summer 2011

Jowas77Jowas77 Posts: 74
edited September 2011 in A Moving Train
I met EV this summer and I though-"that's the best summer of my life" ... now my marriage is falling apart .. after 9 years ...life is a b....!!!!
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  • Jason PJason P Posts: 19,157
    Keep hope!
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  • RFTCRFTC Posts: 723
    sorry to hear this, you got a ton of support from us here as i've rvd some great advice/perspective from fellow PJ posters in the past. brighter days are ahead...
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    This is a good place to get a little distance from the world up close for a little while and there're a lot of good people here who care - you're in good company here on the PJ forum. Hang in there!
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  • mikepegg44mikepegg44 Posts: 3,353
    Jowas77 wrote:
    I met EV this summer and I though-"that's the best summer of my life" ... now my marriage is falling apart .. after 9 years ...life is a b....!!!!


    ups and downs, my parents divorced after 28 years, marriages are tough...but as I have learned from my own relationships and watching my friends get divorced, holding on to something toxic is never the right choice. if you have kids or any other reason to work it out I would say try as long as you both can be happy, but remember life has a mysterious way of working out if you give up your illusion of control and enjoy the ride...
    Good luck, this will be a difficult time, I hope you will get the outcome you need...No matter what happens you will grow as a person and your life will be better because of it
    that’s right! Can’t we all just get together and focus on our real enemies: monogamous gays and stem cells… - Ned Flanders
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  • UpSideDownUpSideDown Posts: 1,966
    Best advice I ever received on failed relationships:

    "You don't have to get over it, just get through it"
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