Pretty down. My mum just told me that I am never going to get married and said that 'who'd want me?'.
Please, don't listen to her. I am shocked to read this! Sent your mum greetings and tell her that she has to stop that! I mean, for how long is she telling you stuff like that? For me that sounds like she is guilty of causing the problem! She needs to realise that. Stop thinking that way. And listen to these advices from people here and go out. Find things you like to do. Be good to yourself and try to think positive! I know that's not easy! But it's just like the others said earlier, you can't hide, you need to show up somewhere and have fun and then things are happening when you won't expect it. And come on, you guys don't have a problem with grey hairs.. it just make you look even better! It's only a point of view! 33 is freaking young! A lot of people wish to be that young again!
She's always been verbally (and used to be physically when I was smaller than her) abusive. Thank you for your kind words.
Adelaide 17/11/2009, Melbourne 20/11/2009, Sydney 22/11/2009, Melbourne (Big Day Out Festival) 24/01/2014
Yeah I really don't see why that would be an issue. Fuck it, I'm 32 and have plenty of grey hairs. Believe me, it's got to be worse for a girl!
At least you can colour it.
the hottest girl in high school went out with, and ended up marrying, a guy who had grey hair. he had grey hair in high school. like, seriously, grey like worse than those just for men commercials.
my mom's side of the family, all of the men go bald early. i'm balding now (43), but my male cousins all went bald in their early 20's. all married. all happy.
my point is, you are focusing on shit that doesn't matter. you are letting the real issue seep into these non-issues.
"Oh Canada...you're beautiful when you're drunk" -EV 8/14/93
Yeah I really don't see why that would be an issue. Fuck it, I'm 32 and have plenty of grey hairs. Believe me, it's got to be worse for a girl!
At least you can colour it.
the hottest girl in high school went out with, and ended up marrying, a guy who had grey hair. he had grey hair in high school. like, seriously, grey like worse than those just for men commercials.
my mom's side of the family, all of the men go bald early. i'm balding now (43), but my male cousins all went bald in their early 20's. all married. all happy.
my point is, you are focusing on shit that doesn't matter. you are letting the real issue seep into these non-issues.
Ha, my dad was your age when I was born He started losing his hair well before that - well before my parents were married - and it was already greying.
I've found that people worth their salt, those worth investing yourself in and vice versa, don't give two fucks about hair amount or its color. They care more about character, integrity, compassion, etc. All the worthwhile good shit that doesn't fade. The rest is just dressing and fluff.
correct. my wife doesn't give two shits about my hair. if she did, i'd know it. before it started to thin, i had a pony tail. she was not fond of it! she'd probably appreciate if i lost few pounds, but like the awesome woman she is, she'd never say it.
"Oh Canada...you're beautiful when you're drunk" -EV 8/14/93
Pfft... age is just a number. I've seen over 33 fans rocking out harder at PJ shows than the under 33 fans. I agree with the suggestion to volunteer for a cause you are interested in. You will meet like minded people and remember to just take it slow. Sometimes relationships take time to build.
I’m so off today, since the moment I woke up. Like I’m in a fog or something. Probably too much running through my head at once. And lack of sleep seeing as I’ve gotten about 3 hours per night all week. Oh well. Sleep will have to wait until Sunday night.
Yeah I really don't see why that would be an issue. Fuck it, I'm 32 and have plenty of grey hairs. Believe me, it's got to be worse for a girl!
At least you can colour it.
Well, so could you, if you're going to be picky about it.
Half the guys I know have grey hair Thoughts. This is seriously not an issue for women. Grey hair looks good on men (I just wish you men would feel the same about grey on women - it's really not fair). My bro-in-law is actually totally white-haired (has been for several years now - he just turned 50), but my sister prefers it just grey rather than white, so he colours it to be grey, lol. Just for Men Grey. Looks good. I didn't even know he did it until he botched the job one day for some reason and I asked him why the fuck his hair was all patchy on the back. I also have a friend who went totally grey in high school. For a bit he dyed it, but then he just owned it. He grew that grey hair out long and rocked that shit, lol. And it worked, I have always been secretly attracted to him, ahaha.
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With all its sham, drudgery, and broken dreams, it is still a beautiful world. Be careful. Strive to be happy. ~ Desiderata
Relaxed and peaceful. Hopeful and grateful. Every now and then, I cross paths with a beautiful soul. I tend to absorb their wonderful energy just like I do with others. I’m so used to the intense pain that usually brings me, that I forget how amazing the really good ones feel. Best high ever for me. Like hugging an angel.
Pissed off! I'm being forced to get the flu shot which means I will now get sick and feel like shit for the next three to seven days. Not from the flu, but from the shot and the toxic shit in it. I miss my country where there was actually such a thing as freedom of choice.
Anything you lose from being honest You never really had to begin with.
Sometimes it's not the song that makes you emotional it's the people and things that come to your mind when you hear it.
Pissed off! I'm being forced to get the flu shot which means I will now get sick and feel like shit for the next three to seven days. Not from the flu, but from the shot and the toxic shit in it. I miss my country where there was actually such a thing as freedom of choice.
Pissed off! I'm being forced to get the flu shot which means I will now get sick and feel like shit for the next three to seven days. Not from the flu, but from the shot and the toxic shit in it. I miss my country where there was actually such a thing as freedom of choice.
There's nothing toxic in it lol. I get one every year and never feel sick.
Adelaide 17/11/2009, Melbourne 20/11/2009, Sydney 22/11/2009, Melbourne (Big Day Out Festival) 24/01/2014
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Thank you for your kind words.
my mom's side of the family, all of the men go bald early. i'm balding now (43), but my male cousins all went bald in their early 20's. all married. all happy.
my point is, you are focusing on shit that doesn't matter. you are letting the real issue seep into these non-issues.
-EV 8/14/93
I've found that people worth their salt, those worth investing yourself in and vice versa, don't give two fucks about hair amount or its color. They care more about character, integrity, compassion, etc. All the worthwhile good shit that doesn't fade. The rest is just dressing and fluff.
-EV 8/14/93
With age I am getting more of a double chin.
That scares me.
I agree with the suggestion to volunteer for a cause you are interested in. You will meet like minded people and remember to just take it slow. Sometimes relationships take time to build.
I'm a renewed virgin of 20 years
Every second is new and great
I just love that song, though it breaks my heart every time.
I'm looking for a new job far away. I'll send money for the bills, etc., and visit on weekends. Maybe.
My cat is the only one I can live with. She'll come with me.
Prague Krakow Berlin 2018. Berlin 2022
EV, Taormina 1+2 2017.
I wish i was the souvenir you kept your house key on..
You never really had to begin with.
Sometimes it's not the song that makes you emotional it's the people and things that come to your mind when you hear it.
You never really had to begin with.
Sometimes it's not the song that makes you emotional it's the people and things that come to your mind when you hear it.
Prague Krakow Berlin 2018. Berlin 2022
EV, Taormina 1+2 2017.
I wish i was the souvenir you kept your house key on..
Every now and then, I cross paths with a beautiful soul. I tend to absorb their wonderful energy just like I do with others. I’m so used to the intense pain that usually brings me, that I forget how amazing the really good ones feel. Best high ever for me. Like hugging an angel.
astoria 06
albany 06
hartford 06
reading 06
barcelona 06
paris 06
wembley 07
dusseldorf 07
nijmegen 07
this song is meant to be called i got shit,itshould be called i got shit tickets-hartford 06 -
I miss my country where there was actually such a thing as freedom of choice.
You never really had to begin with.
Sometimes it's not the song that makes you emotional it's the people and things that come to your mind when you hear it.
I get one every year and never feel sick.