Debt relief question

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Just wondering if anyone here knows of any experiences with debt relief companies.
Due to me being jerked around by my employer (leaving me without a paycheck since January and me being too proud to get on welfare) and self-medicating to a fairly considerable degree, I now find myself over $30,000 in debt with no credit left to draw upon. I basically decided that I had to do something to change things and ended up moving back in with my parents - leaving the job (?) and friends behing in another city.
My family have made it clear that at 29, that me living at home is not something they are going to entertain for very long. So, I'd like to get my debt paid off as quickly as I can and get back on track; however, it will take a bit of time since good jobs aren't easy to find right now. I've gotten behind on all my bills and am very much considering going to a debt settlement agency for help and time to get things together.
I've read some bad things about these companies, so I'm hoping to get some advice on whether they're a viable option versus just leaving things as they are for a bit and ignoring the creditor's calls.
If it makes any difference, I'm in Ontario, Canada.
Thanks.
Due to me being jerked around by my employer (leaving me without a paycheck since January and me being too proud to get on welfare) and self-medicating to a fairly considerable degree, I now find myself over $30,000 in debt with no credit left to draw upon. I basically decided that I had to do something to change things and ended up moving back in with my parents - leaving the job (?) and friends behing in another city.
My family have made it clear that at 29, that me living at home is not something they are going to entertain for very long. So, I'd like to get my debt paid off as quickly as I can and get back on track; however, it will take a bit of time since good jobs aren't easy to find right now. I've gotten behind on all my bills and am very much considering going to a debt settlement agency for help and time to get things together.
I've read some bad things about these companies, so I'm hoping to get some advice on whether they're a viable option versus just leaving things as they are for a bit and ignoring the creditor's calls.
If it makes any difference, I'm in Ontario, Canada.
Thanks.
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i know nothing of debt relief companies
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I have read that some companies take advantage and you actually end up with more indebtedness. I've known a few people who went through Consumer Credit Counseling Service to resolve their debts and who told me that it's a good organization. It probably helps that it's a nonprofit organization. Don't know if they have CCCS in Canada but I think it would be worth looking into. Good luck."The stars are all connected to the brain."0
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I know in the UK they recommend to only go with the charities and not with debt management companies. We also have CCCS in the UK so there is a possibility they may also be based in Canada.So are we strangers now? Like rock and roll and the radio?0
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RD96430 wrote:Just wondering if anyone here knows of any experiences with debt relief companies.
Due to me being jerked around by my employer (leaving me without a paycheck since January and me being too proud to get on welfare) and self-medicating to a fairly considerable degree, I now find myself over $30,000 in debt with no credit left to draw upon. I basically decided that I had to do something to change things and ended up moving back in with my parents - leaving the job (?) and friends behing in another city.
My family have made it clear that at 29, that me living at home is not something they are going to entertain for very long. So, I'd like to get my debt paid off as quickly as I can and get back on track; however, it will take a bit of time since good jobs aren't easy to find right now. I've gotten behind on all my bills and am very much considering going to a debt settlement agency for help and time to get things together.
I've read some bad things about these companies, so I'm hoping to get some advice on whether they're a viable option versus just leaving things as they are for a bit and ignoring the creditor's calls.
If it makes any difference, I'm in Ontario, Canada.
Thanks.
I would file for bankruptcy and start from scratch. Call a lawyer, pay him $500, and file for bankruptcy.Take me piece by piece.....
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Honestly, I would NOT file for bankruptcy. You are 29, and that will be on your credit for 10 years or more (maybe in CAN they do it different?). I assume you may want to buy a house someday? If no, then go ahead and file. If a creditor wants to find something, they will...and now they are scrutinizing everybody and being really selective.
I don't need to talk about my finances here publicly but I was in a similar situation as you...if you want, PM me and I will tell you what Consumer Credit Counseling did for me.
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4and20 wrote:Honestly, I would NOT file for bankruptcy. You are 29, and that will be on your credit for 10 years or more (maybe in CAN they do it different?). I assume you may want to buy a house someday? If no, then go ahead and file. If a creditor wants to find something, they will...and now they are scrutinizing everybody and being really selective.
I don't need to talk about my finances here publicly but I was in a similar situation as you...if you want, PM me and I will tell you what Consumer Credit Counseling did for me.
Good Luck
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4and20 wrote:Honestly, I would NOT file for bankruptcy. You are 29, and that will be on your credit for 10 years or more (maybe in CAN they do it different?). I assume you may want to buy a house someday? If no, then go ahead and file. If a creditor wants to find something, they will...and now they are scrutinizing everybody and being really selective.
I don't need to talk about my finances here publicly but I was in a similar situation as you...if you want, PM me and I will tell you what Consumer Credit Counseling did for me.
Good Luck
Im thinking this guys credit is probably screwed up anyways. Right?Take me piece by piece.....
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Check out Dave Ramsey's plan and stay away from Debt Relief companies.
Here are the essentials of his plan:
You make a budget of all of your income and you stick to that budget.
You make a list of your debts from smallest to largest and make minimum payments on all of them except the smallest. For that one you throw ALL of your extra money outside of the budget that you need to live. As soon as that one is paid off, you take all of the money you were paying there and throw it at the next smallest. As you go along, you'll pick up momentum from the additional cash of not having those other minimum payments.
If you're really dedicated, you should be able to pay it off in 3 years with a decent/average income.The only people we should try to get even with...
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know1 wrote:Check out Dave Ramsey's plan and stay away from Debt Relief companies.
Here are the essentials of his plan:
You make a budget of all of your income and you stick to that budget.
You make a list of your debts from smallest to largest and make minimum payments on all of them except the smallest. For that one you throw ALL of your extra money outside of the budget that you need to live. As soon as that one is paid off, you take all of the money you were paying there and throw it at the next smallest. As you go along, you'll pick up momentum from the additional cash of not having those other minimum payments.
If you're really dedicated, you should be able to pay it off in 3 years with a decent/average income.
10K a year is a ton of money. But if he can stay at home with his parents and live rent free without having to buy groceries, or clothing, or pay for transportation to get to and from work, I guess he can pay it off in 3 years.
But if he decides to get a job, move out to an apartment, buy groceries, clothing, and get himself to and from work every day. 30K in 3 years is not going to happen.Post edited by SPEEDY MCCREADY onTake me piece by piece.....
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know1 wrote:Check out Dave Ramsey's plan and stay away from Debt Relief companies.
Here are the essentials of his plan:
You make a budget of all of your income and you stick to that budget.
You make a list of your debts from smallest to largest and make minimum payments on all of them except the smallest. For that one you throw ALL of your extra money outside of the budget that you need to live. As soon as that one is paid off, you take all of the money you were paying there and throw it at the next smallest. As you go along, you'll pick up momentum from the additional cash of not having those other minimum payments.
If you're really dedicated, you should be able to pay it off in 3 years with a decent/average income.
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Do stay away from debt relief companies though. They don't do anything you can't do on your own. All they do is call the creditors and ask them to change the terms or lower the interest rates or consolidate the bills. You might be surprise by how much creditors will work with you if you call them. Debt relief companies do not have any more pull or weight than you do. They just do what people don't think of/or don't care to do on their own.DAL-7/5/98,10/17/00,6/9/03,11/15/13
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I paid off my debt in 2½ years...interest free. CCCS can help some...Dave said it in his book, yes, I have it.The joy of life comes from our encounters with new experiences, and hence there is no greater joy than to have an endlessly changing horizon, for each day to have a new and different sun.
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81 Needing a ride to Forest Hills and a ounce of weed. Please inquire within. Thanks. Or not. Posts: 58,27630K is all realative to what you make. i know lots of poeple that could pay that in cash. and even for a lot of people 10K a year isn't that tough to do unless you are working minimum wage. it's about being hungry and wanting it.
imo, be a man and pay your debt. call you creditors and discuss your situation. they might be able to work with you. i wouldn't call those for profit debt people, but if you have a not for profit service, than talk with them.
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SPEEDY MCCREADY wrote:$30K in debt? No job?
I would file for bankruptcy and start from scratch. Call a lawyer, pay him $500, and file for bankruptcy.
It's just so easy these days, huh? What if it was YOU who he borrowed the money from? Would you be so quick to suggest that he not honor the agreement to pay?The only people we should try to get even with...
...are those who've helped us.
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here is what you do:
STOP paying your credit card bills!
realize that you're not going to be able to buy anything on credit for about 20 years.
if you have any assets that could be taken by the law sell them and keep the cash in a safe place, but not a bank.
only pay the bills that you absolutely need, i.e. your car, shelter, utilities.
Once they take you to court (in 1 to 3 years) make sure that you have no tangible assets, except your (secret) cash.
The credit card companies will look at you like they're trying to squeeze the blood out of a rock and give up.
Your credit score will be shit for at least 10, maybe 20 years. Oh well. Who needs fucking credit anyway? It is like a cancer.Everything not forbidden is compulsory and eveything not compulsory is forbidden. You are free... free to do what the government says you can do.0 -
know1 wrote:Check out Dave Ramsey's plan and stay away from Debt Relief companies.
Here are the essentials of his plan:
You make a budget of all of your income and you stick to that budget.
You make a list of your debts from smallest to largest and make minimum payments on all of them except the smallest. For that one you throw ALL of your extra money outside of the budget that you need to live. As soon as that one is paid off, you take all of the money you were paying there and throw it at the next smallest. As you go along, you'll pick up momentum from the additional cash of not having those other minimum payments.
If you're really dedicated, you should be able to pay it off in 3 years with a decent/average income.
Never saw Dave Ramsey's plan, but I did that sort of thing with my school loan debts, and it's amazing how well it works (and you actually feel that you are making progress with each loan that gets paid off).My whole life
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he still stands wrote:here is what you do:
STOP paying your credit card bills!
realize that you're not going to be able to buy anything on credit for about 20 years.
if you have any assets that could be taken by the law sell them and keep the cash in a safe place, but not a bank.
only pay the bills that you absolutely need, i.e. your car, shelter, utilities.
Once they take you to court (in 1 to 3 years) make sure that you have no tangible assets, except your (secret) cash.
The credit card companies will look at you like they're trying to squeeze the blood out of a rock and give up.
Your credit score will be shit for at least 10, maybe 20 years. Oh well. Who needs fucking credit anyway? It is like a cancer.
This is by far some of the dumbest shit I've ever read.0 -
he still stands wrote:here is what you do:
STOP paying your credit card bills!
realize that you're not going to be able to buy anything on credit for about 20 years.
if you have any assets that could be taken by the law sell them and keep the cash in a safe place, but not a bank.
only pay the bills that you absolutely need, i.e. your car, shelter, utilities.
Once they take you to court (in 1 to 3 years) make sure that you have no tangible assets, except your (secret) cash.
The credit card companies will look at you like they're trying to squeeze the blood out of a rock and give up.
Your credit score will be shit for at least 10, maybe 20 years. Oh well. Who needs fucking credit anyway? It is like a cancer.
I HATE that people think it's acceptable to buy things on credit and then just not pay them back. That's stealing in my book.The only people we should try to get even with...
...are those who've helped us.
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not trying to be an ass here, but why did you wait so long to quit the job?
after the first missed paycheck I would have been searching for another job....even taking a min. wage job if it came down to it....any income is better than no income, right?
anyways, check into the not for profit companies mentioned already...
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blackredyellow wrote:know1 wrote:Check out Dave Ramsey's plan and stay away from Debt Relief companies.
Here are the essentials of his plan:
You make a budget of all of your income and you stick to that budget.
You make a list of your debts from smallest to largest and make minimum payments on all of them except the smallest. For that one you throw ALL of your extra money outside of the budget that you need to live. As soon as that one is paid off, you take all of the money you were paying there and throw it at the next smallest. As you go along, you'll pick up momentum from the additional cash of not having those other minimum payments.
If you're really dedicated, you should be able to pay it off in 3 years with a decent/average income.
Never saw Dave Ramsey's plan, but I did that sort of thing with my school loan debts, and it's amazing how well it works (and you actually feel that you are making progress with each loan that gets paid off).
A similar plan is to pay minimum on all except the one with the highest interest rate until it's paid off and then move on to the one with the next highest interest rate. Known as snowballing.
There is a calculator (it's a UK website but you can change currency) for calculating it all out http://www.whatsthecost.com/snowball.aspxSo are we strangers now? Like rock and roll and the radio?0
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