Emotional Intelligence

How do you think you measure up when it comes to emotional intelligence? I googled a definition and became even more disheartened. Here is what I came across:
Emotional intelligence (otherwise known as emotional quotient or EQ) is the ability to understand, use, and manage your own emotions in positive ways to relieve stress, communicate effectively, empathize with others, overcome challenges and defuse conflict.
Emotional intelligence (otherwise known as emotional quotient or EQ) is the ability to understand, use, and manage your own emotions in positive ways to relieve stress, communicate effectively, empathize with others, overcome challenges and defuse conflict.
According to Daniel Goleman , an American psychologist who helped to popularize emotional intelligence, there are five key elements to it:
- Self-awareness.
- Self-regulation.
- Motivation.
- Empathy.
- Social skills.
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I'd say I possess all those qualities, though rarely at the same time. Motivation is usually situational.
And honestly, social skills aren't really my strong suit
even if I look and act really crazy.
Why are people with self-awareness the ones with faulty social skills? There's something extra unfair about that.
My self rated scale would be like:
Thank you, West Coast Dreamgirl