One month gone

pandorapandora Posts: 21,855
Wedding ring found carefully tucked away,

her husband's weary frown, somber silence.

A quiet black dog.

Closet full of clothes hanging for no one,

an empty kitchen.

Daughter's sad smile, exhausted hug,

a telephone that doesn't ring.

Open bar stool.

Motionless car.

Grocery list unwanted.

Granddaughter's tiny cry not to be answered,

Grandson's pool tricks without praise.

Tearful memory shared amongst friends.

A toast to the sky, a forced smile.

One laugh missing.

Young man's tribute, remembers the chili.

Recipes yet to get.

Garden left unattended.

Dead flowers in a vase.

Lonely, black star filled night.

Tears, to many to be counted.

Peace still out of reach.

One month gone.
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  • StillHereStillHere Posts: 7,795
    oh so sad..my dear
    i wish i could make your hurt disappear
    :(
    peace,
    jo

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    "How I choose to feel is how I am." ~ EV/MMc
    "Some people hear their own inner voices with great clearness and they live by what they hear. Such people become crazy, or they become legends." ~ One Stab ~
  • pandorapandora Posts: 21,855
    StillHere wrote:
    oh so sad..my dear
    i wish i could make your hurt disappear
    :(
    thank you
    it is so sad...so sad, her loved ones.
    the whys go unanswered
    and life feels unfinished for those that love and miss her.
  • mikalinamikalina Posts: 7,206
    How very sad.... it's already a month. Thoughts with you and the family.
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  • the wolfthe wolf Posts: 7,027
    I'm sorry Pandi. I have no words.
    Peace, Love.


    "To question your government is not unpatriotic --
    to not question your government is unpatriotic."
    -- Sen. Chuck Hagel
  • pandorapandora Posts: 21,855
    mikalina wrote:
    How very sad.... it's already a month. Thoughts with you and the family.
    thanks mikalina
    yes, already a month time is all that heals, they say.
  • pandorapandora Posts: 21,855
    the wolf wrote:
    I'm sorry Pandi. I have no words.
    words enough, my friend, thank you Steve
  • StillHereStillHere Posts: 7,795
    pandora wrote:
    mikalina wrote:
    How very sad.... it's already a month. Thoughts with you and the family.
    thanks mikalina
    yes, already a month time is all that heals, they say.


    i know it's hard to believe now
    but time does heal
    you'll remember the fondest things
    sometimes it will still hurt,
    but will also be sweet
    sometimes you'll be reminded of your loss
    but time will heal
    and hearts will lighten
    and you'll rejoice
    for the time you had here on this earth
    love never dies

    its been 5 years since my Pop passed
    and I remember the best things
    the funny things
    other times don't feel so important
    any more
    like i said
    time heals
    but that's not to say you won't miss her

    the other night i was watching a movie
    sandra bullock
    and she was sitting
    with her father
    he hadl alzheimers
    didn't remember her
    and then suddenly, he did
    and he opened his arms to her
    and they danced
    and i cried, and cried and cried

    and although i cried
    the memories were bittersweet
    and i'm happy to have had
    the time together
    in this lifetime
    i'll see him in the next
    i'm sure he's waiting for me
    there

    i know that you'll get to that point too
    it just takes time

    be sound
    peace
    hugs
    jo
    peace,
    jo

    http://www.Etsy.com/Shop/SimpleEarthCreations
    "How I choose to feel is how I am." ~ EV/MMc
    "Some people hear their own inner voices with great clearness and they live by what they hear. Such people become crazy, or they become legends." ~ One Stab ~
  • pandorapandora Posts: 21,855
    StillHere wrote:
    pandora wrote:
    mikalina wrote:
    How very sad.... it's already a month. Thoughts with you and the family.
    thanks mikalina
    yes, already a month time is all that heals, they say.


    i know it's hard to believe now
    but time does heal
    you'll remember the fondest things
    sometimes it will still hurt,
    but will also be sweet
    sometimes you'll be reminded of your loss
    but time will heal
    and hearts will lighten
    and you'll rejoice
    for the time you had here on this earth
    love never dies

    its been 5 years since my Pop passed
    and I remember the best things
    the funny things
    other times don't feel so important
    any more
    like i said
    time heals
    but that's not to say you won't miss her

    the other night i was watching a movie
    sandra bullock
    and she was sitting
    with her father
    he hadl alzheimers
    didn't remember her
    and then suddenly, he did
    and he opened his arms to her
    and they danced
    and i cried, and cried and cried

    and although i cried
    the memories were bittersweet
    and i'm happy to have had
    the time together
    in this lifetime
    i'll see him in the next
    i'm sure he's waiting for me
    there

    i know that you'll get to that point too
    it just takes time

    be sound
    peace
    hugs
    jo
    thank you Jo, your words and sentiment lovely.
    I had a similar thing happen to me with a movie. It's been 20 years since I lost my father. In 2000 a Walter Matthau movie came out, it was to be his last. Matthau an actor my father loved. Meg Ryan, Diane Keaton, Lisa Kudrow play his daughters. It's called "Hanging Up". It's an awesome movie about father/daughter and sister/sister relationships, very touching but not always sweet. Complicated a tear jerker. You might like it I think.
    Thank you again for your kindness and sharing
    Pandi
  • StillHereStillHere Posts: 7,795
    i'll check it out
    i don't know why i watch these things
    but i do
    :)
    peace,
    jo

    http://www.Etsy.com/Shop/SimpleEarthCreations
    "How I choose to feel is how I am." ~ EV/MMc
    "Some people hear their own inner voices with great clearness and they live by what they hear. Such people become crazy, or they become legends." ~ One Stab ~
  • pandorapandora Posts: 21,855
    StillHere wrote:
    i'll check it out
    i don't know why i watch these things
    but i do
    :)
    Do,it's funny too but a good cry sometimes is just what's needed
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