Smanchac1: An update and thank you!!

veddertown
veddertown Scotland Posts: 5,260
edited December 2011 in The Porch
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Hi folks. I have already posted on the highlighted topic on this thread since it was posted but thought it would be good to follow it up today to keep you updated in my involvement and spread the word further.

Like many people here I was very moved by Stephen's post and after some thought decided to contact the members posting replies and a few others to see if we can spread a little love his way. I did this by taking donations through my Paypal account to very good success so far it must be said. All those (you know who you are) who have taken part in his sale, made donations directly or through me or most importantly passed on words of comfort, condolence, care and wisdom can't be thanked enough for the morale boost it is giving him right now.


It's always good to see the spirit of this amazing community where people pull together in aid and assistance of someone at the bottom of their luck. I can't get into all the details here as Stephen's business is private but if you are moved by his post then you'd be surprised at how little he has revealed about his plight which isn't just the 3 years he states but going back so far that it was painful to read the PM he sent me last night. I have experienced some rough times with the bereavement of friends and loved ones in my time and I still feel like I've had it easy in comparison. This young man has suffered grief and loss that would break many and his finances have also suffered during this time which brought us to this point. He is by no means a charity but is so overawed by your responses that he has humbly accepted the help he has received on every level.

I am transferring the donations to his Paypal account today and passing on the messages attached to them. There has been great generosity shown here for Stephen as has been shown to others in the past and again I thank everyone for whatever donations or kind words they have given him. After I send him the donations which so far have been sent to me at Paypal account, <!-- e --><a href="mailto:veddertown@aol.co.uk">veddertown@aol.co.uk</a><!-- e --> I will watch for any more that come in over the next few days and transfer any to his Paypal which he has allowed me to post. <!-- e --><a href="mailto:iplaydrumsalot@hotmail.com">iplaydrumsalot@hotmail.com</a><!-- e -->

Anyone still wishing to donate can send to him directly now and it all helps. He is very busy replying to all your PM's and is making every effort to eventually respond to you all so give him time and he will come through. The words mean so much to him so keep them coming! Thanks people, you are all amazing here and it goes beyond anything I have seen anywhere. Happy holidays and I hope you all and Stephen have a great Christmas and New Year.

Best wishes.

The Veddertowns (Gary & Lorna) :clap: :wave:
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  • awesome,....what a great community..thanks Gary
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  • frazba
    frazba Posts: 601
    It's gestures like this that make me, a newcomer, realise that 10c is much, much more than just a fan club, it truly is a community, and one that I'm extremely proud to be a member of.
  • Hairy Dane
    Hairy Dane Denmark Posts: 205
    As I wrote you Veddertown, this is an amazing initiative on your part too.
    And yes this shows this is more than a mere fanclub, it is a tightknitted community, even for us not so very forum active members.
    I just hope Stephen comes out of it on the other side a strong(er) person and I shall tip my hat for him, I have never met him, probably never will, but as stated; will tip my hat for him.
    I wish I had more to write on the matter, but all I can say and do has been said and done.
    Have fun, walk hard and stay alive.
  • mcgruff10
    mcgruff10 New Jersey Posts: 29,476
    Awesome job Gary! This community is really amazing.
    I'll ride the wave where it takes me......
  • Suziemay
    Suziemay Posts: 11,168
    Very wonderful of you, Gary & Lorna. Just send funds to Steve. Thanks for organizing and reaching out.
  • Thanks for the update and thanks for organizing.

    Continued best wishes to Steve...
    "Most men lead lives of quiet desperation and go to the grave with the song still in them." - Thoreau

    No time to be void, or save up on life, you've got to spend it all
  • mfc2006
    mfc2006 HTOWN Posts: 37,496
    Gary & Lorna--- GREAT job!!!!!! I can't even begin to imagine what you're going through, Steve...if you need anything else, please let me/us know & we'll do our best to help, support & encourage you.

    All the best,
    Matt
    I LOVE MUSIC.
    www.cluthelee.com
    www.cluthe.com
  • So at this point which email should I send something to via Paypal?
    * Cincinnati, OH 8.20.2000 *
    * Cincinnati, OH 6.24.2006 *
    * Columbus, OH 5.6.2010 * Noblesville, IN 5.7.2010 *
    * East Troy, MI 9.4.2011 * East Troy, MI 9.5.2011 *
    * Pittsburgh, PA 10.11.2013 *
  • So at this point which email should I send something to via Paypal?

    And a wonderful thing you are doing sir...
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  • veddertown
    veddertown Scotland Posts: 5,260
    So at this point which email should I send something to via Paypal?
    You can just donate directly to Stephen now. <!-- e --><a href="mailto:iplaydrumsalot@hotmail.com">iplaydrumsalot@hotmail.com</a><!-- e -->
    Thanks... :)
    Like a book among the many on a shelf...

    Dublin 02 Arena - 22/6/10. Belfast Odyssey Arena - 23/6/10. London Hyde Park - 25/6/10. Berlin Wuhlheide - 30/6/10.
    Manchester MEN - 20/06/12. Manchester MEN - 21/06/12
  • smanchac1
    smanchac1 Posts: 2,256
    I can not thank you guys enough. I am trying to reply to everyone, keep all orders straight, thank everyone, and tell each person individually...

    So, i will be back, and i will do just that.

    Again, thanks so much guys. I will have a reply to everyone here as soon as i get everything in order.
    And as the donations go, i could never ever have expected anything like this!

    Be back soon
    Steve
  • capthowdy1027
    capthowdy1027 Posts: 3,270
    edited December 2011
    Thanks for bumping this thread Steve.
    Post edited by capthowdy1027 on
    * Cincinnati, OH 8.20.2000 *
    * Cincinnati, OH 6.24.2006 *
    * Columbus, OH 5.6.2010 * Noblesville, IN 5.7.2010 *
    * East Troy, MI 9.4.2011 * East Troy, MI 9.5.2011 *
    * Pittsburgh, PA 10.11.2013 *
  • mfc2006
    mfc2006 HTOWN Posts: 37,496
    smanchac1 wrote:
    I can not thank you guys enough. I am trying to reply to everyone, keep all orders straight, thank everyone, and tell each person individually...

    So, i will be back, and i will do just that.

    Again, thanks so much guys. I will have a reply to everyone here as soon as i get everything in order.
    And as the donations go, i could never ever have expected anything like this!

    Be back soon
    Steve

    Hope you're doing a bit better today, man. If you need anything, just let me know.

    Matt
    I LOVE MUSIC.
    www.cluthelee.com
    www.cluthe.com
  • kato78
    kato78 Posts: 61
    Thank you for doing this ... I've been wanting to send something Steve's way and you made it really easy. This community has such an inspiring generosity of spirit!
  • Chief Broom
    Chief Broom Posts: 2,036
    mfc2006 wrote:
    smanchac1 wrote:
    I can not thank you guys enough. I am trying to reply to everyone, keep all orders straight, thank everyone, and tell each person individually...

    So, i will be back, and i will do just that.

    Again, thanks so much guys. I will have a reply to everyone here as soon as i get everything in order.
    And as the donations go, i could never ever have expected anything like this!

    Be back soon
    Steve

    Hope you're doing a bit better today, man. If you need anything, just let me know.

    Matt
    +1...For real. Even if ya just need to vent. We're all here for ya man!
    MLMF Det
  • Ana2112
    Ana2112 Posts: 689
    mcgruff10 wrote:
    Awesome job Gary! This community is really amazing.
    :thumbup:
    Evil Little Goat
  • smanchac1
    smanchac1 Posts: 2,256
    Hey guys.

    I have recieved donations from quite a few people here. I could not have imagined this!

    I do have to say - i am getting messages on paypal, and i am not sure how to contact those people and thank them each for everything. If anyone knows how i can, please inform me so i can do just that.

    You guys have changed my life in a short time...
    Steve
  • mfc2006
    mfc2006 HTOWN Posts: 37,496
    smanchac1 wrote:
    Hey guys.

    I have recieved donations from quite a few people here. I could not have imagined this!

    I do have to say - i am getting messages on paypal, and i am not sure how to contact those people and thank them each for everything. If anyone knows how i can, please inform me so i can do just that.

    You guys have changed my life in a short time...
    Steve

    That's awesome to hear, Steve! You could try emailing the sender's email address. Or you could ask everyone that has sent you anything to pm you here so you connect with them directly. Hope this helps!

    Keep your head up, buddy! We're here for you!

    Matt
    I LOVE MUSIC.
    www.cluthelee.com
    www.cluthe.com
  • Suziemay
    Suziemay Posts: 11,168
    mfc2006 wrote:
    smanchac1 wrote:
    Hey guys.

    I have recieved donations from quite a few people here. I could not have imagined this!

    I do have to say - i am getting messages on paypal, and i am not sure how to contact those people and thank them each for everything. If anyone knows how i can, please inform me so i can do just that.

    You guys have changed my life in a short time...
    Steve

    That's awesome to hear, Steve! You could try emailing the sender's email address. Or you could ask everyone that has sent you anything to pm you here so you connect with them directly. Hope this helps!

    Keep your head up, buddy! We're here for you!

    Matt
    Yes, you should be able to just reply to the email you get that says "xyz@abc.com sent you a payment". Don't feel like you have to respond to everyone right away. I know you want to and you will get to it, but definitely don't feel badly if it takes you awhile, ok? Don't think any of us are going anywhere soon :D
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