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LikeAnOceanLikeAnOcean Posts: 7,718
edited July 2012 in All Encompassing Trip
Was planning on proposing to my girl tomorrow..

She forgot it was her dads birthday.

Her and I are still going out, but earlier in the day. Do I still do it or wait until next weekend???


Gaaaaaaaah!

:?
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  • BinauralJamBinauralJam Posts: 14,158
    i'd wait if you can, some great ideas might occur to you
  • StillHereStillHere Posts: 7,795
    wait

    it needs to be your special day :)

    and congratulations!
    peace,
    jo

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  • LikeAnOceanLikeAnOcean Posts: 7,718
    StillHere wrote:
    wait

    it needs to be your special day :)

    and congratulations!
    She insists on going forward with our special plans.. I tried to replan for next weekend, but she is too busy in the foreseeable future..

    She's actually telling me now she will see her father on Monday so we can still make it our day together. :?

    Our real anniversary is the day we meet, so I'm not sure if tomorrow would be celebrated yearly anyways.
  • rollingsrollings Posts: 7,124
    Go ahead and do it.

    The momentum is there. The father's birthday won't take away from it, nor will it take away from the father's birthday.

    They will enhance each other. 8-)

    Do it
  • LikeAnOceanLikeAnOcean Posts: 7,718
    rollings wrote:
    Go ahead and do it.

    The momentum is there. The father's birthday won't take away from it, nor will it take away from the father's birthday.

    They will enhance each other. 8-)

    Do it
    Thanks. I think she has an idea and that's why she might be insisting we still go ahead with plans.. I don't think wed be celebrating this day next year anyways. Our anniversary would be wedding date or the day we meet.. Shouldnt interfere with her dads Bday.
  • Hugh Freaking DillonHugh Freaking Dillon Posts: 14,010
    I don't think either my wife or myself remembers the day I proposed. we remember the exact way it was done, the excitement, etc, but not the date. as you said, the important dates to remember are behind and ahead of you.
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  • comebackgirlcomebackgirl Posts: 9,885
    Good luck LAO! :mrgreen:
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  • LikeAnOceanLikeAnOcean Posts: 7,718
    Thanks!


    Found out my cousin is getting married after dating a guy 1 year and only a few months for engagement period.. Seems kind of soon to me considering her first marriage failed after she married quickly and young.


    I'm on 20 months now in my relationship, and plan on a 1 year engagement. Feels right, but I guess it's different with everyone.

    The cousin is pretty religious. There might be some kind of no sex law going on, hence why they seem to be rushing it.
  • pandorapandora Posts: 21,855
    LikeAnOcean wrote:
    Thanks!


    Found out my cousin is getting married after dating a guy 1 year and only a few months for engagement period.. Seems kind of soon to me considering her first marriage failed after she married quickly and young.


    I'm on 20 months now in my relationship, and plan on a 1 year engagement. Feels right, but I guess it's different with everyone.

    The cousin is pretty religious. There might be some kind of no sex law going on, hence why they seem to be rushing it.
    Congratulations! :clap:

    Your cousin's plans is as ours was, we dated a year...
    married 6 months later, just celebrated # 31.
    Maybe they just know it's right!

    But no, for us no abstaining, sex too important a part of attraction to deny,
    too important a part of spending a lifetime together.

    Really, no need for a long engagement, doesn't make marriage any easier
    or more successful.

    Comes down to staying committed to each other, takes two.
  • LikeAnOceanLikeAnOcean Posts: 7,718
    I'm more comfortable around my girlfriend than anyone I've ever known, and I know she'll say yes, but why the hell am I still nervous? 8-)
  • CareyCarey Posts: 2,361
    LikeAnOcean wrote:
    I'm more comfortable around my girlfriend than anyone I've ever known, and I know she'll say yes, but why the hell am I still nervous? 8-)


    oooooh cause it's a big thing! I agree with the others to wait, btw. And good luck!!
    "Can't buy what I want because it's free..."
  • Hugh Freaking DillonHugh Freaking Dillon Posts: 14,010
    LikeAnOcean wrote:
    I'm more comfortable around my girlfriend than anyone I've ever known, and I know she'll say yes, but why the hell am I still nervous? 8-)

    I met my wife in 1991. We were just friends up until 2000. I proposed in 2003. We knew each other inside and out for 12 years, and I was nervous from the time I got the ring to when I proposed (about 2 weeks). But it's something you will never forget.
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  • mca47mca47 Posts: 13,280
    Don't do it!!!!



    ;):lol:
  • guitar59guitar59 Posts: 1,221
    Did you do it? Are you engaged?
  • 8181 Posts: 58,276
    take the ring back, live in sin...
    81 is now off the air

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  • LizardLizard Posts: 12,091
    81 wrote:
    take the ring back, live in sin...
    maybe he doesn't want to go to hell!!!!!
    So I'll just lie down and wait for the dream
    Where I'm not ugly and you're lookin' at me
  • mca47mca47 Posts: 13,280
    Lizard wrote:
    81 wrote:
    take the ring back, live in sin...
    maybe he doesn't want to go to hell!!!!!

    Is he moving to Baltimore? :o
  • 8181 Posts: 58,276
    mca47 wrote:
    Lizard wrote:
    81 wrote:
    take the ring back, live in sin...
    maybe he doesn't want to go to hell!!!!!

    Is he moving to Baltimore? :o

    i thought Hell was in Michigan
    81 is now off the air

    Off_Air.jpg
  • DS1119DS1119 Posts: 33,497
    :corn:
  • LizardLizard Posts: 12,091
    :lol::lol:

    Good Luck OP!
    So I'll just lie down and wait for the dream
    Where I'm not ugly and you're lookin' at me
  • mca47mca47 Posts: 13,280
    81 wrote:

    i thought Hell was in Michigan

    Michigan is hell's little cousin.
    Wisconsin is hell's ugly, half-retarded brother.
    Baltimore is hell.


    :D
  • 8181 Posts: 58,276
    mca47 wrote:
    81 wrote:

    i thought Hell was in Michigan

    Michigan is hell's little cousin.
    Wisconsin is hell's ugly, half-retarded brother.
    Baltimore is hell.


    :D
    http://maps.google.com/maps?q=hell,+mi& ... n&t=m&z=15
    81 is now off the air

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  • mysticweedmysticweed Posts: 3,710
    StillHere wrote:
    wait

    it needs to be your special day :)

    and congratulations!

    ditto
    and
    ditto
    fuck 'em if they can't take a joke

    "what a long, strange trip it's been"
  • LikeAnOceanLikeAnOcean Posts: 7,718
    guitar59 wrote:
    Did you do it? Are you engaged?
    4 days into it. 8-)
  • guitar59guitar59 Posts: 1,221
    LikeAnOcean wrote:
    guitar59 wrote:
    Did you do it? Are you engaged?
    4 days into it. 8-)


    Congrats!
  • LizardLizard Posts: 12,091
    :clap::clap:


    welcome to hell!!!!

    :lol::lol::lol:
    So I'll just lie down and wait for the dream
    Where I'm not ugly and you're lookin' at me
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