Being Constructive....

SawyerSawyer Posts: 2,411
edited December 2011 in The Porch
.....my feelings are constantly being treated like a non person....Sawyer is a person too and I was being very serious during the KC conversation. I think he respected me.
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  • Better DanBetter Dan Posts: 5,684
    Was this thread really necessary? You could easily have just PMd a mod if you were really bothered by his comments (which I'm sure you weren't)
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  • Class move there Sawyer. This pretty much confirms what he PM'd you. Oh, I don't usually get involved in this crap, but I happen to agree with him.
  • You weren't constructive at all.
  • SawyerSawyer Posts: 2,411
    You weren't constructive at all.


    i had the best allegorical comment ever.....it was perfect
  • rival.rival. Chicago Posts: 7,775
    yeah, probably should have keep that PRIVATE message private.
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  • CAVSTARR313CAVSTARR313 Posts: 8,756
    If the comment was unnecessary then so was making it a whole new thread..
    people have opinions.. and there opinions are based on the way we " put ourselves out here"..
    you can't control how others will feel about you.. but if it is to much to handle when they form an opinion, you aren't in the right game.. grow some skin..
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  • rriversrrivers Posts: 3,698
    You weren't constructive at all.

    This question is not constructive?

    "Why don't bands even larger than PJ have these fanclub ticketing problems? (Bruce, Petty, Phish, DMB)"

    Just wanted to put my two cents in since I just praised Sawyer in a pm and thought it was only right to do it out in the open as well.
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  • wow! you couldn't just suck it up and let it go? i can't believe you actually posted this publicly. you didn't just tell the principal, you announced it over the school p.a. classless.
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  • Can't u get banned for posting pm's?

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  • SawyerSawyer Posts: 2,411
    wow! you couldn't just suck it up and let it go? i can't believe you actually posted this publicly. you didn't just tell the principal, you announced it over the school p.a. classless.


    huh
  • CAVSTARR313CAVSTARR313 Posts: 8,756
    I should start posting some of my PM's.. they read like a steamy romance novel.. :lol:
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  • rrivers wrote:
    You weren't constructive at all.

    This question is not constructive?

    "Why don't bands even larger than PJ have these fanclub ticketing problems? (Bruce, Petty, Phish, DMB)"

    Just wanted to put my two cents in since I just praised Sawyer in a pm and thought it was only right to do it out in the open as well.

    Apologies, that is a legit question. I was referencing the more argumentative point about Sawyer being a school teacher and not asking for help teaching WWI. That wasn't too constructive.
  • bootlegger10bootlegger10 Posts: 16,132
    wow! you couldn't just suck it up and let it go? i can't believe you actually posted this publicly. you didn't just tell the principal, you announced it over the school p.a. classless.

    Too many allegories in one night! Can't take all of the allegories!
  • SawyerSawyer Posts: 2,411
    Relax peeps.....I can take it.....it did sting much like my douchiness must
  • wow! you couldn't just suck it up and let it go? i can't believe you actually posted this publicly. you didn't just tell the principal, you announced it over the school p.a. classless.

    Too many allegories in one night! Can't take all of the allegories!

    :lol::lol::lol:
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  • HeisenbergHeisenberg Los Pollos Hermanos Posts: 4,957
    It figures this is how you would respond you "wonderful example of a human being"
    Was that PC enough to post out loud?
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    How bout another thread to put the spotlight on you.
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  • SawyerSawyer Posts: 2,411
    Heisenberg wrote:
    It figures this is how you would respond you "wonderful example of a human being"
    Was that PC enough to post out loud?


    damage has been done to my psyche
  • Sawyer wrote:
    .....my feelings are constantly being treated like a non person....Sawyer is a person too and I was being very serious during the KC conversation. I think he respected me.

    Your sarcasm is palpable
  • SawyerSawyer Posts: 2,411
    Sawyer wrote:
    .....my feelings are constantly being treated like a non person....Sawyer is a person too and I was being very serious during the KC conversation. I think he respected me.

    Your sarcasm is palpable


    seriously....he answered three of my questions...i think thats pretty much taking me seriously, and i was being serious
  • DS1119DS1119 Posts: 33,497
    I firmly believe in giving people as many chances as possible as long as they are willing to change. I know you are going through some tough shit with your Mom right now Sawyer as I went through it the entire year with my Dad last year before losing him this January. I don't know you personally but I can tell you are a fan and I can tell you are a very intelligent person. Just turn it down a notch...you know. "When you find yourself in a hole...stop digging". Everyone in this community wants to like everyone else, I firmly believe that or we wouldn't want to be here. Be kind and respectful and it will turn around.
  • SawyerSawyer Posts: 2,411
    DS1119 wrote:
    I firmly believe in giving people as many chances as possible as long as they are willing to change. I know you are going through some tough shit with your Mom right now Sawyer as I went through it the entire year with my Dad last year before losing him this January. I don't know you personally but I can tell you are a fan and I can tell you are a very intelligent person. Just turn it down a notch...you know. "When you find yourself in a hole...stop digging". Everyone in this community wants to like everyone else, I firmly believe that or we wouldn't want to be here. Be kind and respectful and it will turn around.


    but im serious in the fact i was serious
  • DS1119DS1119 Posts: 33,497
    Sawyer wrote:
    DS1119 wrote:
    I firmly believe in giving people as many chances as possible as long as they are willing to change. I know you are going through some tough shit with your Mom right now Sawyer as I went through it the entire year with my Dad last year before losing him this January. I don't know you personally but I can tell you are a fan and I can tell you are a very intelligent person. Just turn it down a notch...you know. "When you find yourself in a hole...stop digging". Everyone in this community wants to like everyone else, I firmly believe that or we wouldn't want to be here. Be kind and respectful and it will turn around.


    but im serious in the fact i was serious


    I know. It came across as harsh to some though. If I were you tonight I would just lay off this point and go have some fun in the AET. I'm not being a wiseass or something but go find some cool pictures of puppies or something. Those always chill me out when I want to put my fist through the wall. All I will leave you with is this is such a great community. I lost my father and my fiance' this year and as much as I joke around I'm fucking devastated on the inside. Joking around on this forum keeps me going right now. Go have some fun. :thumbup:
  • HeisenbergHeisenberg Los Pollos Hermanos Posts: 4,957
    edited December 2011
    DS1119 wrote:
    I firmly believe in giving people as many chances as possible as long as they are willing to change. I know you are going through some tough shit with your Mom right now Sawyer as I went through it the entire year with my Dad last year before losing him this January. I don't know you personally but I can tell you are a fan and I can tell you are a very intelligent person. Just turn it down a notch...you know. "When you find yourself in a hole...stop digging". Everyone in this community wants to like everyone else, I firmly believe that or we wouldn't want to be here. Be kind and respectful and it will turn around.


    I should let DS1119 write all my PMs from now on. He handles things much more eloquently than I do :lol:
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  • DS1119 wrote:
    Sawyer wrote:
    DS1119 wrote:
    I firmly believe in giving people as many chances as possible as long as they are willing to change. I know you are going through some tough shit with your Mom right now Sawyer as I went through it the entire year with my Dad last year before losing him this January. I don't know you personally but I can tell you are a fan and I can tell you are a very intelligent person. Just turn it down a notch...you know. "When you find yourself in a hole...stop digging". Everyone in this community wants to like everyone else, I firmly believe that or we wouldn't want to be here. Be kind and respectful and it will turn around.


    but im serious in the fact i was serious


    I know. It came across as harsh to some though. If I were you tonight I would just lay off this point and go have some fun in the AET. I'm not being a wiseass or something but go find some cool pictures of puppies or something. Those always chill me out when I want to put my fist through the wall. All I will leave you with is this is such a great community. I lost my father and my fiance' this year and as much as I joke around I'm fucking devastated on the inside. Joking around on this forum keeps me going right now. Go have some fun. :thumbup:

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