It will all work out.

mdigenakis

I went from wanting to blow my brains out many months ago to getting a raise and saving money for an engagement ring. Good things will happen. There are many more GOOD times ahead.

mickeyrat

ZiggyStar wrote:

Yes, it will all work out....it always does and this will soon be a memory.

Look, if you need some more photos of my boobies to get you through this hard patch, just let me know!

More? How about the first batch? Tease!!!!

chiquimonkey

no matter how cold the winter, there's a springtime ahead

and this is a card that i have up in my office at work, a good reminder to see every day!



good luck and know that we're all cheering you on!

Fifthelement

(((Good vibes))) and lots of (((Hugs))). You are a strong, confident woman. You can and will survive whatever this life throws your way. This was a poem that my mom always recited when things were tough. She passed her love of it on to me. Make it yours . . .



Invictus – William Ernest Henley


OUT of the night that covers me,
Black as the Pit from pole to pole,
I thank whatever gods may be
For my unconquerable soul.

In the fell clutch of circumstance
I have not winced nor cried aloud.
Under the bludgeonings of chance
My head is bloody, but unbowed.

Beyond this place of wrath and tears
Looms but the Horror of the shade,
And yet the menace of the years
Finds and shall find me unafraid.

It matters not how strait the gate,
How charged with punishments the scroll
I am the master of my fate:
I am the captain of my soul.

chiquimonkey

Fifthelement wrote:

(((Good vibes))) and lots of (((Hugs))). You are a strong, confident woman. You can and will survive whatever this life throws your way. This was a poem that my mom always recited when things were tough. She passed her love of it on to me. Make it yours . . .



Invictus – William Ernest Henley


OUT of the night that covers me,
Black as the Pit from pole to pole,
I thank whatever gods may be
For my unconquerable soul.

In the fell clutch of circumstance
I have not winced nor cried aloud.
Under the bludgeonings of chance
My head is bloody, but unbowed.

Beyond this place of wrath and tears
Looms but the Horror of the shade,
And yet the menace of the years
Finds and shall find me unafraid.

It matters not how strait the gate,
How charged with punishments the scroll
I am the master of my fate:
I am the captain of my soul.

wow. that poem is awesome. i need to save that for myself, thanks for sharing it!

i_lov_it

ZiggyStar wrote:

Yes, it will all work out....it always does and this will soon be a memory.

Look, if you need some more photos of my boobies to get you through this hard patch, just let me know!

Did someone Say ***BOOBIES***... :shock: lol

PJPixie

wow, you are all so incredible. That poem, amazing. And chiqui, your post in here and the puppycam thread........all have helped me today. I'm going slow, very slow............so slow I've been watching puppies all day.
I knew I could count on all of you here to get me thru things. The next couple of months should be interesting but I know the sun will rise every day, no matter what. Love you guys!

LikeAnOcean

It WILL all work out. Life is what YOU make it.

chiquimonkey

you are an awesome lady, i have complete faith you will pull through....that's how badasses roll after all

Who Princess

chiquimonkey wrote:

no matter how cold the winter, there's a springtime ahead

and this is a card that i have up in my office at work, a good reminder to see every day!



good luck and know that we're all cheering you on!

I have a magnet in my kitchen with a quote from Winston Churchill:

When you're going through hell, keep going.

Have faith in yourself!
:thumbup:

DinghyDog

-

Yellow Ledbelly

It's a hard thing to sit back and think about your own problems without feeling like it couldn't get any worse or that It will never be any different than what it is....but it will be...it always will be better. It's always darkest before the dawn.
I've always had a hard time thinking positive when things seemed so dire, but then I met the most wonderful girl in the world who has had so many obstacles and so many letdowns...one after another after another...and she keeps bouncing back, discouraged at times but always persistent and hopeful.
No matter what it is...money issues relationships work...it all works out and sometimes even out of the darkets most depressing situations good can sometimes come in the long run. You just have to have faith to know that better times are ahead....more woes are always around the corner too though. Its a vicious cycle but such is life.

"Darkness comes in waves...why invite it to stay."

Keep your head up

Fifthelement

I'm glad you and Chiqui liked the poem. It has always been one of my favourites

decides2dream

Fifthelement wrote:

I'm glad you and Chiqui liked the poem. It has always been one of my favourites

just saw it now....definitely inspiring!
:thumbup:

Heatherj43

PJPixie wrote:

Please tell me this. So many obstacles, issues.....things in my life right now. Nothing is ever easy.
I need encouragement right now. Can you guys help me out?

Sure...think of all those things in the past that you felt the same way and now how trivial they may seem, or how some of the thngs are even stories you may tell and can laugh about...the same now...this too shall pass.

Franny

Like others have said, life is full of hills and valleys. Sometimes when you're stuck in the valley it doesn't just rain in bloody well feels like it flooding!!!

Work out all the things that are bothering you or causing you to feel this way and put them in a list of most/majorly important to least/minor. When they are down on paper it is easier to make a plan to deal with them and keep yourself on track to deal with them. Work your way down the list one problem at a time. Each day give yourself a chance to zone out or distract yourself with something, whether it be a walk (exercise encourages happy endorphins), or personal pampering or time with a friend or write in a journal to vent all your frustrations or track your progress.

When you get to the bottom of your list...reward yourself...and then....BURN the list. Fire is a cleanser, it's amazing how much relief you can get seeing something burn knowing it is gone for good.

Keep your chin up, cos while you feel you are in a valley, climbing the hill is hard but when you get to the top it's a huge relief and you can be proud of yourself for what you have achieved.

Evil Merlin Part Deux

Keep hanging tough, Tiff. Everyone knows how strong you are, so just keep finding the faith within yourself and your reasons you have to keep on going.

Fried pickle time? Let me know when you're free and they're on me. I was down there for the Chi Cheng benefit the other night, and well, hell, I know I say I rarely go down there, about once a year...I'll make it twice for you.

Just let me know a good time and we'll get a few drinks and a fried pickle, and go ahead and talk my damn head off. I'm actually on a jury right now so I can't do the lunchtime ones, but any evening for a while, I'm pretty much free.

PillowPants

i_lov_it wrote:

dimitrispearljam wrote:

great avatar

I was about to SAY the Same Thing!...lol :P

i was going to suggest that step one to things working out would be to stop hanging around with The HedgeHog