Just had to tell my mom that she has less than
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a month to live. My mom has been a very healthy person her whole life. she never smoked, drank and took care of herself. 1 months ago, she went to see her doctor for her 6 month check-up and we found that they was a small spot on her lung. she went to see a specialist who said that she had cancer. we were not that afraid as she had cancer before. we began to get everything ready for her chemo. 3 days ago we were told by the doctor that the cancer was very progressive and has spread to her liver, bones and now her brain.
so yesterday, we told my mom that she doesn't have alot of time left. the saddest part of all this is that she is supposed to retire from working tomorrow and had a 1 month trip booked for Friday to Portugal to see her family. now she can't get out of bed.
And herE is me telling this all to people I have never met or will ever meet. I don't know why i am doing this as even my closest friends don't know yet.
I don't want any responses to this post. Just want to say ENJOY YOUR LIFE!
so yesterday, we told my mom that she doesn't have alot of time left. the saddest part of all this is that she is supposed to retire from working tomorrow and had a 1 month trip booked for Friday to Portugal to see her family. now she can't get out of bed.
And herE is me telling this all to people I have never met or will ever meet. I don't know why i am doing this as even my closest friends don't know yet.
I don't want any responses to this post. Just want to say ENJOY YOUR LIFE!
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shawn
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Indeed
You are everything to your mama, with you by her side, she has the family she needs. Peace be with you both and God bless her and all those that love her.
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Dear God.
My thoughts are with you, your mom and your family. Be strong.
Wish you were here...
♥~RIP Dad
I know what its like to hear this devestating news that someone only has so long to live.
Stay strong!
Take care ... be sound
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There is alot to be said to have this place to use. Talking to anyone about this is hard. We are not strangers, but peeps just like you who have you in our hearts.
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I know there's no point in saying I'm sorry, though I am, or that I'll be praying for all of you, which I will. I know it won't help. I will tell you about my grandmother though. She died 6 years ago from breast cancer, which had come back from years earlier, and spread to her brain. By the time she died, due to the cancer in her brain and probably also the pain meds, she was totally out of it. She was alert, but wasn't making any sense. And I tell you this because she was so out of it that she was really happy. She didn't remember that she was dying. She wasn't afraid or regretful. She didn't feel any pain. She was just happy. And then she fell asleep. It doesn't change the fact that we miss her terribly. But I am glad to know that, in her mind, things couldn't have been better. (That's her in my avatar, by the way.
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