Would you change your name to get a job?
Thoughts_Arrive
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My name is very European and I am still unemployed....
My name is very European and I am still unemployed....
Adelaide 17/11/2009, Melbourne 20/11/2009, Sydney 22/11/2009, Melbourne (Big Day Out Festival) 24/01/2014
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why should someone have to do that?
geez man
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I have a friend from Iran. She moved to the U.S. in the late 70s (not the best time to make that move) and she has a very "ethnic sounding" name but she never changed/shortened it. She married a guy with a really WASPy last name but she did not take the name. It shocked the hell out of me when she started selling real estate a few years back. I saw her business card and it had a shortened version of her first name with her husband's last name.
My maiden name is...different...it actually rhymes with my first name, which I thought was cool. I took my husband's name when I got married, so now it sounds really French Canadian...sooo, people tend to not expect me when they meet me in person. It's kind of my thing to keep people guessing. :shifty:
I have a client with a very scottish last name....I was looking forward to meeting her in person after dealing with her on the phone for a few weeks (yes, I had that laughable 'she sounds hot' thing happening in my head haha)....When it came time to meet with her, I showed up at her work and asked the first person I saw, this beautiful japanese woman, if she was available....I'm positive I had a momentary puzzled expression on my face when she said 'that's me'
As for the OP...
I disagree with this...I am absolutely NOT racist...but when I'm going thru piles of resumes, I first look at experience. Generally, if their work history is overseas, in a foreign-language speaking country, they get put behind resumes with similar experience. I've had issues with communication with employees in the past.....and if I've got resume's from 3 people, one named Daniel McClean, one named Mike Smith, and one named Agnok Lueth, all with similar qualifications, and only time for 2 interviews...guess who isn't getting a call? Maybe Agnok is the best candidate of the three, but without interviews how would I know? I can't interview every person that submits a resume, so.....potential communication issues becomes a filter in pre-screening for interviews.
It's def a hardship for immigrants, and I'm sure there are instances that racism plays a part...but I don't think it's racist to consider communication skills a qualification for employment.
I would do what it takes to survive...a name change ,no problem.
Godfather.
.....said the white guy.
i can see that. i imagine a few adolf's changed their name way back when as well...
ahhh geeez here we go........save that shit for someone else.
Godfather.
ha ha ha a good friend of my familys has a nice german name.....Nicewonger,no I'm not joking.
one of the coolest people I know.
Godfather.
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Why not (V) (°,,,,°) (V) ?
you didn't really think my name was Lance Long, did you?
Some ethnic names can be memorable though. Like Galifianakis.
Godfather.
LOL!!!!!very cool name !
Godfather.
Why, too entrenched in your own beliefs to even discuss them?
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Godfather.
People have to adapt in foreign environments. My buddy spend a year traveling through India and Asia and told everyone he is Canadian (even though he couldn't name Vancouver's hockey team when I questioned him ). He did it to avoid discrimination associated with the U.S. military presence in the middle east.
The point underlying my statement to Godfather is that it's often the white people who are quick to suggest that minorities just assimilate to the majority culture. "Why can't they just be like us and do what we do" is the message. Not saying that Godfather thinks that way, but now I won't know because he's all in a huff.
all in a huff ? "Why can't they just be like us and do what we do" I see everybody like I see myself and I treat them as I would want to be treated and I think the race card is used like first act of fefence when ever a topic is mentioning people who are not white,I don't have anything to be ashamed of and if someone else does then they will have to live with that and they don't need me to tell them that they were or are wrong about color or sexual oriention comments,this guy in the OP's story should do what he needs to do and if that means changing his name then that is up to him,he threw himself into a situation that I'm sure he anticipated this sort of set back so he should do what he has to to survive and how he does that is not my business,if I were to move to Sudan I would expect nothing less that what this guy has to deal with so I would either prepare or do what I needed to do to survive and changing my name is no big deal to me.
Godfather.