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My dad passed away this year...

bigbadbillbigbadbill Posts: 1,758
edited September 2009 in The Porch
as Pearl Jam was recording Backspacer in Hollywood. He died on February 21st. This makes listening to Backspacer that much more significant to me.
11/6/95, 11/18/97, 7/13/98, 7/14/98, 10/24/00, 10/25/00, 10/28/00, 6/2/03, 6/3/03, 6/5/03, 7/6/06, 7/7/06, 7/9/06, 7/10/06, 7/13/06, 7/15/06, 7/16/06, 7/18/06, 10/21/06, 4/10/08, 4/13/08, 9/30/09, 10/1/09, 10/6/09, 10/7/09, 10/9/09
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  • lostdogs89lostdogs89 Posts: 134
    me and my girlfriend broke up in March
  • lostdogs89lostdogs89 Posts: 134
    no relation in event but relation in significant feeling towards the album
  • bigbadbillbigbadbill Posts: 1,758
    I hear ya. Pearl Jam had two recording sessions - Hollywood 2/16-2/27 and Atlanta 4/17-4/30 (When Jeff got mugged).
    11/6/95, 11/18/97, 7/13/98, 7/14/98, 10/24/00, 10/25/00, 10/28/00, 6/2/03, 6/3/03, 6/5/03, 7/6/06, 7/7/06, 7/9/06, 7/10/06, 7/13/06, 7/15/06, 7/16/06, 7/18/06, 10/21/06, 4/10/08, 4/13/08, 9/30/09, 10/1/09, 10/6/09, 10/7/09, 10/9/09
  • facepollutionfacepollution Posts: 6,834
    bigbadbill wrote:
    as Pearl Jam was recording Backspacer in Hollywood. He died on February 21st. This makes listening to Backspacer that much more significant to me.

    I can imagine some of the lyrics are pretty poignant for you then, some pretty hevay stuff on there. Sorry for your loss :(
  • corduroykellycorduroykelly Posts: 668
    I quit smoking in January and started masterbating more.................. we are all so deep and deserve to be pittied................
  • PJ Fan est. 1990PJ Fan est. 1990 Posts: 1,788
    for me Avocado had that significance to me...my father passed away the year Avo came out...i don't have a significance with this album, but i still find it a better album
  • Evacuation RulesEvacuation Rules Posts: 2,162
    I thought this was gonna be another thread about "Come Back". I was getting my barf bag ready...
  • the Chadthe Chad Posts: 65
    I lost a ball in January after getting hit in the sack, I am fighting to get it back again thanks to the Backspacer release. Thanks PJ!
  • LukinFanLukinFan Florida Posts: 29,079
    I'm so sorry to hear about your loss
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  • righteousbaberighteousbabe Posts: 662
    corduroykelly wrote:
    I quit smoking in January and started masterbating more.................. we are all so deep and deserve to be pittied................

    I think we all know what Obama would say about a post like this. And I would agree.

    My condolences to the original poster.
  • greasytgreasyt Posts: 49
    Sorry for your loss.
  • ChampagneBreakfast4EveryoneChampagneBreakfast4Everyone Posts: 215
    corduroykelly wrote:
    I quit smoking in January and started masterbating more.................. we are all so deep and deserve to be pittied................

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  • JaneNYJaneNY Posts: 4,438
    I'm sorry Bill, for your loss.
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  • AusticmanAusticman Posts: 1,327
    Sorry for your loss.
    My sister was terminally ill the last time PJ came to tour Australia and I always had that hanging around like a dark cloud when I was at the shows. She died a month after the Newcastle show.

    This time around I hoping for no bad news and just a pure celebration of the band that is Pearl Jam!!
    I can't go the library anymore, everyone STINKS!!
  • Deep In The OceanDeep In The Ocean Posts: 196
    I´m really sorry for your loss...Thankfully the music always is in these so difficult moments...
    From Montevideo, Uruguay.
  • Sian-of-the-deadSian-of-the-dead Posts: 8,963
    My Dad died exactly a week after I saw PJ at London O2 in August this year.

    Backspacer will always be associated with his passing, but for me, it also signifies hope.

    I'm so sorry for your loss. Stay strong.
    Been to this many PJ shows: Reading 2006 London 2007 Manchester & London 2009 Dublin, Belfast, London, Nijmegen & Berlin 2010 Manchester 1 & Manchester 2 2012...

    ... and I still think Drive-By Truckers are better.
  • bigbadbillbigbadbill Posts: 1,758
    Thanks, I really appreciate that. I wasn't going to mention my dad's passing again (I originally posted it on Feb 21, when he passed away). This is a Pearl Jam message board, not a grief counseling message board. But when I looked at the liner notes and saw the dates they were in Hollywood recording this great album (2/16-2/27), the memories came back to me. The guys were only about 15-20 miles away from me when he died.
    11/6/95, 11/18/97, 7/13/98, 7/14/98, 10/24/00, 10/25/00, 10/28/00, 6/2/03, 6/3/03, 6/5/03, 7/6/06, 7/7/06, 7/9/06, 7/10/06, 7/13/06, 7/15/06, 7/16/06, 7/18/06, 10/21/06, 4/10/08, 4/13/08, 9/30/09, 10/1/09, 10/6/09, 10/7/09, 10/9/09
  • allmyrivalsallmyrivals Posts: 228
    My father died on the same day as we were sent on the hunt for artwork to unlock the Demo version of Speed Of Sound. And for the last week before that i was listening to The End non stop. I couldn't seem to get enough of that song. So it was about 5 hours before he died that i heard Speed of sound for the first time. I remember sitting and listening to the song and trying to understand the lyrics..............Some of these songs have left a very heavy mark on me. And will always be associated with the passing of my Dad.

    To the OP......i'm sorry for your loss. I know exactly how you feel.



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