Question about "Alive"

I got into a long discussion with one of my good friends about Pearl Jam a few weeks back.....He, like me, is a die hard PJ fan....However, something he told me disturbed me...

My friend tried to convince me that "Alive" had some deeper meanings...Well he suggested that it might have been about an encouter Eddie (or 1 of the other band members) had with their mother...And by encounter, he meant sexual........

I just laughed at him and told him he was fucked up for even thinking about such a thing....He's a very smart and knowlegeable guy tho, so I couldn't get to angry at him....I was just like "agree to disagree".....

Has anyone ever heard a crazy interpretation like this before? Is my friend just insane in his assumptions? Share your thoughts
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  • stonesgstringstonesgstring Posts: 4,613
    Alive was written about the relationship between ed's mum and ed's real father. You know, just after he found out that the guy he thought was his real dad wasn't?
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  • Yeah I know.......And that exactly what I was explaining to him.....I was trying to explain how Ed never knew he who is father really was until after he passed away, and all the feelings and emotions he was experiencing after his mother broke the news to him who is actual father was....

    But my friend kept bringing up a few lines that are hard for me to interpret....

    "Oh, she walks slowly, across a young man’s room
    She said I’m ready...for you
    I can’t remember anything to this very day
    ’cept the look, the look...
    Oh, you know where, now I can’t see, I just stare..."

    ^^^ these were the lines he used as reference

    Believe me, I'm not buying into this....I was just wondering if anyone else has heard this interpretation before
  • Lukin05Lukin05 Posts: 7
    Eddie said that her mother kept telling him how much he looks like his father.
    And he also said on some interview about "the look", and somehow he refered to "you now where" exactly as we are thinking, right there where he came out. make your own conclusions.
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  • stonesgstringstonesgstring Posts: 4,613
    oh yeah i know the bit you mean. yeah this has caused confusion before. a direct quote from ed on this is:

    "the story of the song is that a mother is with a father and the father dies. its an intense thing because the son looks just like the father. the son grows up to be the father, the person that she lost. his father's dead, and now this confusion, his mother, his love, how does he love her, how does she love him? in fact, the mother, even though she marries somebody else, there's no one she's ever loved more than the father. you know how it is, first loves and stuff. and the guy dies. how could you ever get him back? but the son. he looks exactly like him. it's uncanny. so she wants him. the son is oblivious to it all. he doesn't know what the fuck is going on. he's still dealing, he's still growing up. he's still dealing with love, the death of his father. all he knows is 'I'm still alive' - those three words, that's totally out of burden. but i'm stilla alive. i'm the lover that's still alive."

    thats the bit you mean.
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  • DarkStarDarkStar Posts: 734
    I got into a long discussion with one of my good friends about Pearl Jam a few weeks back.....He, like me, is a die hard PJ fan....However, something he told me disturbed me...

    My friend tried to convince me that "Alive" had some deeper meanings...Well he suggested that it might have been about an encouter Eddie (or 1 of the other band members) had with their mother...And by encounter, he meant sexual........

    I just laughed at him and told him he was fucked up for even thinking about such a thing....He's a very smart and knowlegeable guy tho, so I couldn't get to angry at him....I was just like "agree to disagree".....

    Has anyone ever heard a crazy interpretation like this before? Is my friend just insane in his assumptions? Share your thoughts

    it is my understanding that the song is autobiographical to an extent.

    the father dying and son not getting to know him...that's ed's story.

    the incestuous part, that's not ed's story. but it IS part of the meaing of the song.

    "she walks slowly, across a young man's room
    she said i'm ready...(to fuck you)
    i can't remember anything to this very day
    'cept the look, the look...
    (between her legs), now i can't see, i just stare..."

    Taken in the larger context of the Mamasan trilogy (Alive, Once, Footsteps), you have to realize that Alive cannot be completely autobiographical.

    So to answer your question, yes in part Alive deals with incest (a taboo topic)...as Once deals with the effects of said incestuous relationship (murder) and Footsteps caps off the story with the protagonist sitting in a jail cell, blaming it all on his mother...but it doesn't mean it's all "true" or was a complete experience by any particular band member.

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    And no one makes me close my eyes
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    And call to you across the sky....
  • mrsvedheadmrsvedhead Posts: 3
    I forget where but I read a quote from Eddie where he said that the 'sexual' aspect of the song with the boy and the mother was not at all, in the least bit autobiographical!! ;)
  • thanks to everyone for all the help....Thats why I came to this site, so much PJ knowledge!

    Yeah, I still thinks its pretty ambiguous....But none of us can pick apart Eddies head, and its prolly much better that way....

    Oh yeah just a tid bit of knowlege....Dennis Rodman(former NBA star) is a huge fan of PJ and I remember reading many years back that "Alive" was one of his most favorite songs of all time...
  • DarkStarDarkStar Posts: 734
    thanks to everyone for all the help....Thats why I came to this site, so much PJ knowledge!

    Yeah, I still thinks its pretty ambiguous....But none of us can pick apart Eddies head, and its prolly much better that way....

    Oh yeah just a tid bit of knowlege....Dennis Rodman(former NBA star) is a huge fan of PJ and I remember reading many years back that "Alive" was one of his most favorite songs of all time...

    how about that. did you also know that Black, Red, and Yellow (Hail, Hail Single released on 05-21-1997) is about dennis rodman? during the build-up to the last chorus there's a telephone answering machine message that dennis left for one of the band members...it goes like this:

    yo bro tell us what's happenin' um i'm on the west
    west side of, on the west coast
    give me a jingle uh when you get in
    from where the fuck you're at

    ds
    And no one sings me lullabyes
    And no one makes me close my eyes
    So I throw the windows wide
    And call to you across the sky....
  • PappasPappas Posts: 809
    eddie prefers to leave his songs to interpretation he doesnt discuss them much these days

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  • somewhere in 92 Ed introduces this song as something like:

    "This next one is a nice little ditty about the fucked up relationship between a mother and son, you know like incest, lies that kinda stuff. My mama one day explained to me what happened to my dad and i was like well mama that's fucked up, see ya but when can i say, somehow that story made it to this song."
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  • RockinInCanadaRockinInCanada Posts: 2,016
    This reminds of something years ago when I was told Daughter was about incest...Don't know how they came up with that stupid conclusion.
  • DarkStar wrote:
    how about that. did you also know that Black, Red, and Yellow (Hail, Hail Single released on 05-21-1997) is about dennis rodman? during the build-up to the last chorus there's a telephone answering machine message that dennis left for one of the band members...it goes like this:

    yo bro tell us what's happenin' um i'm on the west
    west side of, on the west coast
    give me a jingle uh when you get in
    from where the fuck you're at

    ds

    thats fuckin hilarious....thanks for that
  • restlesssoulrestlesssoul Posts: 6,951
    i dont have mush to say on these topics but i learned a hell of a lot on this thread, thanks
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