Need help! Maid of Honor duties
Mamasan23
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Okay, so my closest girlfriend has asked me to be the maid of honor in her wedding in March. Which, of course, I'm super stoked about! However, she wants to have her bachelorette party in New Orleans in February. Does anyone know what expenses I'm responsible for? I'm going to start looking at hotels and flights and all that...but since it's a destination party, is the bridal party required to pay for all the bride's expenses including flight and hotel?? I didn't pay anything for mine, but then again it was just downtown and there were no flights or anything involved...so I'm not sure what exactly is expected of me. Any help is much appreciated!!
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I don't think you are responsible for paying everybody's way to get to NO, their hotel, or drinks...that is their responsibility. You may want to buy dinner and ONE round of drinks.
- Christopher McCandless
Thanks! That's what I was thinking too, but wasn't sure. I've heard some people all pitch in to pay for the bride to go...but personally I think if she's the one that wants to go there she should pay her own way. Hope I'm not being selfish thinking that! I'm definitely going to buy her a nice dinner and have some other cool fun things planned for the weekend.
Oh for pete's sake I forgot about mardi gras!! Thanks!
ooohhh good point. Mardi Gras will be Feb 21, 2012.
Hotels are crazy expensive, (I think our hotel room was $325/night) and typically have a minimum night stay-we stayed 7 days.
You probably need to make reservations NOW if that's where it's gonna be.
I love NO, and want to go back when it's not so busy. Drive thru margarita stands!
- Christopher McCandless
RCKNDY Mardi Gras hotel room
yeah! it really is one big party!
there is one solid week of parades every day up until Fat Tuesday
Bars are open 24/7
open container allowed in the streets-plastic only...don't fall down...the sludge in the street is gross
We went on the Natchez Steamboat day cruise on the mighty muddy Mississippi, went to the zoo, a haunted New Orleans tour, a VooDoo tour, swamp tour...
Cafe Du Monde-fresh doughnuts 24/7
Muffalettas...
I caught a shitload of beads, doubloons, beer koozies...the parades are just spectacular.
only one warning...not all the pretty girls are 'girls'.
Everybody should go...just to experience it.
(our hotel had a 5 night minimum stay)
- Christopher McCandless
hey! that picture was supposed to have been destroyed! :x
- Christopher McCandless
:angel:
- Christopher McCandless
I've been a bridesmaid several times and the bride has never paid for anything at the bachelorette party (food, drinks, cover, party favours, etc.). All the bridesmaids chip in to cover the bride.
However, if it's a destination bachelorette party, the bride is responsible for her own flight/hotel costs.
Being a part of the bridal party is expensive enough as it is, the MOH doesn't need to add an extra plane ticket and a few nights stay at a hotel to that.
And no matter where we go, there will be no photographic evidence!!!!!
local Chippendales did it for us!
We went to NoLa last month and we rented someone's place. It had room for 8 people and we stayed for 4 nights. It cost us about $360 per set for the whole stay. That may be a cheaper option- and the more people that go, the cheaper it is. I know it will be more expensive during Mardi Gras- but if you book the week after, you may get a deal.
This is the place we stayed at http://www.vrbo.com/203062#photos. Super nice- in the warehouse district- 15 min walk to bourbon street, very spacious, nice people to deal with.
There are other places on that site as well.
Airfare is expensive- we drive down from NYC- not a bad ride.
As MoH- don't pay for the trip- if that is where she wants to go. If you find a cheap place for all to stay- maybe pitch in for her room- but let her pay the airfare.
Awesome advice, thanks so much! I didn't even think of that, a bunch of friends and I usually rent a house in Vegas every year and it does work out to be pretty cheap. I'll definitely look into it!
Gather up a list of potential guests
Price everything out for the total amount of people(including the bride/groom since he/she should go for free)
Divide the total up between the amount of people interested in going.
Bam! You're done. Now everyone chips in a little to cover the cost of the bride/groom.
The fun part is collecting the money
Edit: Here's an example
12 people are going, including the bride so you need to find 3 hotel rooms with double beds or a 3 bedroom house to rent.
I would leave out the cost of the flight though since everyone needs to book that themselves. However, let everyone know the divided cost to cover the bride's flight(cost divided by 11). Do the same with the accomodations.
Fck Vegas - New Orleans is much better... and needs the tourism much more than that overcrowded, overpriced, overdone, ashtray in the desert
did you feel safe walking to the quarter/bourbon st??
especially if your focus is getting hammered on bourbon st
but i will suggest that if you have time... you check out the live music scene on Frenchmen St
it's more local but still fun
The bride doesn't drink :shock: So at least that'll save me some dough! I agree though, I love NOLA, been there quite a few times, it's just going to be hard (on my finances) going there during mardi gras.
8/08 - Ed solo in DC, 6/09 Ed in B'more,
10/10 - Brad in B'more
8/08 - Ed solo in DC, 6/09 Ed in B'more,
10/10 - Brad in B'more