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pearljam_addictionpearljam_addiction Posts: 668
edited June 2006 in Given To Fly (live)
Usually PTD doesnt take place until a few weeks after the last show isee, but crazily enough it started taking place before i even saw 6/03/06. the fact that Est Rutherford was going to be my last show for the tour kept playing in my head , so all of this week leading up to the show i was getting real sad. i hate this feeling i am hoping maybe to work something out where i can see a show in pittsburgh or on the west coast. or hopefully theyll wil be back around the north east sometime again before the year is over. even if they arent. i still have hope for 07. if i go by the recurring trend, i have no doubt 07 ill see another show
since 03 i have seen them every year!
"I Will Scream my Lungs out 'til it fills this Room "

" I Will Feel Alive as Long as I am Free"

"Are We Getting SomeThing Out Of this All Encompassing Trip? Makes Much More Sense To Live In The Present Tense"

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  • votegirlvotegirl Posts: 95
    I am in denial.

    It will set in about Tuesday. Till then, I will keep hope alive for Pittsburg.
    I burst, out
    I'm transformed!
  • Big Big WavesBig Big Waves Posts: 92
    honestly, i'm watching the Garden DVD now. I'm also looking at flights to California to go to the SD and LA shows! I'm so broke from the first leg, who am i kidding?!
    94: 4-6, 96: 10-2, 98: 9-13, 03: 4-29, 7-2, 7-3, 7-8, 7-9, 7-11, 04: 10-1, 05: 10-3, 06: 5-5, 5-13, 5-24, 5-25, 6-1, 6-3, 08: 6-24, 6-25, 6-27, 6-30, 10: 5-15, 5-18, 5-20, 5-21, 12: 9-2, 13: 10-18, 10-19, 10-21, 10-22, 10-25, 10-27
  • 3inputchick3inputchick Posts: 845
    In my heart I believe that they will swing back around in the fall sometime.
    They love MSG and Uniondale.....

    maybe if we all cross our fingers and say a little prayer......
    A pessimist is a man who thinks all women are bad. An optimist is one who hopes they are.
  • Dan1984Dan1984 Posts: 444
    At least you got to see them. I live in Phoenix and there not even coming here, as of now anyway. I cannot even go to the nearby shows because I will be on vacation on the east coast. Nice! Anyway I have to boots to download and jam to. It's not the same but it will have to do.
    06/05/2003 - San Diego
    06/06/2003 - Las Vegas
    06/07/2003 - Phoenix
  • TunnelThroughDenialTunnelThroughDenial Posts: 769
    Dan1984 wrote:
    At least you got to see them. I live in Phoenix and there not even coming here, as of now anyway. I cannot even go to the nearby shows because I will be on vacation on the east coast. Nice! Anyway I have to boots to download and jam to. It's not the same but it will have to do.

    Gee I wonder why they wouldnt want to play an outdor show in Phoenix in July or August???

    I live here too man - it sucks. The show here during the big storm last time was awesome!
    |9.5.93Gorge|2.6.95Moore|5.7.98AROSpace|7.21.98Seattle|7.22.98Seattle|10.21.00PHX|11.5.00Seattle
    |11.6.00Seattle|6.6.03Vegas|6.7.03PHX|5.25.06Boston|7.22.06Gorge|7.23.06Gorge|9.21.09Seattle|9.22.09Seattle |10.6.09LA|11.19.13PHX|11.29.13Portland|12.6.13Seattle |10.22.14Denver| 8.8.18 Seattle | 8.10.18 Seattle

    EV Solo |7.15.11 Benaroya|7.16.11 Benaroya|4.13.12PHX|10.30.14Redmond|
    TOTD 11.11.16 San Fran
  • MILKwasAbadChoiceMILKwasAbadChoice Posts: 285
    im still thinkin they will hit MSG and hit all of the south..work up to NC and VA and then play a few shows at the garden. i sure hope so. i cant wait another 2-3 years after how great this tour was.
    98- 9/8.9/10.9/11
    00- 8/3, 8/4, 9/1.9/2
    03- 4/28. 7/8. 7/9. 7/14
    04- 10/1
    05- 10/3
    06- 5/4!!!!, 5/12. 5/13. 5/27, 5/28, 6/1, 6/3
    08- 6/19, 6/20, 6/22, 6/25, 6/27, 8/4
  • PJaddictedPJaddicted Posts: 1,432
    I am in PTD already....I cried when I left the show last night.

    oxc
    ~*LIVE~LOVE~LAUGH*~

    *May the Peace of the Wilderness be with YOU*

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    — Unknown
  • Dan1984Dan1984 Posts: 444
    Phoenix sucks for outdoor shows in the summer but Glendale Arena has the best sound. I am all in favor of Cricket in the spring, fall, and winter but not summer. They have options besides playing outdoors in the summer. I am thinking they will be here early in '07.
    06/05/2003 - San Diego
    06/06/2003 - Las Vegas
    06/07/2003 - Phoenix
  • vitodacatvitodacat Posts: 475
    I am in total PTD....praying for some MSG later in the year

    my wife just walked in, saw me on here, and told me I am way too addicted.....she's right !!!


    *Official Marker in the Sand Fan Club Junkie*
    Member # 0003

    wont let the light escape from me
    wont let the darkness swallow me
  • Big Big WavesBig Big Waves Posts: 92
    Garden DVD finished! I have moved on to the Showbox! I really hope they swing back around later in the year. I pray for The Garden!!!
    94: 4-6, 96: 10-2, 98: 9-13, 03: 4-29, 7-2, 7-3, 7-8, 7-9, 7-11, 04: 10-1, 05: 10-3, 06: 5-5, 5-13, 5-24, 5-25, 6-1, 6-3, 08: 6-24, 6-25, 6-27, 6-30, 10: 5-15, 5-18, 5-20, 5-21, 12: 9-2, 13: 10-18, 10-19, 10-21, 10-22, 10-25, 10-27
  • red mosred mos Posts: 4,953
    I'll tell ya what's depressing- The band releases a killer album, goes on tour, with no dates in the SOUTH and a few other places. From recent interviews, it seems like we will be a last minute decision. Someone from Tx talked to the merch people in Jersey, and said they were probably heading down here in Feb or early Spring. I saw that posted somewhere, a few days ago, so I am just stated what I read on here.
    PJ: 10/14/00 06/09/03 10/4/09 11/15/13 11/16/13 10/08/14
    EV Solo: 7/11/11 11/12/12 11/13/12
  • axel4pjaxel4pj Posts: 14
    What helps me with PTD is to plan a trip to another show. For instance i've gone on to ticketbastard and seen than there are some singles for pittsburgh right on the side of the stage. Then i've checked the orbitz and travelocity sites for plane+ hotel packages. After that i mapquested Directions from my house to mellon arena to see how long the drive would be. I am 100 % positive that if i told my wife that i was going to this show the divorce papers would be handed to me the very next day, but it helps to keep hope alive.Then when that show was over and i didnt go i would start to plan the next one to say Melbourne. Its pathetic i know but it staves off depression for a little while.


    Man I need Help
  • pearljam_addictionpearljam_addiction Posts: 668
    i would love a MSG show sometime before the years end
    "I Will Scream my Lungs out 'til it fills this Room "

    " I Will Feel Alive as Long as I am Free"

    "Are We Getting SomeThing Out Of this All Encompassing Trip? Makes Much More Sense To Live In The Present Tense"

    www.myspace.com/ehoff12982
  • St. ChristopherSt. Christopher Posts: 30
    i don't want to talk about it
  • cat72cat72 Oxford, MA Posts: 2,993
    axel4pj wrote:
    What helps me with PTD is to plan a trip to another show. For instance i've gone on to ticketbastard and seen than there are some singles for pittsburgh right on the side of the stage. Then i've checked the orbitz and travelocity sites for plane+ hotel packages. After that i mapquested Directions from my house to mellon arena to see how long the drive would be. I am 100 % positive that if i told my wife that i was going to this show the divorce papers would be handed to me the very next day, but it helps to keep hope alive.Then when that show was over and i didnt go i would start to plan the next one to say Melbourne. Its pathetic i know but it staves off depression for a little while.


    Man I need Help

    Planning is not enough for me. I actually went through with the planning to e rutherford 1, and went by myself. I am now trying to figure out how to get to the gorge shows. I got the time off and some money. I just need to find tix. I am not giving up until they leave the states. And the gorge is my last possible chance.:eek: Oh my god I know I have a problem. On previous tours I only went to one show. Now that I have had a taste of multiple shows I really can't stop. Is there help out there?
  • FAITHFUL PJ FANFAITHFUL PJ FAN Posts: 124
    St. Christopher wrote:
    i don't want to talk about it

    St. Christopher.......its not good to keep these things bottled up inside....you'll feel alot better if you talk about it.

    Also if anyone has an extra NEW JERSEY 2 poster PLEASE PM me.

    Joe
    " to myself i surrender, to the one i'll never please"

    May 13,2006...Hartford,CT back on the map!!!
  • cat72cat72 Oxford, MA Posts: 2,993
    I wish I had gone to the second show. Work got in the way. I was seriously considering calling in stranded in Jersey. I am not sure they would have believed me, but I would seen the show. As much as I love 'em, I am way too responsible to pull something like that.
  • BlackCorduroyBlackCorduroy Posts: 1,374
    I got the blues too:( there should be a support group
  • he still standshe still stands Posts: 2,835
    PTD hit me hard today... especially after the long weekend I spent in NYC... amazing couple of shows.
    Everything not forbidden is compulsory and eveything not compulsory is forbidden. You are free... free to do what the government says you can do.
  • cobainkidcobainkid Posts: 17
    dude, axel, your wife doesn't love pearl jam?

    why is she your wife?
  • Ms. HaikuMs. Haiku Washington DC Posts: 7,271
    Luckily I have a grueling work week in Los Angeles this week to get my mind from wandering to all the shows I won't see . . .I still have this stupid gawdawful cold though . . . how annoying! Maybe since I won't stay up for a Pearl Jam show I'll get some good sleep?
    There is no such thing as leftover pizza. There is now pizza and later pizza. - anonymous
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  • einatshauleinatshaul Posts: 2,219
    I know the feeling!! I'm so sad about Madrid ending, and that is 3 months from now!! therefore I'm planning on flying to Greece for the end of the European tour... with 0 money in my pocket... it's bread and water for me...
    I desire peace where I live
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  • axel4pjaxel4pj Posts: 14
    cobainkid wrote:
    dude, axel, your wife doesn't love pearl jam?

    why is she your wife?

    Yeah she loves em she went to both jersey shows along with 5 others, but she aint got the sickness thats all
  • mookie9999mookie9999 Posts: 4,677
    It's set in big time!!! There is virtually no conceivable way that I can make any more shows this tour (aside from hitting the lottery!) So the depression has begun. The real question is, when will it end???
    "The leads are weak!"

    "The leads are weak? Fuckin' leads are weak? You're Weak! I've Been in this business 15 years"

    "What's your name?"

    "FUCK YOU! THAT"S MY NAME!"
  • joint in a treejoint in a tree Posts: 392
    MSG (crosses fingers).

    we met vedder for a second after NJ2, and my bf said "please play the garden". ed said "yeah, ok" and smiled. he thinks we're in. i laugh. there are probably a million "the garden"s...lol. they were even referring to the former fleet center as the garden.

    anyway, PTD is hitting me hard today. i'm back at work, with no more planned shows. pittsburgh is on a bad day, i'd only be able to go if i can get a ride, and come home right after the show in time for work on sat (8 hour drive).

    i've been here an hour. i should probably leave here and get some work done.

    peace.
    LP
    "Find myself singing the same songs every day....
    ones that make me feel good when things behind the smile ain't ok...." -Hoon
  • elevation622elevation622 Posts: 926
    I got it big time, its awful. Just glad I got to see them at all though. Thanks PJ and 10c for an awesome tour. Back to work now and all the suck that comes with it.
  • josevolutionjosevolution Posts: 29,968
    yeah it allways hits me when i get back to work and no one to talk to about the shows specially since anyone around here all they now about is hip hop and rap shit i have to move up to boston and yes i'm addicted to the band and this board so thanks for being here at least i know i have friends that feel the same way.
    jesus greets me looks just like me ....
  • 4HEATHER4HEATHER Posts: 36
    axel4pj wrote:
    What helps me with PTD is to plan a trip to another show. For instance i've gone on to ticketbastard and seen than there are some singles for pittsburgh right on the side of the stage. Then i've checked the orbitz and travelocity sites for plane+ hotel packages. After that i mapquested Directions from my house to mellon arena to see how long the drive would be. I am 100 % positive that if i told my wife that i was going to this show the divorce papers would be handed to me the very next day, but it helps to keep hope alive.Then when that show was over and i didnt go i would start to plan the next one to say Melbourne. Its pathetic i know but it staves off depression for a little while.


    Man I need Help


    OMG I am in the same boat!!!!!! I am so depressed and literally woke up Sunday morning having dreamt I was going to Pittsburgh. So now I can't get it out of my head. And I just can't see it going over AT ALL!! :( I started thinking that maybe the fall will be long enough and we can plan a big trip to Australia?!?! So how much were the plane tix to Pittsburgh???
    Let's say knowledge is a tree
    It's growing up just like me
  • adgeadge Posts: 1
    pearljam_addiction wrote:
    Usually PTD doesnt take place until a few weeks after the last show isee, but crazily enough it started taking place before i even saw 6/03/06. the fact that Est Rutherford was going to be my last show for the tour kept playing in my head , so all of this week leading up to the show i was getting real sad. i hate this feeling i am hoping maybe to work something out where i can see a show in pittsburgh or on the west coast. or hopefully theyll wil be back around the north east sometime again before the year is over. even if they arent. i still have hope for 07. if i go by the recurring trend, i have no doubt 07 ill see another show
    since 03 i have seen them every year!
    I was glad to see someone else is suffering also. I have had mixed feelings the last two days. I've been sad and elated at the same time. I was in the front row and eddie waved at me and blew me a kiss. Every time I think about that I get happy and sad at the same time. It was a great show-Pearl Jam is so great to their fans. It's a shame some people don't appreciate it-it shows when you sell the posters on e-bay. Hopefully they'll come back around again before the end of the year.....
  • nothingman44nothingman44 Posts: 1,495
    put me on the list of those suffering from PTD.

    7 weeks til the gorge seems like an eternity.
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