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I am thinking about how cool Dave Grohl is.
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Fifthelement said:hedonist said:I was talking with my cousin earlier, who's grown quite close with my mom. She said something to the effect of how we typically see our parents as our parents, vs. their own people who had a complete history prior to having children.
I always knew this rationally, but it still hit home - and hard, for some reason.
Maybe because my mom is nearing 90 (and still out and about AND driving), I know it's on me to make peace with what I still resent her for. I need to forgive her, as I've done for myself. I think I owe that to both of us.
RogueStoner said:I miss you, dear friend. Life just isn’t the same without you.0 -
GlowGirl said:I am thinking about how cool Dave Grohl is.Hugh Freaking Dillon is currently out of the office, returning sometime in the fall0
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hedonist said:Fifthelement said:hedonist said:I was talking with my cousin earlier, who's grown quite close with my mom. She said something to the effect of how we typically see our parents as our parents, vs. their own people who had a complete history prior to having children.
I always knew this rationally, but it still hit home - and hard, for some reason.
Maybe because my mom is nearing 90 (and still out and about AND driving), I know it's on me to make peace with what I still resent her for. I need to forgive her, as I've done for myself. I think I owe that to both of us.
RogueStoner said:I miss you, dear friend. Life just isn’t the same without you."What the CANUCK happened?!? - Esquimalt Barber Shop0 -
Fifthelement said:hedonist said:Fifthelement said:hedonist said:I was talking with my cousin earlier, who's grown quite close with my mom. She said something to the effect of how we typically see our parents as our parents, vs. their own people who had a complete history prior to having children.
I always knew this rationally, but it still hit home - and hard, for some reason.
Maybe because my mom is nearing 90 (and still out and about AND driving), I know it's on me to make peace with what I still resent her for. I need to forgive her, as I've done for myself. I think I owe that to both of us.
RogueStoner said:I miss you, dear friend. Life just isn’t the same without you.0 -
hedonist said:Fifthelement said:hedonist said:Fifthelement said:hedonist said:I was talking with my cousin earlier, who's grown quite close with my mom. She said something to the effect of how we typically see our parents as our parents, vs. their own people who had a complete history prior to having children.
I always knew this rationally, but it still hit home - and hard, for some reason.
Maybe because my mom is nearing 90 (and still out and about AND driving), I know it's on me to make peace with what I still resent her for. I need to forgive her, as I've done for myself. I think I owe that to both of us.
RogueStoner said:I miss you, dear friend. Life just isn’t the same without you."What the CANUCK happened?!? - Esquimalt Barber Shop0 -
Fifthelement said:hedonist said:Fifthelement said:hedonist said:I was talking with my cousin earlier, who's grown quite close with my mom. She said something to the effect of how we typically see our parents as our parents, vs. their own people who had a complete history prior to having children.
I always knew this rationally, but it still hit home - and hard, for some reason.
Maybe because my mom is nearing 90 (and still out and about AND driving), I know it's on me to make peace with what I still resent her for. I need to forgive her, as I've done for myself. I think I owe that to both of us.
RogueStoner said:I miss you, dear friend. Life just isn’t the same without you.
(I wish the huggy guy wasn't so smiley. I don't want smiley right now.)2014: Cincinnati
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deadendp said:Fifthelement said:hedonist said:Fifthelement said:hedonist said:I was talking with my cousin earlier, who's grown quite close with my mom. She said something to the effect of how we typically see our parents as our parents, vs. their own people who had a complete history prior to having children.
I always knew this rationally, but it still hit home - and hard, for some reason.
Maybe because my mom is nearing 90 (and still out and about AND driving), I know it's on me to make peace with what I still resent her for. I need to forgive her, as I've done for myself. I think I owe that to both of us.
RogueStoner said:I miss you, dear friend. Life just isn’t the same without you.
(I wish the huggy guy wasn't so smiley. I don't want smiley right now.)"What the CANUCK happened?!? - Esquimalt Barber Shop0 -
Fifthelement said:hedonist said:Fifthelement said:hedonist said:I was talking with my cousin earlier, who's grown quite close with my mom. She said something to the effect of how we typically see our parents as our parents, vs. their own people who had a complete history prior to having children.
I always knew this rationally, but it still hit home - and hard, for some reason.
Maybe because my mom is nearing 90 (and still out and about AND driving), I know it's on me to make peace with what I still resent her for. I need to forgive her, as I've done for myself. I think I owe that to both of us.
RogueStoner said:I miss you, dear friend. Life just isn’t the same without you.
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Fifthelement said:hedonist said:Fifthelement said:hedonist said:I was talking with my cousin earlier, who's grown quite close with my mom. She said something to the effect of how we typically see our parents as our parents, vs. their own people who had a complete history prior to having children.
I always knew this rationally, but it still hit home - and hard, for some reason.
Maybe because my mom is nearing 90 (and still out and about AND driving), I know it's on me to make peace with what I still resent her for. I need to forgive her, as I've done for myself. I think I owe that to both of us.
RogueStoner said:I miss you, dear friend. Life just isn’t the same without you.0 -
Fifthelement said:hedonist said:Fifthelement said:hedonist said:I was talking with my cousin earlier, who's grown quite close with my mom. She said something to the effect of how we typically see our parents as our parents, vs. their own people who had a complete history prior to having children.
I always knew this rationally, but it still hit home - and hard, for some reason.
Maybe because my mom is nearing 90 (and still out and about AND driving), I know it's on me to make peace with what I still resent her for. I need to forgive her, as I've done for myself. I think I owe that to both of us.
RogueStoner said:I miss you, dear friend. Life just isn’t the same without you.Hugh Freaking Dillon is currently out of the office, returning sometime in the fall0 -
Thanks all. Lots of reminiscing tonight."What the CANUCK happened?!? - Esquimalt Barber Shop0
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^^^ oh my goodness! What did you decide on? Everything looks delicious."What the CANUCK happened?!? - Esquimalt Barber Shop0
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Fifthelement said:^^^ oh my goodness! What did you decide on? Everything looks delicious.Athens 2006. Dusseldorf 2007. Berlin 2009. Venice 2010. Amsterdam 1 2012. Amsterdam 1+2 2014. Buenos Aires 2015.
Prague Krakow Berlin 2018. Berlin 2022
EV, Taormina 1+2 2017.
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i need a different job.Hugh Freaking Dillon is currently out of the office, returning sometime in the fall0
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I was listening to Queen earlier and thought of my dad. He loved music, especially classical and opera. Many Saturday mornings of my childhood found me watching in awe as he pretend-conducted orchestras while completely lost in a piece. Volume all the way up!
I remember in the late 70s/early 80s, sitting with him and my sister on her bedroom floor, headphones on my dad, and playing Night at the Opera for him. He was floored - by the composition, the variety of music, the layers, that VOICE, all of it. We did the same with Led Zep IV and Houses of the Holy. And the Martin-produced era of the Beatles.
It was so cool to introduce him to "our" music as he did with his. It is now part of me0 -
So, the funeral service went really well. There were many tears shed for our loss, but there was so much laughter recalling the good times and the tricks and pranks my dad was always pulling. I managed to get up and talk and not break down so yay me. The slide show turned out really well. I could not determine the songs that my dad requested. I googled the artists’ catalogues trying to find a match, but no joy. So I ended up selecting the music, with my mom’s approval, that I thought my dad would like. We played: Man of the Hour (PJ); The Rose (Bette Midler); Go Rest High in That Mountain (Vince Gill); I Bid You Goodnight (Aaron Neville)and Turn! Turn! Turn! (The Byrd’s). The VG & AN songs were used in the PowerPoint slide show. My dad loved music, and instilled a love of it into me, so I think he would’ve been happy with my choices.Post edited by Fifthelement on"What the CANUCK happened?!? - Esquimalt Barber Shop0
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hedonist said:I was listening to Queen earlier and thought of my dad. He loved music, especially classical and opera. Many Saturday mornings of my childhood found me watching in awe as he pretend-conducted orchestras while completely lost in a piece. Volume all the way up!
I remember in the late 70s/early 80s, sitting with him and my sister on her bedroom floor, headphones on my dad, and playing Night at the Opera for him. He was floored - by the composition, the variety of music, the layers, that VOICE, all of it. We did the same with Led Zep IV and Houses of the Holy. And the Martin-produced era of the Beatles.
It was so cool to introduce him to "our" music as he did with his. It is now part of me
"What the CANUCK happened?!? - Esquimalt Barber Shop0 -
Fifthelement said:hedonist said:I was listening to Queen earlier and thought of my dad. He loved music, especially classical and opera. Many Saturday mornings of my childhood found me watching in awe as he pretend-conducted orchestras while completely lost in a piece. Volume all the way up!
I remember in the late 70s/early 80s, sitting with him and my sister on her bedroom floor, headphones on my dad, and playing Night at the Opera for him. He was floored - by the composition, the variety of music, the layers, that VOICE, all of it. We did the same with Led Zep IV and Houses of the Holy. And the Martin-produced era of the Beatles.
It was so cool to introduce him to "our" music as he did with his. It is now part of meAnd yes, what they passed on to us, stays. We are our fathers daughters0
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