Have you shown her concert videos? What does she think? There are quite a few threads on this topic - you should do the search and pull them up, as it has been discussed several times. I think 7 is a bit young. Mine was days away from being 9 when she went to her first one, and she was always music obsessed (she is now a music education/opera vocalist major in college) since she was a little baby, so it felt right, but each child and family is different. Make sure your daughter has an idea of what she is getting in to.
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how cool it would it be for her to tell her friends that her first show was at PJ when she was 7 with her dad!
Chances are her friends will say, "Who the fuck is Pearl Jam?'
I know 20-something year olds that say that now! But they know who Jason Aldean and Rihanna are... embarrassing!
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Great responses, everyone. I will probably not take her because I do think 7 is too young, but some kids might be able to handle it better than others. Maybe if it was a weekend I'd let her stay up late, but not on a school night. She will be disappointed - she does really want to go, and I even just got her a PJ t-shirt that fits her perfectly. But these are the decisions good parents have to make!
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My daughter has been asking to go to a concert. Hopefully PJ will tour here next year and she'll be 12 then which I think is old enough. I wouldn't take her at 7. Just my opinion.
Just do it...I've been dragging all three of my offspring to shows since they were all toddlers...with proper ear protection of course. Got the youngest started off early in utero at Groundwork 2001 & Bumbershoot....my oldest was pretty stoked when Cantrell hit the stage with PJ in LA 2009 (last time I saw 2nd row fan club seats...thanks whiners!) and my middle child....well she usually just curls up and sleeps or whines through most shows. Bring them chillens!! Unless you want to listen to 1D all the time! :thumbup:
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I have started my kids out with the Life is Good festival in Canton, MA. The festival is geared towards kids with children music (Fresh Beat Band, Yo Gabba Gabba, Kidz Bop) during the day but also brings in great adult acts (Dave & Tim, Ray Lamontagne, Ben Harper, Donovan Frankenreiter, Jack Johnson, Grace Potter, ALO, etc). My oldest has been all three years and she is now 7 and my youngest went last year at 4. They also have all kid activities during the day such as face painting, obstacle courses, rock wall, arts and crafts, etc. Plus the festival is so spread out that loud music is not a factor. I also take my parents and book two hotel rooms is walking distance so if the kids get tired they can go back to the room with a sitter and my wife and I can stay until the end.
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I really think it depends on the kid...is she interested in the whole thing, does she like to listen to the music or watch videos at home? I don't think a seated concert is that bad of an environment for a kid, and I'm sure we've all skipped school for worse reasons.
The question you have to ask, and give yourself an honest answer, is: Would SHE enjoy being there? I know you'd love to take her, but if you're not 100% sure that she would really like it as well, it might be better to wait.
I really think it depends on the kid...is she interested in the whole thing, does she like to listen to the music or watch videos at home? I don't think a seated concert is that bad of an environment for a kid, and I'm sure we've all skipped school for worse reasons.
The question you have to ask, and give yourself an honest answer, is: Would SHE enjoy being there? I know you'd love to take her, but if you're not 100% sure that she would really like it as well, it might be better to wait.
I think she would enjoy being there, but not for an 2-3 hour show. She has a couple of favorite songs she would be excited to hear, and she would get excited when they first hit the stage, but I am afraid she will fade out after the first hour or so.
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I am taking my 8 year old 3rd grade son to his first concert. This will be my 24th show and the chance to share the PJ experience with my kid (s) is a dream come true for me. As far as drunk assholes, I will let security do their job if the situation comes up. Most fan club seats tend to be seasoned fans who are older and look out for their fellow PJ fans. I was wondering if anyone has good advice on what kind of ear plugs work well to filter out damaging volume without missing the music? do earplugs like that exist? I also have general admission and was looking to trade for club seats if anyone is interested in working that out.
Bring her! I'm bringing my 5 and 6 year olds to Pittsburgh and they couldn't be more excited. Sure I'd personally enjoy the show more if I wasn't making sure they were ok constantly, but it's worth it cuz they'll love it. I also understand that they could be exposed to some things that they wouldn't ordinarily be, but they are smart and understand things and as long as I show them what's right, it's no issue. So I say take your girl and enjoy the best band on Earth with your best friend.
This is just insane to me somehow.. Like i said earlier, I dont have kids.. and I readily admit I may be missing something here, but a 5 and 6 year old?? You said they are smart, and I am sure they are, but how the hell do you explain a fist fight breaking out? how do you explain drunk puke and nudity? Sure, this doesn't happen at everyshow.. or maybe it does, but it certainly doesn't happen in every section.. but why roll them dice? why put a 5 and a 6 year old in a situation where all hell could break loose?
I see by your signature that you have been to a bunch of shows.. and being a child of Detroit like me, I would be willing to bet you have been to a shit ton more other shows.. Have you never seen anything nuts? Are you one of the lucky who hasn't seen a 3 way brawl because someone got beer on their shoes? How do you explain that sweet, smokey aroma?
Concerts like this are adult situations.. and actually, bringing a child to something like this might make some people in your section act right.. but, to others, you are making them feel uncomfortable because ther is a 5 and 6 year old sitting next to them at an adult concert..
Leave your kids home..
Fair points to be sure. But I've seen fights at Tigers games. I've seen people puke at Red Wings games. Should I not take them there either? Maybe I should just lock them in a closet until their 12? Admittedly the 5 year old may struggle to make it all the way through, but we couldn't bring just one. They love Pearl Jam. The 6 year old (pictured in my avatar) asks to watch "Live At The Showbox" on a daily basis. We've chosen to raise our kids by experience rather than having them live in "boxes of fear". We could have gone to Buffalo and Pittsburgh had we chosen to leave them home. Could have put in for GA as well, but I'd rather they get to see their favorite band before its too late. I went to see Elvis Costello with my Dad when I was 8 and it greatly intensified my already strong interest in music. To each his own though. And to anyone who may be near us in Pittsburgh, enjoy the concert as you would, I will answer any questions my kids may have about people's behaviors. Hope everybody enjoys the shows. And to the OP, I'll say it again, bring the girl. Who knows when the chance to see your favorite band with your daughter will come again.
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If I were you I'd just let him walk in. Think of how tired you'll be carrying a 13 yr. old around all night.
Dude, that's kinda bushleague to try and make everyone think your funny off me and my son's expense. :nono:[/quote]
Was just the use of the word carrying when it seemed "taking" seemed more appropriate.[/quote]
You know that it means the same thing in the context I used it in, but your just being a self-righteous prick who obvisously enjoys trying to tear down others. Your comment added nothing to this discussion, nothing at all. I wouldn't have responded except for the fact that your negative comment involved my kid, and that isn't gonna happen here or anywhere else for that matter. So continue on your quest to police the forums and rid them of your perceived misusers of the Englush language.
Terrible idea. Way too young. I've got a 9 year old & an 11 year old. Both have been to Sox & Pats games with me, but a PJ concert is a completely different animal. Very loud, lots of aggressiveness, tons of drunkenness, and lots of drug use (and not just harmless weed, we're talking straight out chopping up lines right at the seats - I've seen it way more than once). Worcester has some of the most lax security I have ever encountered (which is partially why I like the venue so much). Joint smoking will be more than here & there, it will be EVERYWHERE. Plus, people will be standing the entire time. My 5' wife can't see the show sometimes, nevermind a little kid. I would never be able to enjoy myself with my kids at a show. Would be constantly worried about my kid getting pushed, or lost in the crowd, or some dummy spilling beer on them (all of which has also happened to my wife). 15 or 16 maybe, but never in a million years a 7 year old.
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You know that it means the same thing in the context I used it in, but your just being a self-righteous prick who obvisously enjoys trying to tear down others. Your comment added nothing to this discussion, nothing at all. I wouldn't have responded except for the fact that your negative comment involved my kid, and that isn't gonna happen here or anywhere else for that matter. So continue on your quest to police the forums and rid them of your perceived misusers of the Englush language.
I'll say this and leave it alone afterwards:
I made a small joke about your wording, and only the wording, was not meant as an insult to you, or certainly not your child. Was just trying to lighten things up, because I've seen these discussions get heated in the past. No offense was intended, though you obviously took some. However I don't see a need to call me a "self righteous prick". Sorry I offended you, sorry you didn't see the humor. Have a nice day, enjoy your show and don't call me a derogatory name again thank you.
You know that it means the same thing in the context I used it in, but your just being a self-righteous prick who obvisously enjoys trying to tear down others. Your comment added nothing to this discussion, nothing at all. I wouldn't have responded except for the fact that your negative comment involved my kid, and that isn't gonna happen here or anywhere else for that matter. So continue on your quest to police the forums and rid them of your perceived misusers of the Englush language.
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To the people who think its okayto bring a 5 or 6 year old to a Rock Concert: SO INAPPROPRIATE
A 5 or 6 year old doesn't have abstract thinkning, cannot understand life and death; literally, etc., no matter how bright you think your children are. Exposing them to drunk people, marijuana, possible nudity, fighting, the loud music, not to mention the very tiring night is very selfish.
Pretty sure if a 6 year old went into school the next day and told their teacher they were at a Rock concert until 11:30 the night before that's why they are so tired, children services might be paying you a visit.
To the people who think its okayto bring a 5 or 6 year old to a Rock Concert: SO INAPPROPRIATE
A 5 or 6 year old doesn't have abstract thinkning, cannot understand life and death; literally, etc., no matter how bright you think your children are. Exposing them to drunk people, marijuana, possible nudity, fighting, the loud music, not to mention the very tiring night is very selfish.
Pretty sure if a 6 year old went into school the next day and told their teacher they were at a Rock concert until 11:30 the night before that's why they are so tired, children services might be paying you a visit.
Thanks for the input, but I didn't ask for your opinion. I know my kids and what they can and can't handle. My kids are my world and I would never put them in danger. Obviously they're not going to school the next day. They've been to plenty of baseball and hockey games around drunk people and they're just fine. Death? Nudity? Really? Cuz that is so common at a PJ show. Good day sir.
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I get it now - bringing a 5 year old to a rock concert over sending them to school.
Makes sense.
Pretty sure if I dropped my 5 and 6 year olds off at an empty school on a Saturday that would be why they called CPS on me, not for taking them to a rock concert.
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personally I think wanting to take a 7 year old to a pj concert is a case of parents wanting to be friends with their kids instead of acting like a parent. sorry kind of a rude answer but a question was asked so I answered honestly.
I know over the years I've seen people ask this question, but now that I am in that situation I thought I'd see what people felt, or from personal experience...
I got tickets to both Worcester shows. Night one got GA - going with a friend. Night two I got decent seats in an upper section. I have a seven year old daughter who told me that she wants to go with me. Of course, that makes me a proud dad, but is that a good idea to take her? I know it would be loud (ear plugs). I know it would be late (she would have a seat if she needed to nap). If she went, how cool it would it be for her to tell her friends that her first show was at PJ when she was 7 with her dad! But it is on a Wednesday night with school the next day...
What do people think? Anyone with kids that young ever bring them to a show?
I won't take my kids until they are MUCH older (5&2 now). If they're too young to go to the bathroom and find their way back by themselves, I say leave them at home! I can't miss at minute, let alone 10-20, of a PJ show
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Of course it is a nice thought to have children that are cool enough to go to rock shows with their parents, but honestly, I think it is kind of selfish by the parents. I don't think a 5 or 6 year old can enjoy a rock show that is intended for adults as much as an adult can. When I was 5 or 6, drunk people scared the shit out of me. Just like the dark and too loud noises and lots of strangers. I think I was a normal child. If I had children, I would not expose them to something like a rock show, however cool it might be. Find a friend who is grown up that you can take with you. Spare your sweet daughter the stress of a late night mid week rock show with lots of grown ups who just wanna spend a night out. Also, I would worry the whole night when there was a little child standing next to me the whole show. Even if their parents were there. I would not be able to relax and enjoy myself like an adult.
It felt really awkward to see the daddies with their young, tired and stressed-out children walking around the "funny" neighbourhood around Wrigley field at 4 in the morning on a weekend night. I bet they all intended the best for their kids ...
Everybody is different. Just my two cents.
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Well, you're her dad so you should do what you think is best... But since you're asking for opinions, mine is that it seems like way too late a night for a 7 year old on a week night. Really she shouldn't even be going to school the next morning, and I am not sure if keeping her home from school because she went to a concert the night before and didn't get home until after midnight is a very good lesson for her. Also, it could be kind of a downer for the fans around you to be next to a little kid sleeping in her seat.... actually, just having a 7 year old there at all isn't great for the people around you. it can really put a damper on the mood. So there is that.
Maybe wait until there is a show on a weekend at least? Even then, I do agree with those who said rock concerts really aren't appropriate for kids that young. Lots of swearing, drugs, and alcohol. Finally, don't use earplugs if you take her use those bigass thing that cover her entire ear. Anyway, again, she's your kid so do what you think is best for her. But i wouldn't do it if it were my kid.
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Great responses, everyone. I will probably not take her because I do think 7 is too young, but some kids might be able to handle it better than others. Maybe if it was a weekend I'd let her stay up late, but not on a school night. She will be disappointed - she does really want to go, and I even just got her a PJ t-shirt that fits her perfectly. But these are the decisions good parents have to make!
:thumbup: A good and responsible decision IMO. (probably should have read the thread before posting about it )
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personally I think wanting to take a 7 year old to a pj concert is a case of parents wanting to be friends with their kids instead of acting like a parent. sorry kind of a rude answer but a question was asked so I answered honestly.
Yes, this is pretty much it. A rock concert is just not an environment for young children and in most cases, it's the parent who wants the child to experience it, not the child begging to go. Wait until they are teens and can handle it, and you'll have a better time anyway.
Lot of good suggestions here, kind of goes to show that there's no one size fits all approach to the decision you're facing.
I think that first and foremost, it depends on the kid. I have a seven year old son that I cannot wait to bring to a Pearl Jam concert but I won't bring him for at least a couple more years. This doesn't mean I don't think younger kids shouldn't be at shows, I just know my son and know that the noise, crowd and 12-1am evening is not something he can handle at this point. That said, I have seen kids his age and slightly older have a ball at concerts (PJ included).
Yes, one drunk prick can ruin the night but you're smarter than a drunk asshole and by now already know how to protect your kid. You've been to more than a few shows and are more than likely aware of how to avoid a disappointing situation. Imo, bring the kid (if you believe she is ready and up for it), get her a plate of nachos and a soda and hit the seats and crowd watch from there. Feel free to tell your neighbors that this is your young daughter's first Pearl Jam show and though you don't want them to hesitate enjoying themselves to the fullest, please keep her in mind. Most adults will appreciate and respect the situation and likely, with a PJ crowd, engage her and make the evening that much more enjoyable. I, for one, LOVE seeing kids enjoying themselves at concerts.
You just have to be very honest with yourself about your daughter's ability to take on the evening. After that, it's up to you to take control of the situation and do your best to avoid sticky situations.
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I know 20-something year olds that say that now! But they know who Jason Aldean and Rihanna are... embarrassing!
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Sounds enjoyable for you...
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Needless to say...she's been to the fewest shows.
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The question you have to ask, and give yourself an honest answer, is: Would SHE enjoy being there? I know you'd love to take her, but if you're not 100% sure that she would really like it as well, it might be better to wait.
I think she would enjoy being there, but not for an 2-3 hour show. She has a couple of favorite songs she would be excited to hear, and she would get excited when they first hit the stage, but I am afraid she will fade out after the first hour or so.
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Fair points to be sure. But I've seen fights at Tigers games. I've seen people puke at Red Wings games. Should I not take them there either? Maybe I should just lock them in a closet until their 12? Admittedly the 5 year old may struggle to make it all the way through, but we couldn't bring just one. They love Pearl Jam. The 6 year old (pictured in my avatar) asks to watch "Live At The Showbox" on a daily basis. We've chosen to raise our kids by experience rather than having them live in "boxes of fear". We could have gone to Buffalo and Pittsburgh had we chosen to leave them home. Could have put in for GA as well, but I'd rather they get to see their favorite band before its too late. I went to see Elvis Costello with my Dad when I was 8 and it greatly intensified my already strong interest in music. To each his own though. And to anyone who may be near us in Pittsburgh, enjoy the concert as you would, I will answer any questions my kids may have about people's behaviors. Hope everybody enjoys the shows. And to the OP, I'll say it again, bring the girl. Who knows when the chance to see your favorite band with your daughter will come again.
Dude, that's kinda bushleague to try and make everyone think your funny off me and my son's expense. :nono:[/quote]
Was just the use of the word carrying when it seemed "taking" seemed more appropriate.[/quote]
You know that it means the same thing in the context I used it in, but your just being a self-righteous prick who obvisously enjoys trying to tear down others. Your comment added nothing to this discussion, nothing at all. I wouldn't have responded except for the fact that your negative comment involved my kid, and that isn't gonna happen here or anywhere else for that matter. So continue on your quest to police the forums and rid them of your perceived misusers of the Englush language.
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2018 Wrigley (x2), Fenway (x2)
2022 MSG. Nashville
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2024 Vegas 2, Wrigley 2, Fenway (x2), Auckland (x2), Gold Coast, Melbourne 1
I made a small joke about your wording, and only the wording, was not meant as an insult to you, or certainly not your child. Was just trying to lighten things up, because I've seen these discussions get heated in the past. No offense was intended, though you obviously took some. However I don't see a need to call me a "self righteous prick". Sorry I offended you, sorry you didn't see the humor. Have a nice day, enjoy your show and don't call me a derogatory name again thank you.
A 5 or 6 year old doesn't have abstract thinkning, cannot understand life and death; literally, etc., no matter how bright you think your children are. Exposing them to drunk people, marijuana, possible nudity, fighting, the loud music, not to mention the very tiring night is very selfish.
Pretty sure if a 6 year old went into school the next day and told their teacher they were at a Rock concert until 11:30 the night before that's why they are so tired, children services might be paying you a visit.
Thanks for the input, but I didn't ask for your opinion. I know my kids and what they can and can't handle. My kids are my world and I would never put them in danger. Obviously they're not going to school the next day. They've been to plenty of baseball and hockey games around drunk people and they're just fine. Death? Nudity? Really? Cuz that is so common at a PJ show. Good day sir.
I get it now - bringing a 5 year old to a rock concert over sending them to school.
Makes sense.
Pretty sure if I dropped my 5 and 6 year olds off at an empty school on a Saturday that would be why they called CPS on me, not for taking them to a rock concert.
I won't take my kids until they are MUCH older (5&2 now). If they're too young to go to the bathroom and find their way back by themselves, I say leave them at home! I can't miss at minute, let alone 10-20, of a PJ show
I felt awkward smoking a jay in front of a 12 year old at Wrigley, but it was during Corduroy and the waiting literally was driving me mad. :shock:
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2024 Vegas 2, Wrigley 2, Fenway (x2), Auckland (x2), Gold Coast, Melbourne 1
Maybe wait until there is a show on a weekend at least? Even then, I do agree with those who said rock concerts really aren't appropriate for kids that young. Lots of swearing, drugs, and alcohol. Finally, don't use earplugs if you take her use those bigass thing that cover her entire ear.
Yes, this is pretty much it. A rock concert is just not an environment for young children and in most cases, it's the parent who wants the child to experience it, not the child begging to go. Wait until they are teens and can handle it, and you'll have a better time anyway.
I think that first and foremost, it depends on the kid. I have a seven year old son that I cannot wait to bring to a Pearl Jam concert but I won't bring him for at least a couple more years. This doesn't mean I don't think younger kids shouldn't be at shows, I just know my son and know that the noise, crowd and 12-1am evening is not something he can handle at this point. That said, I have seen kids his age and slightly older have a ball at concerts (PJ included).
Yes, one drunk prick can ruin the night but you're smarter than a drunk asshole and by now already know how to protect your kid. You've been to more than a few shows and are more than likely aware of how to avoid a disappointing situation. Imo, bring the kid (if you believe she is ready and up for it), get her a plate of nachos and a soda and hit the seats and crowd watch from there. Feel free to tell your neighbors that this is your young daughter's first Pearl Jam show and though you don't want them to hesitate enjoying themselves to the fullest, please keep her in mind. Most adults will appreciate and respect the situation and likely, with a PJ crowd, engage her and make the evening that much more enjoyable. I, for one, LOVE seeing kids enjoying themselves at concerts.
You just have to be very honest with yourself about your daughter's ability to take on the evening. After that, it's up to you to take control of the situation and do your best to avoid sticky situations.