disgusting...I'm not sure there is a more vulgar criminal on Earth than a rapist.
Sorry to hear that, I hope she recovered as much as possible from such a terrible trauma.
i am in your boat to bud, well, i was anyway. and yes i believe those statistics. i understand exactly how you feel and i am sad when anyone is raped, molested or whatever else.
women are to be cherished. this is what you will do for your lady.
that's right, dude. she doesn't need everyone she knows knowing her sad stuff. you'll keep it under wraps and it will eat at your insides. when it levels out and you are calmer it will still chew at your gut making you irritated and things.
i guess just hold her at night when y'all are in bed. she'll love ya forever. it is to bad others have to ruin someone's life in this kind of sick manner.
I'm sure it's not something she wants people knowing.
Yah think!
I am stunned to the point of rage that you have made this statement yet have posted this deeply personal experience on a band message board.An experience that isn't yours to discuss here!
It can take victims of sexual abuse years to build up the trust to disclose their abuse,if at all.You say you have been with this lady for a year and she has just disclosed this experience to you.
Did you consider that she has now told you this because your relationship may have reached this level of trust that she wanted to tell you this,did you tell her that you have now posted her dreadful experiences on here,and with unnecessary detail.
I want to hope you have just been temporarily misguided in posting this information but I fear not.
Yes the statistics of not only childhood female sexual abuse but childhood male sexual abuse are high but the individuals story is not for public consumption.
I hope your lady gets all the support she needs to work through her trauma
You sir should be fucking ashamed that you so easily break trust
“There should be a place where only the things you want to happen, happen”
I'm sure it's not something she wants people knowing.
Yah think!
I am stunned to the point of rage that you have made this statement yet have posted this deeply personal experience on a band message board.An experience that isn't yours to discuss here!
It can take victims of sexual abuse years to build up the trust to disclose their abuse,if at all.You say you have been with this lady for a year and she has just disclosed this experience to you.
Did you consider that she has now told you this because your relationship may have reached this level of trust that she wanted to tell you this,did you tell her that you have now posted her dreadful experiences on here,and with unnecessary detail.
I want to hope you have just been temporarily misguided in posting this information but I fear not.
Yes the statistics of not only childhood female sexual abuse but childhood male sexual abuse are high but the individuals story is not for public consumption.
I hope your lady gets all the support she needs to work through her trauma
You sir should be fucking ashamed that you so easily break trust
I really didn't think about it that way.. I figured this board was pretty anonymous and I just needed to vent.
I'm sure it's not something she wants people knowing.
Yah think!
I am stunned to the point of rage that you have made this statement yet have posted this deeply personal experience on a band message board.An experience that isn't yours to discuss here!
It can take victims of sexual abuse years to build up the trust to disclose their abuse,if at all.You say you have been with this lady for a year and she has just disclosed this experience to you.
Did you consider that she has now told you this because your relationship may have reached this level of trust that she wanted to tell you this,did you tell her that you have now posted her dreadful experiences on here,and with unnecessary detail.
I want to hope you have just been temporarily misguided in posting this information but I fear not.
Yes the statistics of not only childhood female sexual abuse but childhood male sexual abuse are high but the individuals story is not for public consumption.
I hope your lady gets all the support she needs to work through her trauma
You sir should be fucking ashamed that you so easily break trust
I really didn't think about it that way.. I figured this board was pretty anonymous and I just needed to vent.
I deleted my post.
Consider deleting the additional post where you disclose the type of sexual assault she was subjected too ...
“There should be a place where only the things you want to happen, happen”
Now is Stargirl deletes her posts, we pretty much have it covered....the other posts don't give that much away. And then the thread dies....and we all forget.
Now is Stargirl deletes her posts, we pretty much have it covered....the other posts don't give that much away. And then the thread dies....and we all forget.
Thanks..
When she opened my eyes to what I did, I felt really bad.
I know a lot of people view this board as a meeting place and relate it to real life encounters, have meet people here, planned events, so forth..
I seem to forget that. I've never taken this board seriously. I've never meet anyone from here. I never plan to. I don't give out my real name... I kind of took it lightly and was hoping for kind words of support from strangers. I use it as a way to vent my feelings when there's no one I can really vent them to.
This thread sounds very serious but I don't understand it or the dot. It all sounds rather confidential and if that's the case, why a thread instead of PM's? Just curious.
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Sorry to hear that, I hope she recovered as much as possible from such a terrible trauma.
That's what they told me in college.
women are to be cherished. this is what you will do for your lady.
i am sorry
"Hear me, my chiefs!
I am tired; my heart is
sick and sad. From where
the sun stands I will fight
no more forever."
Chief Joseph - Nez Perce
i guess just hold her at night when y'all are in bed. she'll love ya forever. it is to bad others have to ruin someone's life in this kind of sick manner.
"Hear me, my chiefs!
I am tired; my heart is
sick and sad. From where
the sun stands I will fight
no more forever."
Chief Joseph - Nez Perce
★ 2009 - Sydney, Brisbane, Auckland, Christchurch ★
★ 2011 - EV Newcastle, Melbourne 1, Melbourne 2 ★
Yah think!
I am stunned to the point of rage that you have made this statement yet have posted this deeply personal experience on a band message board.An experience that isn't yours to discuss here!
It can take victims of sexual abuse years to build up the trust to disclose their abuse,if at all.You say you have been with this lady for a year and she has just disclosed this experience to you.
Did you consider that she has now told you this because your relationship may have reached this level of trust that she wanted to tell you this,did you tell her that you have now posted her dreadful experiences on here,and with unnecessary detail.
I want to hope you have just been temporarily misguided in posting this information but I fear not.
Yes the statistics of not only childhood female sexual abuse but childhood male sexual abuse are high but the individuals story is not for public consumption.
I hope your lady gets all the support she needs to work through her trauma
You sir should be fucking ashamed that you so easily break trust
I deleted my post.
I'll delete my message too.
★ 2009 - Sydney, Brisbane, Auckland, Christchurch ★
★ 2011 - EV Newcastle, Melbourne 1, Melbourne 2 ★
Consider deleting the additional post where you disclose the type of sexual assault she was subjected too ...
★ 2009 - Sydney, Brisbane, Auckland, Christchurch ★
★ 2011 - EV Newcastle, Melbourne 1, Melbourne 2 ★
When she opened my eyes to what I did, I felt really bad.
I know a lot of people view this board as a meeting place and relate it to real life encounters, have meet people here, planned events, so forth..
I seem to forget that. I've never taken this board seriously. I've never meet anyone from here. I never plan to. I don't give out my real name... I kind of took it lightly and was hoping for kind words of support from strangers. I use it as a way to vent my feelings when there's no one I can really vent them to.