I cannot listen to "Come Back" anymore

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  • CommyCommy Posts: 4,984
    .................the song. the song is amazing
  • BrainofdzBrainofdz Posts: 1,617
    brain of c wrote:
    it's only rock and roll.

    I know its only rock and roll but I like it
    "Stunned by my own reflection, It's looking back, sees me too clearly and I swore I'd never go there again, Not unlike a friend that politely drags you down,down,down"

    When you see me on the street, yell out "FAVO!!!"

    I've been to alot of Pearl Jam shows;So fucking what.
  • BrainofdzBrainofdz Posts: 1,617
    like it, like it, yes I DOOOO!
    "Stunned by my own reflection, It's looking back, sees me too clearly and I swore I'd never go there again, Not unlike a friend that politely drags you down,down,down"

    When you see me on the street, yell out "FAVO!!!"

    I've been to alot of Pearl Jam shows;So fucking what.
  • PiCTuReKePTPiCTuReKePT Posts: 311
    it created the same effect on me after a while.Through the middle part ,you feel like you won't be able to hold your tears if you go on listening.but it's such a beautiful song.i cannot imagine any other music to replace it.
  • SpunkieSpunkie Posts: 6,672
    I'm glad the crying over that song phase passed.
  • the wolfthe wolf Posts: 7,027
    this album came out right before my dad left us. and to tell the truth, i loved the song when i first heard it, then i thought it was the weakest song on the album. then i loved it again. after my dad died, it became kinda hard for me to hear.

    i still plan on playing this for him someday. that will be emotional, im sure. trying to sing and cry is not that easy. im really afraid of just choking up so bad that words wont come out.

    great song, and im glad that i got over my thinking it was the weakest of the album.



    miss ya pops.

    -steve
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  • shadowcastshadowcast Posts: 2,206
    the wolf wrote:
    this album came out right before my dad left us. and to tell the truth, i loved the song when i first heard it, then i thought it was the weakest song on the album. then i loved it again. after my dad died, it became kinda hard for me to hear.

    i still plan on playing this for him someday. that will be emotional, im sure. trying to sing and cry is not that easy. im really afraid of just choking up so bad that words wont come out.

    great song, and im glad that i got over my thinking it was the weakest of the album.



    miss ya pops.

    -steve

    I am in the same boat with you but the but my dad passed right after Binural and the song "Light Years" get's me everytime. I'm like you when I hear it sometimes it's a bit too much ya know.
  • the wolfthe wolf Posts: 7,027
    I am in the same boat with you but the but my dad passed right after Binarul and the song "Light Years" get's me everytime. I'm like you when I hear sometimes it's a bit too much ya know.

    yeah, its rough.
    Peace, Love.


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  • halszka123halszka123 Posts: 1,109
    so sorry reading You have so sad memories. I hope U are ok now... i wish i will never know what You feel
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  • shadowcastshadowcast Posts: 2,206
    And here is a salute to 2 great songs.

    Salute!!!

    &

    Our Pops!!!!
  • AnonAnon Posts: 11,175
    Its such a good song.. but so sad...


    Im not big on crying.. but i get tears even hearing the opening chords to this one... Makes me sad that i can't listen to it that often :D


    If I keep holding out,... will the light shine through?
    Under this broken roof,... it's only rain that I feel
    I've been waiting out the days,... Come Back.

    I have been planning out,... All that I'd say to you
    Since you slipped away,... Know that I still remain true
    I've been wishing out the days,..

    Please say, that if you hadn't of gone now
    I wouldn't have lost you another way
    From wherever you are,.... Come Back.

    And these days, they linger on
    And I'm the night, as I'm waiting on
    The real possibility I may meet you in my dream
    I go to sleep



    If I don't fall apart,.... will the memories stay clear
    So you had to go,......... and I had to remain here



    But the strangest thing to date
    So far away
    And yet you feel so close
    And I'm not gonna question it any other way



    There must be an open door
    For you to
    Come Back



    And the days, they linger on
    And every night, what I'm waiting for
    Is the real possibility I may meet you in my dream



    And sometimes you're there
    And you're talking back to me
    Come the morning I could swear you're next to me



    And it's okay.



    It's okay.
    It's okay.



    I'll be here
    Come Back
    Come Back



    I'll be here
    Come Back
    Come Back



    I'll be here
    Come Back
    Come Back

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    The thing i love about this song, is obviously, there is a very sad tone. Its a tone that could mean your boyfriend just tore your heart to shreads, a loved one passed away, or even missing something random! (like pearl jam shows, hint hint) And everyone has had something that they wish would come back... international lyrics are the way to go!
    I have not listened to this song for well over a year. I absolutely love it, one of my favs off PJ, but it is really depressing to hear :(
  • I agree...SUCH an amazing song...unfortunately it has too much meaning for me and is very difficult to listen to. I lost my only sibling, my brother, in a car accident four years ago. I have had dreams about him and that part in the song makes it very real and very raw. I do like to listen to it on occasion to help honor the memory of my brother and our shared love of Pearl Jam, but is definitely not one I can listen to daily.
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  • fuck man, i know. that song tears me to pieces.
  • VMGACgVMGACg Posts: 135
    smile75 wrote:
    I absolutly love this song,reminds me of my ex though,still a great song.


    hey i can sympathize with that. sucks huh. wont stop us from listening tho
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  • This song was awesome on the Imagine DVD.

    Powerful and emotional...
    Oh he fills it up with the love of a girl...
  • pirljamgirlpirljamgirl Posts: 259
    I too can't listen to this song anymore. Break out in a huge crying fit. NEVER has a song done that to me.
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  • Rory1223Rory1223 Posts: 46
    I think it's my favorite as well...reminds me of my son :-(
    When Eddie sings how he is wishing out the days, I know
    exactly how he feels. And I love the line "the real possibility
    I may meet you in my dream, I go to sleep", that's what
    I pretty much do every night.
  • Cropduster84Cropduster84 Posts: 1,283
    This song gets me like no other.....


    those lyrics man.....wow.....


    a beautiful, beautiful song.....
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  • MeI'mNotMeI'mNot Posts: 9
    I love the Immagine in Cornice version of that song, it simply gets to me.
    And the couple dancing in the back you see for a few seconds, that's just sweet.
    Great Song
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  • InHiding19InHiding19 Posts: 2,385
    Why its awesome I heard it and it sounded great in Albany and Camden!!!
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  • brain of c wrote:
    it's only rock and roll.
    but i like it!
    "Find myself singing the same songs every day....
    ones that make me feel good when things behind the smile ain't ok...." -Hoon
  • its by far the most beatiful and mostemotional song the band has concieved


    oh, i dont know about that, i love the song, it makes me sad too but the most beautiful and emotional song ever?
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  • acutejamacutejam Posts: 1,433
    Light Years fer me.
    [sic] happens
  • kenny olavkenny olav Posts: 3,319
    seriously. i cannot listen to this song very much at all. i'm glad it never became a radio hit. it's just too emotional to be hit with when you're standing in line at Dunkin Donuts at 7am.

    i usually skip over it, but when i do listen to it, i cannot help at least well up when mike's solo kicks in and then eddie sings "I'll be here... come back... come back..." i imagine someone close to me dying... and fuck, i don't want to deal with it.

    it really is the saddest song i know, and one of the most beautiful. the melody flows perfectly with the emotion. i don't know what else to say... pearl jam is awesome.
  • TiaMijaTiaMija Posts: 597
    Who was the song written for?
    It's a beautiful song, both painful and cathartic.
    My thoughts are with all of you.
  • RiotAct10RiotAct10 Posts: 1,620
    I have been thinking about this song latley, and listening to it, and I guess just appreciating the fact that I do not truly feel the song yet. I hope it is a long time until I do, but I know what the next time I lose someone really close, or if I outlive my future wife, that this song may be unlistenable, or it may just be something that makes me feel better about it.

    Some people have been talking about this song and comparing it to Black, but I think the two songs are sort of unrelatable To me anyways, I interpret Black as being about breaking up with someone, most likely in a situation where you did not want to break up, and you don't understand why they did, and you are having a hard time getting over it. I know I am somewhat young, 23, and have not been married or anything like that, but a song like Black, a break-up song, really only hits me when I am in that situation. I mean, it is a beautiful song, and live it is probably my favorite song to see and feel, but I think Come Back is on a whole different level. As far as Black goes, or break ups, you can always find someone else, maybe someone better than the previous one, or you may even get back with them. (Like I said, I am young, and havent been married, or divorced or anything, so maybe I fully get it.)

    But on the other hand, Come Back is about losing a loved one, and a really close loved one at that, most likely a wife/husband, for good. I have lost a few family members, and it is strange to me to think I cannot talk to them ever again, and I think that is the difference between Come Back and Black.

    With Black there is a tomorrow in a sense, and with Come Back there isn't. With Black there was closure, but with Come Back there may not have been.

    I think Come Back is an amazing song, and I love the line "Please say, that if you hadn't of gone now, I wouldn't have lost you another way". I just think that is a really interesting thought for Ed to put in to lyrics.

    (I think this was my first post in this forum, and I actually came here looking for a post on Come Back, but I think I might have to stop by more often. It is fun to see what other people think of songs, and it is also fun to really find out more about what I think of songs.)
    words seem so out of place.

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  • slightofjeffslightofjeff Posts: 7,762
    Kenny Olav wrote:
    seriously. i cannot listen to this song very much at all. i'm glad it never became a radio hit. it's just too emotional to be hit with when you're standing in line at Dunkin Donuts at 7am.

    Excellent point.
    i cannot help at least well up when mike's solo kicks in and then eddie sings "I'll be here... come back... come back..." i imagine someone close to me dying... and fuck, i don't want to deal with it.

    This is exactly the point that always gets me, too.
    it really is the saddest song i know, and one of the most beautiful.

    You know, it IS a sad song, but in a weird way, there's some comfort to it, too. When Ed sings, "It's OK" ... you believe him. In the context of the song, it's as if your memories of this person are enough to comfort you. Just dreaming that they are next to you provides a brief respite from your loss.

    Of course, the song closes with the "I'll be here" part, which is just heartbreaking.
    everybody wants the most they can possibly get
    for the least they could possibly do
  • I think it's a beautiful song, but I have tears rolling down my face when I hear it too. Glad I'm not the only one :-)
  • 75Tammy7575Tammy75 Posts: 18
    I know this is old but I would like to tell my cheesy story of how I found love and Pearl Jam at the same time. I had been seeing this guy when PJ came out and I knew he liked Pearl Jam so I got the CD. We listened to it quite a bit and I really loved the song Come Back and knew that it was song about losing a loved one. He had to go away for a bit and one day I texted him COME BACK. He was out of state and saw it, burst out crying and immediately started making plans to *come back* and making plans for us to be together.

    Then about a month later, we took a small trip together and were sitting in a bar waiting for Shooter Jennings to start playing and the local radio station was playing in the background. Come Back started playing and it was the only time I ever heard it outside of listening to the CD (besides a show on NBC--can't remember the name of it but Come Back was played at the end of one episode), I knew that finally the love of my life had Come Back to me.

    BTW I am almost 40 and I get giddy silly still when I hear this song.
  • FahkaFahka Posts: 3,187
    I mean who can't relate to being by yourself and thinking about someone so much and caring so much for them that you just pray time will pass or reverse... Pearl jam songs are always stimulating but there is something special about how ed writes about raw human emotion. Comeback is a very good example of such a notion;p
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