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  • MegaphoneWhisperMegaphoneWhisper Posts: 219
    Proof that none of the bickering in here will EVER amount to anything.

    This is the kind of thing that puts it all in perspective. Way too young.

    I am so very sorry for your loss.

    I found comfort in ComeBack when my daughter passed away.

    "I swear that your next to me. And It's OK"

    Here's to hoping that it comforts you as well.
    Gets up, lights a cigarette he's grown to hate
    Thinking if he can't sleep, how will he ever dream?

    But his heart don't seem to roam......
  • lannerslanners Posts: 458
    sorry for your loss, and the world's loss of a young man with so much potential.
    i. am. mine.
  • howIchoose2feelhowIchoose2feel Posts: 366
    He was only a year older than my son. Constant recoil, sometimes life just don't leave you alone. So sorry for your loss. Be strong and hold him close in your memories.
    The wisdom that the old can't give away

    How I choose to feel is how I am
  • sky08sky08 Posts: 43
    That's terrible about Matthew. So sorry.
  • Brisk.Brisk. Posts: 11,567
    Sorry to hear your loss.

    Born the same year as me, makes me think!
  • alexersalexers Posts: 492
    I'm so sorry for your loss. You guys are in my thoughts...
  • Soujiro_SetaSoujiro_Seta Posts: 100
    I'm sorry for your loss. Hang in there!
  • angryyoungmanangryyoungman Medford, NY Posts: 1,028
    i feel your pain. . .my best friend died right in front of me a couple of years ago. . .thats him in my sig. . .long road always reminds me of him
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  • pearljgirl2010pearljgirl2010 Shillington, PA/Tuckerton, NJ Posts: 3,428
    I'm really sorry for this loss...it's never easy when someone moves on...I hope you can hang in there and focus on all of your good memories
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  • InMyTree4InMyTree4 Posts: 1,239
    sorry man im the same age and have been through it a few times. thoughts are with you.
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  • Indian SummerIndian Summer Posts: 2,296
    What happened to him?
    "It's all happening"
  • SVRDhand13SVRDhand13 Posts: 26,446
    Sorry for your loss Jeremy. Just talk with friends and listen to great music and you'll get through it.
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  • Drop The Leash 10Drop The Leash 10 Posts: 7,011
    aww dude that sucks :( such a hard thing to go through. RIP
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    Once I get out of this town


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  • mouthfulofsoupmouthfulofsoup Posts: 397
    Indian Summer wrote:
    What happened to him?

    (Seriously, I read through all these posts trying to get that answer too.)

    Sorry for your loss. Find strength in the happy memories you shared & be grateful that you had the chance to know him, even if just for a while.
    "Oh, a flower you are to my land..."
  • patrickredeyespatrickredeyes Posts: 8,834
    I am so very sorry for your loss. :(
  • finnanniefinnannie Posts: 1,186
    He died way too young, my thoughts are with his family and friends. So sad. :(

    “Love is stronger than death even though it can't stop death from happening, but no matter how hard death tries it can't separate people from love. It can't take away our memories either. In the end, life is stronger than death.”
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  • the wolfthe wolf Posts: 7,027
    very sorry. sending good vibes. hang in there.
    Peace, Love.

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  • Jam10Jam10 Posts: 654
    So Sorry for your loss. We're all here for you if you need to chat!
  • hrd2imgnhrd2imgn Southwest Burbs of Chicago Posts: 4,902
    Peace to him and prayers to friends and family
  • cookiescookies Posts: 113
    Losing someone is hard. I just lost the first baby I every held last month he was 31 his b-day is Aug 26. He lived in LA and his mother talked to me everyday. I was not there the day he died but was there for his mom a very good friend of mine. I was amazed by her strenght. And it hurt that I could not be there for them. But I went numb and still today having trouble of letting go. So I know what you may be feeling. But we the living keep living on, at first it is just going through the motion but as time moves on we start living again. And with dealing with the deaths in my life I come to realize that the ones left behind suffer the most. So know in your heart the way I know the pain you allow yourself to feel is healing. Just allow yourself to feel.
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  • Hubmann2513Hubmann2513 Posts: 238
    I'm sorry about your loss. It's so sad
  • Stephen FlowStephen Flow Posts: 3,327
    Sorry for you loss, he died way too young... Come Back often reminds me of my cousin who died of meningitis at the age of 22... we were pretty close and it struck me pretty hard, it really put my life into perspective... my thoughts and prayers go out to you.
  • InMyTree4InMyTree4 Posts: 1,239
    thumbing my way really reminds me of people ive lost awesome song may make you feel a little better
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  • girlinthewhitepantsgirlinthewhitepants Posts: 242
    I'm sorry too.
  • camaroscamaros Posts: 1,003
    sorry dude... many of us have been there.
    i like sound...
  • ToneTone Posts: 1,206
    So sorry to hear that, so tragic. I hope you're with your friends, your family, his family looking after each other. Take care.
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  • MikeLammi23MikeLammi23 Posts: 109
    I have experienced loss, but never to a friend or family member that young.

    I am so sorry to hear about this, and send thoughts to you, and to his family as well.
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  • i_am_minei_am_mine Posts: 53
    sorry for your loss.
  • shes a peachshes a peach Posts: 77
    So sorry..it is always hard when someone is that young. My heart goes out to you and all of his loved ones.
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  • shell bellshell bell Posts: 337
    I'm sorry for your loss. My little sister died at 18. 18 is just way too young...............
    when you get confused just listen to the music play........

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