Amazing album. Amazing talent. Tragic loss.

    I'm glad that you were able to find this fantastic piece of work.
    AskPearlJam: PearlJama101-guest says: Who's idea was it for Eddie to play banjo on "Soon Forget"?
    Eddie: I don't know whose idea it was but it was turned down.
  • I went to the Jimi Hendrix gravesite, that was very calming for me (and I dont really know why...I like Hendrix, but I can't really claim to be a fan) I just felt peaceful there. I like visiting cemeteries, so the peace feeling isn't too strange -but when someone dies from personal violence I usually feel really depressed by their resting place.


    I also visited Jim Morrison's gravesite -and that was special because my brother was with me and he is a HUGE doors/Morrison fan. As a matter of fact he introduced me to the band when I was 9, and paved the way for me to get into rock music and not pop (I think I would have had pop tendencies) so it was awesome to experience the gravesite atmosphere together.
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  • I went to Jim Morrison's gravesite in Paris a couple years back. I won't go until too many details, but there is a different feeling around him, an aura he still gives off even in his death. it was remarkable and moving.
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  • vedhead011vedhead011 Posts: 300
    I started this thread 3 years ago today. I just happened to be looking through my old posts today and came upon this one.

    A month ago yesterday I went down to Purdue with my wife to see a fashion show that her sister was one of the designers for. We had plenty of time so we went to visit Shannon's grave. We brought him some flowers and a bottle of lemonade. It was very peaceful and if anyone is ever travelling between Chicago and Indy and is interested, think about stopping. It's just a mile or so off of I-65.

    Afterwards I became interested in finding out where in New Orleans Blind Melon's tour bus was parked when Shannon died on board. Weird, morbid, and obsessive? Maybe. But with a tone of respect. While scouring the internet (to this point, no avail) I came upon a book by a man named Greg Prato and entitled A Devil on One Shoulder and an Angel on the Other: The Story of Shannon Hoon and Blind Melon. I immediately ordered it. I reviewed it on amazon. But in summation the book is a series of quotes taken from interviews the author conducted with family, friends, band members, record company people, etc. This book is just fantastic. I finished it in just over 24 hours with breaks to eat, sleep, bathe, be a husband and a dad in between. The perfect format when you have so many people willing to talk about it. It felt like you were spending time with these people telling their memories of Shannon's life and the Blind Melon years. A very strong recommendation for anyone who likes 90's music and flat-out must read status for any Blind Melon fan. And the author responds to email. This paragraph probably should've been its own post or a response to a Blind Melon post. Maybe you'll see it again somewhere.

    And a post script, Greg Prato did a similar project entitled Grunge Is Dead that was recently released. It seems to focus on the 90's Seattle scene and boasts a one of a kind interview with Eddie Vedder. I ordered it right after finishing the Blind Melon book, but I haven't opened it yet.
    AskPearlJam: PearlJama101-guest says: Who's idea was it for Eddie to play banjo on "Soon Forget"?
    Eddie: I don't know whose idea it was but it was turned down.
  • FinsburyParkCarrotsFinsburyParkCarrots Seattle, WA Posts: 12,223
    I went to the Jimi Hendrix gravesite, that was very calming for me (and I dont really know why...I like Hendrix, but I can't really claim to be a fan) I just felt peaceful there. I like visiting cemeteries, so the peace feeling isn't too strange -but when someone dies from personal violence I usually feel really depressed by their resting place.



    I can tell you why this is. The presence is elsewhere. If you stood at the basement flat of 22 Lansdowne Crescent in London, where he died, you'd get freaked out. There are some seriously heavy vibes there to this day.
  • I have passed by Lakeview Cemetery on Seattle's Capitol Hill several times on various walks, but it was forever before I finally went to see Bruce and Brandon Lee's grave sites.

    I stopped by about a year and a half ago. Now that I don't live near there, I'm glad I finally did. It's a nice cemetery overall with a lot of Seattle's pioneers.
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  • helplessdancerhelplessdancer Posts: 5,281
    I saw Jim Morrison's and Napoleon's grave site in the same day in Paris

    Both obviously famous and both buried in completely different manors...

    I also chased down Ronald McKernan's grave site
  • philthehipphilthehip Posts: 2,084
    vedhead011 wrote:
    Wow. I made the initial post in this thread to kind of get some feelings out, but it turns out it was more than just that because your words have also helped. It was put into perspective that I'm lucky that I live close enough to visit, instead of being on the otherside of the world. I should be grateful, and I am. But it also helped to be informed of the vigil, so that I know that there are certain times I can go and share something with others of like-minds. Thank you!

    Yep I live on the other side of the world. If any of you are ever in Birkenhead UK (not likely) come and visit Flaybricke
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