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LikeAnOceanLikeAnOcean Posts: 7,718
edited April 2011 in All Encompassing Trip
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for those who read, thanks for the input. I talked to her again today about it and she convincingly told me it wasn't a problem and that there will be "many more times".


As long as she's patient with me and understands it's not her fault, that's what I needed to know.
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  • Lukin66Lukin66 Posts: 3,063
    Most down-to-earth girls are okay with this, especially if you tell the truth about the reasons behind it. Just make sure to blow her socks off next time though :lol:
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  • molten_toothpastemolten_toothpaste Posts: 422
    I'm sure she's more than understanding considering you've waited 5+ months, plus I'm sure you're were pre-occupied making sure you weren't being too rough since she's recovering from her surgery.
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  • LikeAnOceanLikeAnOcean Posts: 7,718
    Lukin66 wrote:
    Just make sure to blow her socks off next time though :lol:
    see.. that just makes it more psycologically demanding. :lol:


    I'm pretty sure I've blown her socks off in every other way possible.. Maybe it will be next time, maybe it will be the 5th time.. I just hope she's as patient as I've been. 8-)
  • LikeAnOceanLikeAnOcean Posts: 7,718
    molten_toothpaste wrote:
    I'm sure she's more than understanding considering you've waited 5+ months, plus I'm sure you're were pre-occupied making sure you weren't being too rough since she's recovering from her surgery.
    trust me.. there was waaay too much going on in my mind to relax. This is going to take a few tries and I hope she understands.. it would be one thing if this was after a few dates, no strings, but by this point there's a lot of feelings moving around the brain.
  • molten_toothpastemolten_toothpaste Posts: 422
    You said you had talked about it with her. How did that go?
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  • LikeAnOceanLikeAnOcean Posts: 7,718
    edited April 2011
    molten_toothpaste wrote:
    You said you had talked about it with her. How did that go?
    She seemed more than understanding, but I still feel like crap, and surprised of myself. :/ ..I was more worried I'd be done too quickly.. but I couldn't even get there. :? everything up until this point has been great, so I thought expectations were to make it great, but its not about thinking.. it's about feeling, and thats not always so easy to do.
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  • molten_toothpastemolten_toothpaste Posts: 422
    I understand why you'd still feel like crap. She's not trying to ease your ego, it sounds to me that she genuinely understands (and appreciates) you talking about it. You're fine; and don't think about this too much when the next time comes around!
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    Tres MTS. - Gramercy - Mar 26, 2011
  • LikeAnOceanLikeAnOcean Posts: 7,718
    molten_toothpaste wrote:
    I understand why you'd still feel like crap. She's not trying to ease your ego, it sounds to me that she genuinely understands (and appreciates) you talking about it. You're fine; and don't think about this too much when the next time comes around!
    To be corny here and quote Ed.. "It's not to think, but to feel" 8-)

    Not always so easy, but the right mind frame. 8-)
  • molten_toothpastemolten_toothpaste Posts: 422
    Hope what I said was a little helpful to you. Seriously, don't burden yourself by over-thinking about it.

    "Makes much more sense to live in the present tense"
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    Tres MTS. - Gramercy - Mar 26, 2011
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