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NEW YORK —
Tom Gabel, the lead singer of punk rock band Against Me!, says he's becoming a woman.

The 31-year-old tells Rolling Stone that as a kid he felt disconnected from his body and has a condition called gender dysphoria. He plans to take hormones and undergo electrolysis. He also is considering gender reassignment surgery.

Says Gabel: "Growing up, my experience with transsexualism was nothing but shame."

Gabel says his new name will be Laura Jane Grace. He says he's not attracted to men and will still be married to his wife. They have a 2-year-old daughter.

Against Me! is best known for the song "Thrash Unreal." The group will hit the road for its tour with The Cult later this month.

The June issue of Rolling Stone hits newsstands Friday.
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  • Released1980Released1980 Posts: 1,790
    Alright, enough. PJ needs to announce this fall tour already cuz the world is def coming to an end soon, sorry.... :fp:
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  • Tom KTom K Posts: 842
    I have a friend who served two tours in Iraq and is currently becoming a woman. I guess he is Pre-Op. I supported him when he came out of the closet and I support what he is doing now, but haven't really talked to him since he began his change. I'm guessing there would probably be a different dynamic to the conversation now as compared to the past..
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  • Lost In OhioLost In Ohio Posts: 6,831
    Released1980 wrote:
    Alright, enough. PJ needs to announce this fall tour already cuz the world is def coming to an end soon, sorry.... :fp:

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  • TyTy Posts: 1,007
    Good on him. Brave dude!
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  • brianluxbrianlux Posts: 41,694
    Interesting story but why on The Porch? Is there a Pearl Jam connection here I don't know about?
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  • curlygirly9curlygirly9 Posts: 1,872
    Good for him. I can't imagine going through something like this. It must be a difficult decision, but he probably feels relieved as well.
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  • righteousbaberighteousbabe Posts: 662
    brianlux wrote:
    Interesting story but why on The Porch? Is there a Pearl Jam connection here I don't know about?

    Maybe one of the Pearl Jam members was once a girl. That would tie things in nicely.
  • deserteddotsedeserteddotse Posts: 1,276
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  • PJ_SoulPJ_Soul Posts: 49,891
    Glad that he will have a chance to feel right with himself; I hope it does for him what he hopes ... And double good for him, because that is one fucking understanding wife!!!!
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  • White DiscussionWhite Discussion Posts: 2,812
    HA!!! Against ME! have some great music, I'm excited to see them with the Cult in June. Would be crazy if this dude does the full women thing tho and still sounds like he does :lol:
    Released1980 wrote:
    Alright, enough. PJ needs to announce this fall tour already cuz the world is def coming to an end soon, sorry.... :fp:
  • WobbieWobbie Posts: 29,933
    Against Me! is a damn good band....at lot better than most of the crap out here ;)
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  • rolenrockrolenrock Posts: 312
    brianlux wrote:
    Interesting story but why on The Porch? Is there a Pearl Jam connection here I don't know about?

    Didnt you know? Stone was asked to participate in the time honored tradition of ctaching the nutsack when they snip it! GO STONE!
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  • mfc2006mfc2006 HTOWN Posts: 37,411
    rolenrock wrote:
    brianlux wrote:
    Interesting story but why on The Porch? Is there a Pearl Jam connection here I don't know about?

    Didnt you know? Stone was asked to participate in the time honored tradition of ctaching the nutsack when they snip it! GO STONE!

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  • PJ_SoulPJ_Soul Posts: 49,891
    mfc2006 wrote:
    rolenrock wrote:
    brianlux wrote:
    Interesting story but why on The Porch? Is there a Pearl Jam connection here I don't know about?

    Didnt you know? Stone was asked to participate in the time honored tradition of ctaching the nutsack when they snip it! GO STONE!

    :?
    +1
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  • rolenrockrolenrock Posts: 312
    that was my stone/ mediocre chuck norris quote ... i posted it IN context instead of posting it in that thread.
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  • sleeplikeadogsleeplikeadog Posts: 156
    Against Me! is my favorite band besides Pearl Jam, and I must say I didn't see it coming. Even though he wrote a song that said "If I could have chosen, I would have been born a woman, My mother once told me she would have named me Laura". I thought it was from someone else's perspective.

    I'm proud of him for being brave with this, though, and I still love the band and support the band and whatever it is that Tom/Laura does.
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  • Brisk.Brisk. Posts: 11,557
    PJ related?
  • dimitrispearljamdimitrispearljam Posts: 139,549
    cool...people need to do what they feel like ,not what should..
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  • curlygirly9curlygirly9 Posts: 1,872
    :)
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  • max8700max8700 Posts: 208
    Against Me! has become one of my favorite bands as well over the past few years (I'll admit, I missed the early 2000s era), and Tom Gabel is one of the best lyricists and performers out there, in my opinion. When I first heard this news, many thoughts came to mind: Is this the end of AM!? What will the songs sound like once he/she goes through hormonal treatments? Will they still tour?

    Then I realized every question coming to my mind was all about my reaction to the news and pretty fuckin' selfish. I cannot imagine what it was like for her to live her life all these years dealing with gender dysphoria, and how brave she is to come forward in a country that still shuns the LGBT community in many respects.

    I am still coming to grips with this news as a fan, but I wish nothing but support to Tom Gabel as he enters a new phase in life.
  • KathiKathi Posts: 1,828
    max8700 wrote:
    Against Me! has become one of my favorite bands as well over the past few years (I'll admit, I missed the early 2000s era), and Tom Gabel is one of the best lyricists and performers out there, in my opinion. When I first heard this news, many thoughts came to mind: Is this the end of AM!? What will the songs sound like once he/she goes through hormonal treatments? Will they still tour?

    Then I realized every question coming to my mind was all about my reaction to the news and pretty fuckin' selfish. I cannot imagine what it was like for her to live her life all these years dealing with gender dysphoria, and how brave she is to come forward in a country that still shuns the LGBT community in many respects.

    I am still coming to grips with this news as a fan, but I wish nothing but support to Tom Gabel as he enters a new phase in life.

    couldn't agree more.
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