Thank you Wish list and Eddie

edited September 2008 in The Porch
Hello!
I am new to the message pit, my name is Mercedes and I live in Chicago.
I'm not exactly sure where to start, I feel like I have to much to share, but I'll try stick to my topic :-)

A few weeks ago when Eddie did the last 2 shows of his tour here in Chicago the Wish list foundation donated to Iraq Veterans Against the War.
I had the pleasure of working the IVAW table and meet some amazing folks (Foxy mop, Evil Monkey...something or other :-) that helped out with the Wish list table.
My fiancee is a soldier in the National Guard who has applied for Conscientious Objector status, which basically means requesting a discharge based on the fact that he could not kill anyone and his decision to join was completely wrong.
A junior in High School and 17 years old at the time, he was romanticized with the idea of helping people and travel, not really understanding what signing away 8 years of your life meant at that time.
Lucky for us, he is almost out and by a miracle mistake just missed a deployment to Afghanistan.
A good friend of ours got us tickets at the last minute for the Thursday show on 8/21. We were sooooo thankful to even be there.
As we made our way up the 5 flights of stairs to our balcony seats a stranger pulled us aside and asked if we wanted an upgrade. We said, "sure!" thinking maybe we would get moved down a floor. This man had no idea who we were and after giving us tickets I thanked him and told him we were with the IVAW and had just met the Wish List folks. He said I work for Ed, enjoy!
We started making our way down and down and down.....all the way to FRONT ROW CENTER!!!! I still can't believe it, we couldn't believe it.
We didn't even know that could happen...that there ticket fairies in the crowd :-)
We've never had front row anything! I've been listening to the band since I was 12 in 1992. I am still in shock.
Our friend Tomas was there and we were really excited because we saw him trying to clap and move both arms, just a week before he could only move one since the stroke.
We've been visiting him while he's here in Chicago, he's been incredible inspiration to Tyler and myself and a constant reminder of why need to do our part.
Needless to say it was beyond amazing and we cried the whole way thru No War. Especially since just less than 24hours before that Tyler would have been on his way to Afghanistan.

Sorry I just went on a rant but I just wanted to share how amazing the whole experience was.

My reason for thanking Wish List and the band is that all the money that was raised was used for getting myself and many other Veterans to the "Veterans for Peace" convention in Minneapolis last week.
We were able to bring other folks that were not in Chicago and pay for food, hotel and transportation. We couldn't have done it without you!!!
The convention was powerful, I had to pleasure to meet many Vietnam Veterans, men and women. I met other families that have been affected by this war, mothers, wives, children, sisters, brothers.
There was a very strong police presence there. Everyday of the convention about 20 or 30 police officers in full gear, guns, handcuffs, billy clubs and mace continuously did walk thrus. We didn't even so much as march or protest..and they still hounded us.
I was able to teach a couple of Yoga classes which was great since it was the first of it's kind at this event.
The last Yoga class scheduled was canceled because once again the police surrounded our hotel after the veterans stepped outside for a group photo.
The class was scheduled outside, but after 4 or so squad cars surrounded the area we decided to go back inside. Nobody did anything but be friendly to them, I guess they just really wanted us to know they were there.
Regardless, it was a very healing experience for myself and many other people.
The fund raiser couldn't have came at a better time.
Again, Thank you!!
All of you who came out, those of you there in spirit, the band.. everybody.
Thank you~
You truly are making a difference!
Peace
Mercedes
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  • Tomas Young is an effing inspiration - and so is your post! Thanks....
    be philanthropic
  • IamMineIamMine Posts: 2,743
    Wow, I love newbies on the Pit - they bring new perspectives and fresh energy. :)

    Thank you for sharing your inspiring story and for your activism to bring more people out!

    Wishlist has wonderful and dedicated people - have had the pleasure of meeting some of them in the past. :)

    Kudos to them for raising the funds to help with your cause! ::thumbs up::

    Thank you for the update on Tomas - I always look forward to the updates on his health and hoping he gets better!

    Congrats on getting to the front row with a nice surprise!

    Welcome to the Pit, Mercedes aka Spin Black Circles! :)

    P.S. Hubby and I have been looking into signing up for Yoga classes but those are darn expensive! :( I think we'll probably just look at the library for DVD. I am also studying a little on Reiki... :p
    JA: Why do I get the Ticketmaster question?
    EV: It's your band.
    ~Q Magazine


    "Kisses for the glow...kisses for the lease." - BDRII
  • IamMineIamMine Posts: 2,743
    I just re-read your post again and it just struck me with this:
    Everyday of the convention about 20 or 30 police officers in full gear, guns, handcuffs, billy clubs and mace continuously did walk thrus. We didn't even so much as march or protest..and they still hounded us.

    Sigh. Why did they feel the need to behave like that if there were no signs of destructive behavior?

    Talk about management by intimidation....

    Do you happen to have some pictures to share with us from that convention in Minn?

    *shakes head in disappointment with the police's behavior*
    JA: Why do I get the Ticketmaster question?
    EV: It's your band.
    ~Q Magazine


    "Kisses for the glow...kisses for the lease." - BDRII
  • nice first post...I wish more soldier's would object to their " duties ", it must be extremely hard to be barely an adult and thrust into hell without ever knowing what to expect...and they get paid shatty wages....I am not against our millitary, just the wars we get ourselves into...
    God Loves Pearl Jam
  • Hi Mercedes, it's jeannette from wishlist.
    i wanted to thank YOU and the IVAW for being part of our Eddie Vedder celebration in chicago.
    i'm glad we were able to raise funds and awareness for your organization and i'm EXTREMELY glad tyler didnt get deployed.
    i wear my "I SUPPORT VETERANS AGAINST THE WAR" t-shirt with pride.
    i fully support our troops (not the war) and i for one want them to get the care and benefits they deserve and that they were promised for their service.
    through the work of organizations like yours, hopefully that will happen for all vets.
    anyone who's interested in learning more or donating can go here:
    http://ivaw.org/

    for the chicago chpater:
    http://ivaw.org/chapter/chicago

    to get the t-shirt i mentioned:
    http://ivaw.org/store

    meeting and talking with all of you brings even more meaning to these words
    NO MORE:

    I speak for a man who gave for this land
    Took a bullet in the back for his pay
    Spilled his blood in the dirt and the dust
    He's back to say:

    What he has seen is hard to believe
    And it does no good to just pray
    He asks of us to stand
    And we must end this war today

    With his mind, he's saying, "No more!"
    With his heart, he's saying, "No more!"
    With his life he's saying, "No more war!"

    With his eyes, he's saying, "No more!"
    With his body, he's saying, "No more!"
    With his voice, he's saying, "No more war!"

    Yeah, nothing's too good for a veteran
    Yeah, this is what they say
    So nothing is what they will get
    And there's no American way

    The lies we were told to get us to go
    Were criminal (?)... let us be straight
    Let's get to the point where our voices get heard
    And I know what I'll say

    With his mind, he's saying, "No more!"
    With his heart, he's saying, "No more!"
    With his life he's saying, "No more war!"

    With his eyes, he's saying, "No more!"
    With his voice, he's saying, "No more!"
    With his body, he's saying, "No more war!"

    No more innocents dying
    No more terror rising
    No more eulogizing
    No more evangelizing
    No more presidents lying
    No more war

    With our minds, we're saying, "No more!"
    With our hearts, we're saying, "No more!"
    With our lives, we're saying, "No more war!"
    ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
    peace,
    ~jeannette~
    ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
    Get it now, get enough, before its gone, let's everybody carry on, carry on....
    ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
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  • i'm glad your man wasn't sent off to die like so many others and i'm glad he is smart enough and strong enough to object to going to kill innocent people.

    the police in this country are out of control! more and more police brutality is occurring every day!!
    the FBI & police even preemptively raided local activists houses before the demonstrations!!!! can you fucking believe this??!! this country is rapidly turning into Nazi Germany and we all need to wake up and do something about it before we are all living under the boot of Fascism!!!

    they think they can make us stay in "free speech zones" and raid our houses and scare us silent??!!

    AIN'T GONNA HAPPEN PIGS!!!!!!!
  • jonbond1779jonbond1779 London, UK Posts: 1,641
    Very cool post! Thanks for sharing!

    And welcome to the pit!
    "Bring it back, to the clean form. To the pure form"

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  • IamMine wrote:
    I am also studying a little on Reiki... :p


    I also practice Reiki :)
    “A journey of a thousand miles begins with a single step.”
    — Lao Tzu
  • Welcome Mercedes! What a great post!
    “A journey of a thousand miles begins with a single step.”
    — Lao Tzu
  • How can I get a job working for Wishlist? pm me with info please.
    Underneath this smile lies everything...All my hopes, anger, pride and shame...make myself a pact, not to shut doors on the past just for today,... I am free.
  • blondieblue227blondieblue227 Va, USA Posts: 4,509
    don't say sorry. thanks for writting that note! :)
    *~Pearl Jam will be blasted from speakers until morale improves~*

  • thanks for a great post and for sharing your story!!

    wishing you lots of success with your organization
    and we hope to meet you along the road someday!!!

    hugs from miami!
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  • kcherubkcherub Posts: 961
    Welcome, girl! It was great to meet you...although next time we will talk somewhere other than in the bathroom! :)
    I still want you all to "take care"--I am just damn tired of typing it.

    http://www.youtube.com/user/kcherub#p/a/u/0/N-UQprRqSwo
  • ClariceClarice Posts: 256
    Great, Mercedes. Your work and inspiration make us believe we can change the world. One day, may be more days, but change..Kisses
  • yahamitayahamita Posts: 1,514
    The realities of living in America..Sad times...Glad you were able to attend and blessed with the upgrade.
    I knew all the rules, but the rules did not know me...GUARANTEED!

    Hail Hail HIPPIEMOM

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    http://www.wishlistfoundation.org
    info@wishlistfoundation.org
  • Nice to have you. Welcome to the coolest place on the internet.
    Check out the download threads
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  • I am so happy i just read that... just when I was ready to lose some faith in mankind... I read that! Thanks so much for that great story... *tears in eyes*
  • Welcome Mercedes :)

    Thank you sooooooooo much for sharing this wonderful story!!! Such a moving and inspiring story - I'm sitting here with a huge lump in my throat and my eyes are welling with tears :o
    Peace
    Kylie :)
  • LONGRDLONGRD Posts: 6,036
    Great intro post, and thanks for the amazing story.
    the Wishlist folks are a sweet group of awesome people.
    PJ- 04/29/2003.06/24,25,27,28,30/2008.10/27,28,30,31/2009
    EV- 08/09,10/2008.06/08,09/2009
  • Hello to all fellow Pearl Jam fans,

    My name is Tyler Zabel and I'm Mercedes' fiance, and I only feel that it is fair for me to tell her story as she has told mine here. She really epitomizes the words 'I'm still alive' more than anyone else I've ever met before, as she was born in El Salvador in the middle of a bloody civil war that our government helped to incite as the daughter of a rebel guerilla fighting against the government, a true dissident indeed (are all these PJ song references too corny?)

    Her family sold all they had so their children wouldn't be drafted as soldiers or raised in an environment with explosions happening all around them their whole lives. There is nothing more sobering to a soldier than hearing war from the mouth of a child, and her voice had a very big influence on giving me the strength to resist this military machine I have somehow become a part of...

    Although it sounds like this story ends happily ever after, unfortunately I've just been called up for a deployment, even against my conscientious objection packet that is still pending. I know as a CO I'll be put through living hell if I go on this deployment and dragged off to Afghanistan to participate in a war I don't believe in so I will most likely go AWOL and hide out for a while.

    Soo... Any lawyers in the house? :)

    Thank you again to Wishlist for donating to the IVAW and helping us get to the convention, as it was a beautiful experience for everyone involved. Thank you to Eddie for giving us the opportunity to experience the life changing concert in the front row, as it will forever be embedded in my mind as the day I grasped Divinity for the first time.

    Peace and Love to everyone else, and thank you for all that you are.

    Lots 'o Love,
    Tyler Lee Zabel
    "In this cause I too am prepared to die. There is no cause for which I am prepared to kill" -Gandhi

    Iraq Veterans Against the War
    www.ivaw.org
  • PJPixiePJPixie Posts: 3,026
    Hello to all fellow Pearl Jam fans,

    My name is Tyler Zabel and I'm Mercedes' fiance, and I only feel that it is fair for me to tell her story as she has told mine here. She really epitomizes the words 'I'm still alive' more than anyone else I've ever met before, as she was born in El Salvador in the middle of a bloody civil war that our government helped to incite as the daughter of a rebel guerilla fighting against the government, a true dissident indeed (are all these PJ song references too corny?)

    Her family sold all they had so their children wouldn't be drafted as soldiers or raised in an environment with explosions happening all around them their whole lives. There is nothing more sobering to a soldier than hearing war from the mouth of a child, and her voice had a very big influence on giving me the strength to resist this military machine I have somehow become a part of...

    Although it sounds like this story ends happily ever after, unfortunately I've just been called up for a deployment, even against my conscientious objection packet that is still pending. I know as a CO I'll be put through living hell if I go on this deployment and dragged off to Afghanistan to participate in a war I don't believe in so I will most likely go AWOL and hide out for a while.

    Soo... Any lawyers in the house? :)

    Thank you again to Wishlist for donating to the IVAW and helping us get to the convention, as it was a beautiful experience for everyone involved. Thank you to Eddie for giving us the opportunity to experience the life changing concert in the front row, as it will forever be embedded in my mind as the day I grasped Divinity for the first time.

    Peace and Love to everyone else, and thank you for all that you are.

    Lots 'o Love,
    Tyler Lee Zabel


    Wow, Tyler...........I dont even know what to say. I was all ready to respond to your fiances post and then I read your post. My prayers are with you and whatever you decide to do. You two keep the faith............I hope to read about your wedding to your wonderful fiance soon! You two sound like amazing people and I'm glad you made your way to this message pit!
    The best use of Life is Love.
    The best expression of Love is Time.
    The best time to Love is Now.


    I'm never as good as when you're there.........
  • Thank you, I'm happy to be here too. This is a really beautiful group of people and this band has influenced my life in so many ways it's just such a relief to be surrounded by fellow fans and like minded souls. :)
    "In this cause I too am prepared to die. There is no cause for which I am prepared to kill" -Gandhi

    Iraq Veterans Against the War
    www.ivaw.org
  • Hello to all fellow Pearl Jam fans,

    My name is Tyler Zabel and I'm Mercedes' fiance, and I only feel that it is fair for me to tell her story as she has told mine here. She really epitomizes the words 'I'm still alive' more than anyone else I've ever met before, as she was born in El Salvador in the middle of a bloody civil war that our government helped to incite as the daughter of a rebel guerilla fighting against the government, a true dissident indeed (are all these PJ song references too corny?)

    Her family sold all they had so their children wouldn't be drafted as soldiers or raised in an environment with explosions happening all around them their whole lives. There is nothing more sobering to a soldier than hearing war from the mouth of a child, and her voice had a very big influence on giving me the strength to resist this military machine I have somehow become a part of...

    Although it sounds like this story ends happily ever after, unfortunately I've just been called up for a deployment, even against my conscientious objection packet that is still pending. I know as a CO I'll be put through living hell if I go on this deployment and dragged off to Afghanistan to participate in a war I don't believe in so I will most likely go AWOL and hide out for a while.

    Soo... Any lawyers in the house? :)

    Thank you again to Wishlist for donating to the IVAW and helping us get to the convention, as it was a beautiful experience for everyone involved. Thank you to Eddie for giving us the opportunity to experience the life changing concert in the front row, as it will forever be embedded in my mind as the day I grasped Divinity for the first time.

    Peace and Love to everyone else, and thank you for all that you are.

    Lots 'o Love,
    Tyler Lee Zabel

    Tyler ... U and Mercedes are loving, kind hearted, amazing souls. You have both touched my heart so deeply, words just can't express. You have made it through many milestones of late and will work through this one as well. You are one of the truest peaceful hearts I have ever met and am trusting good things will continue to come your way. Always know that I support you and always feel free to ask for support when ya need it. With love and many blessings ... h&d
    "i'm a dedicated insomniac" ~ ev nyc beacon 6/22
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