Inspired by Sloppy Joes

pandorapandora Posts: 21,855
edited August 2010 in Poetry, Prose, Music & Art
I was making sloppy joes the other night for dinner.
I dress mine up with green pepper and celery
something the kids hated so I avoided for many years
now JB and I enjoy. Seems more homemade, geez.

So I'm making them thinking 'this whole dinner thing has got to go'
Too many years of deciding upon the menu,
shopping, preparing, cooking, its gotten very old.

Simultaneously I pictured my Mama,
a fleeting thought directly from heaven or from her perhaps.

Old pair of undies on her head functioning like a hair net
covers her almost waist length dark brown hair,
worn always in a bun.
Thin cotton flowered house dress,
probably in the peach and coral shades
with the snap front and huge pockets,
filled with every misplaced item she found throughout the day.
'Hey Mom have you seen my eyeliner, my hairbrush, my report for Biology?'
Right there in her pocket. No need even for Mommy Radar.

Mama, smiling brown eyes,
no make up just a touch of coral lipstick,
prominent nose, heart shaped face.
Peasant stock.
She is humming.
And she is not cooking sloppy joes.
I don't think she ever resorted to sloppy joes
No not my Mama but if she did they would have been
homemade from scratch.

Jeanette made everything home made...
Noodles, bread, biscuits, pancakes, waffles,
gravy, spaghetti sauce, cocktail sauce, tatar sauce,
and salad, not from a bag! with homemade dressing,
fresh whole vegetables, soups, chowders from scratch,
oxtails, whole fish on the grill, eyes and all!
and the best damn sandwiches you ever ate,
all homemade.

When did this change?
Each generation seems to get less homemade.
Frozen, canned, dried, prepared.
Grab it, heat it, eat it.

My Mama's food was a gift
it was love in a bowl.
It was her time, it was thought,
It was creativity at its finest.
And man it was cherished,
now it is so missed,
one more thing to miss about Mama.

Funniest thing about all this,
my kids think I am great cook.
They will remember my homemade dishes, ha, fondly
and I too will be missed.
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  • runawayrunaway Posts: 427
    You're beautiful, Pandora...
    Music is the universal language
    What's better than a cigar? Ed with a sitar
  • pandorapandora Posts: 21,855
    runaway wrote:
    You're beautiful, Pandora...
    oh, thank you dear,
    I hope the sun shines on you today and warms your soul,
    hugs :D
  • runawayrunaway Posts: 427
    pandora wrote:
    runaway wrote:
    You're beautiful, Pandora...
    oh, thank you dear,
    I hope the sun shines on you today and warms your soul,
    hugs :D


    My world is dying..I am dying....sorry to say this but I don't think I belong on this planet anymore
    Music is the universal language
    What's better than a cigar? Ed with a sitar
  • pandorapandora Posts: 21,855
    runaway wrote:
    pandora wrote:
    runaway wrote:
    You're beautiful, Pandora...
    oh, thank you dear,
    I hope the sun shines on you today and warms your soul,
    hugs :D


    My world is dying..I am dying....sorry to say this but I don't think I belong on this planet anymore
    there are people who need you, you belong
    remember I need your sunshine too
    besides you have no other choice, here is where you stay.
    There is no choice in this matter
    and someday you will be glad there wasn't.
  • DangDangDangDang Posts: 1,551
    Only you, Pandora, can attach & express the most heartfelt sentiments regarding something as saucy, sloppy, & slurpy as Sloppy Joes. That's a gift.
  • pandorapandora Posts: 21,855
    DangDang wrote:
    Only you, Pandora, can attach & express the most heartfelt sentiments regarding something as saucy, sloppy, & slurpy as Sloppy Joes. That's a gift.
    Say, your sentiment on my sloppy satire is both sweet
    and sincere and I soulfully say shank you ;)
    seriously your kind words are greatly appreciated :D
  • eyedclaareyedclaar Posts: 6,980
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  • pandorapandora Posts: 21,855
    eyedclaar wrote:
    Pandora, you are my only shred of hope for humanity.
    Wow, no pressures though ;)

    I thought of you last night.... in a good way.
    I was watching the Big Brother show and
    the fella I was rooting for to win spoke of his shooting abilities.
    How he shoots turtles for fun and other "eyes in the dark".
    Well I was shocked and immediately thought of you and how awfully mad you would be,
    as I was. How incredibly disappointing people can be.
    The type of man you are has touched my heart. Wildlife, wilderness loving.
    It was the type of man I thought he was, the type he should be.
    The type they all should be.
    So it might be said I feel you bring me hope for mankind too.
  • DangDangDangDang Posts: 1,551
    pandora wrote:
    DangDang wrote:
    Only you, Pandora, can attach & express the most heartfelt sentiments regarding something as saucy, sloppy, & slurpy as Sloppy Joes. That's a gift.
    Say, your sentiment on my sloppy satire is both sweet
    and sincere and I soulfully say shank you ;)
    seriously your kind words are greatly appreciated :D

    Shank you wasz not a typo..or waszit?

    May I draw attention to the fact that I did not at all comment on the cool fact that your mama wore old undies on her head while cooking. Not a word did I say about it.....Because in fact, there is nothing to be said for undies on one's head. Nothing!
  • pandorapandora Posts: 21,855
    DangDang wrote:
    pandora wrote:
    DangDang wrote:
    Only you, Pandora, can attach & express the most heartfelt sentiments regarding something as saucy, sloppy, & slurpy as Sloppy Joes. That's a gift.
    Say, your sentiment on my sloppy satire is both sweet
    and sincere and I soulfully say shank you ;)
    seriously your kind words are greatly appreciated :D

    Shank you wasz not a typo..or waszit?

    May I draw attention to the fact that I did not at all comment on the cool fact that your mama wore old undies on her head while cooking. Not a word did I say about it.....Because in fact, there is nothing to be said for undies on one's head. Nothing!
    or old buttered toast in a drawer
    another story ;)
  • Godfather.Godfather. Posts: 12,504
    I called my wife and mother to say thanks......you made me do it Pandi. :lol:
    XLNT write.

    Godfather.
  • Godfather.Godfather. Posts: 12,504
    DangDang wrote:
    pandora wrote:
    DangDang wrote:
    Only you, Pandora, can attach & express the most heartfelt sentiments regarding something as saucy, sloppy, & slurpy as Sloppy Joes. That's a gift.
    Say, your sentiment on my sloppy satire is both sweet
    and sincere and I soulfully say shank you ;)
    seriously your kind words are greatly appreciated :D

    Shank you wasz not a typo..or waszit?

    May I draw attention to the fact that I did not at all comment on the cool fact that your mama wore old undies on her head while cooking. Not a word did I say about it.....Because in fact, there is nothing to be said for undies on one's head. Nothing!
    :lol::lol::lol::lol::lol::lol: :shock:

    thats some funny stuff !!

    Godfather.
  • justamjustam Posts: 21,410
    Pandora, it's great that you have some really good memories of your mother. I feel that way about my grammy. :)
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  • pandorapandora Posts: 21,855
    Godfather. wrote:
    I called my wife and mother to say thanks......you made me do it Pandi. :lol:
    XLNT write.

    Godfather.
    thanks I'm glad you appreciated it and your beautiful womenfolk :D
  • pandorapandora Posts: 21,855
    justam wrote:
    Pandora, it's great that you have some really good memories of your mother. I feel that way about my grammy. :)
    I love that term Grammy, now that says it all! :D
  • the wolfthe wolf Posts: 7,027
    i want some sloppy joes....
    Peace, Love.


    "To question your government is not unpatriotic --
    to not question your government is unpatriotic."
    -- Sen. Chuck Hagel
  • pandorapandora Posts: 21,855
    the wolf wrote:
    i want some sloppy joes....
    :lol: you're easy ;)
  • the wolfthe wolf Posts: 7,027
    pandora wrote:
    the wolf wrote:
    i want some sloppy joes....
    :lol: you're easy ;)
    :shh:
    don't tell anyone.
    Peace, Love.


    "To question your government is not unpatriotic --
    to not question your government is unpatriotic."
    -- Sen. Chuck Hagel
  • justamjustam Posts: 21,410
    pandora wrote:
    justam wrote:
    Pandora, it's great that you have some really good memories of your mother. I feel that way about my grammy. :)
    I love that term Grammy, now that says it all! :D

    It does! I know it sounds almost childish to use that word but I can't seem to call her anything else. ;):D
    &&&&&&&&&&&&&&
  • pandorapandora Posts: 21,855
    justam wrote:
    pandora wrote:
    justam wrote:
    Pandora, it's great that you have some really good memories of your mother. I feel that way about my grammy. :)
    I love that term Grammy, now that says it all! :D

    It does! I know it sounds almost childish to use that word but I can't seem to call her anything else. ;):D
    I didn't know my Grandparents, all gone before memory. That is a very special relationship. In most cases pure fun and guidance without the responsibility of parenthood. This doubled with the maturity, appreciation and wisdom found in the senior years. This just a perfect match to reach a young heart and captivate it!
    It is true the longer we live the better it gets. :D
  • mikalinamikalina Posts: 7,206
    Hi Pandi, I just now got the chance to read your story. Just wonderful. My mom also had that special gift of making something so ordinary - taste gourmet !!! Including her "special" sloppy joes.

    Thank you for sharing.... :D
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  • pandorapandora Posts: 21,855
    mikalina wrote:
    Hi Pandi, I just now got the chance to read your story. Just wonderful. My mom also had that special gift of making something so ordinary - taste gourmet !!! Including her "special" sloppy joes.

    Thank you for sharing.... :D
    Thanks mikalina, I really miss Mama can you tell ;)
    good to hear from you! :D
    summer is wanning, kids started back to school here yesterday :shock: I thought of you and yours, guess it won't be long now. Gee time flies
  • the wolfthe wolf Posts: 7,027
    I still want some Sloppy Joes,... :|
    Peace, Love.


    "To question your government is not unpatriotic --
    to not question your government is unpatriotic."
    -- Sen. Chuck Hagel
  • mikalinamikalina Posts: 7,206
    the wolf wrote:
    I still want some Sloppy Joes,... :|


    :lol: I'll let my mom know - she'll make you some sloppy joes. :D
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  • the wolfthe wolf Posts: 7,027
    mikalina wrote:
    the wolf wrote:
    I still want some Sloppy Joes,... :|


    :lol: I'll let my mom know - she'll make you some sloppy joes. :D

    gonna make some tonight. The Princess is coming home from a 3 night stay in the E.R.

    She might like some Sloppy Joes. :D
    Peace, Love.


    "To question your government is not unpatriotic --
    to not question your government is unpatriotic."
    -- Sen. Chuck Hagel
  • DangDangDangDang Posts: 1,551
    Feeds a Small to Medium Party

    Fry 3 pounds of ground beef with
    one onion (diced) and
    1/2 green pepper (diced)

    drain fat

    Make wet with ketchup

    add 2 tsp of yellow mustard
    dab of worstershire sauce
    & about 2 tsp sugar

    mix

    take underwear off head

    serve on hamburger buns

    and the sloppy joes too
  • pandorapandora Posts: 21,855
    DangDang wrote:
    Feeds a Small to Medium Party

    Fry 3 pounds of ground beef with
    one onion (diced) and
    1/2 green pepper (diced)

    drain fat

    Make wet with ketchup

    add 2 tsp of yellow mustard
    dab of worstershire sauce
    & about 2 tsp sugar

    mix

    take underwear off head

    serve on hamburger buns

    and the sloppy joes too
    :lol: too funny :lol: made my day :lol: thank you!!!
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