Just lost my mother in a car crash...

dhealy90
dhealy90 Posts: 124
in The Porch
Title says it all. At a dead end, so I turn to social media and the kind folks of my extended family, my Pearl Jam Family.

My mother was involved in a fatal car crash last Wednesday that took the life of my mother, and the passenger of the other vehicle. It is going to be a very difficult time rebounding from this. If there is anything anyone can do for my family and I during our times of trouble, I would severely appreciate it, though I do understand 100% that times are pretty shitty of recent. I would just like to spread the word of her beautiful soul.
Here is the link to our gofundme. Thank you for your support, thoughts, prayers…really anything. Good vibes, and great tunes…I love you all.
-Daniel Healy
https://www.gofundme.com/2pjamus
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  • pjman75
    pjman75 Indiana Posts: 850
    So very sorry
    I'm a lucky man to count on both hands the ones I love.

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  • mfc2006
    mfc2006 HTOWN Posts: 37,491
    Wow, man. So sorry for your loss. Sending thoughts and prayers to you and your family.
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  • dhealy90
    dhealy90 Posts: 124
    Thanks, you guys. Having a rough go of late. 1 day at a time though. Can't see it ever getting better, but the power of music sure helps a shit load.
  • ledvedderman
    ledvedderman Posts: 7,762
    I'm sorry to hear that, man. Take comfort in your memories and like the song says, this is just "goodbye for now". Those three words have amazing weight to them.
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  • iwasatpj20
    iwasatpj20 Rockford, IL Posts: 3,475
    Sorry to hear that, praying for you.
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  • Ray J. T.
    Ray J. T. Posts: 4,131
    Sorry to hear this, sending prayers and thoughts out to your family in this tough time.
  • Fifthelement
    Fifthelement Lotusland Posts: 6,965
    My deepest condolences to you and your family.
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  • FoxyRedLa
    FoxyRedLa Lauren / MI Posts: 4,810
    Daniel. This just fuckin sux. Im sorry man. Im sorry.
    Oh please let it rain today.
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  • cp3iverson
    cp3iverson Posts: 8,702
    Its going to be hard but she would want you to get through this until you see her again. Very sorry that this happened. Take care man.
  • Ukuleddie Vegger
    Ukuleddie Vegger Posts: 524
    Very sorry Daniel. I can't imagine what you and your family are going through.
  • bosshogg18
    bosshogg18 Tacoma, WA Posts: 1,100
    So sorry for your loss Daniel.
  • deadendp
    deadendp Northeast Ohio Posts: 10,434
    I'm very sorry to hear of your loss.
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  • djklambake
    djklambake PHX, AZ Posts: 2,524
    Daniel - you and your family are in our thoughts and prayers. Sending you massive e-hugs right now...
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  • RoleModelsinBlood31
    RoleModelsinBlood31 Austin TX Posts: 6,252
    So very sorry Daniel. Best to you and your family.
    I'm like an opening band for your mom.
  • 23scidoo
    23scidoo Thessaloniki,Greece Posts: 20,237
    So sorry to hear this Daniel..be strong..
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  • Sarava
    Sarava Naperville, IL Posts: 2,068
    I'm sorry for your family's loss :(
  • jonbond1779
    jonbond1779 London, UK Posts: 1,642
    Im sorry Daniel - I too lost my mum suddenly 7 years go now. I I know from personal experience that the wounds do heal, although the scar never disappears. Be strong.
    "Bring it back, to the clean form. To the pure form"

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  • eeriepadave
    eeriepadave West Chester, PA Posts: 43,690
    damn dude, sorry. thoughts are with you
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  • footsteps10
    footsteps10 Danville, VA Posts: 77
    edited September 2016
    Sorry for your loss dude. I know this sucks, but things will get better as the days go by. It may not seem like it, but it will. Keep solace in music and your memories. Praying for you and your family
  • wasa1971
    wasa1971 Calgary, Canada Posts: 2,144
    I'm so sorry for your loss. Sending prayers to your family.

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