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  • ldent42
    ldent42 NYC Posts: 7,859
    All you need is sleep, sleep. Sleep is all you need
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  • samjam
    samjam New York Posts: 9,283
    Made a really awesome contact last night, hopefully it can help me get my foot in the door career-wise :)
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  • PJSiren
    PJSiren Salem, OR Posts: 5,863
    So I have this ex boyfriend from when I live in Kentucky, who just won’t let go…I’ve unfriended him on FB and everything and he knows I’m married now and he still keeps trying to contact me…it’s really getting on my nerves, I don’t know what more to do other than ignore him…but seriously, he just won’t let go…and we haven’t been together since 2007, and he still holds a torch for me, like he’s always telling me I’m the one that got away and it’s really uncomfortable…the only good thing is he’s in KY and I’m in OR…but he doesn’t know how to take a hint….GAH!
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  • northerndragon
    northerndragon Posts: 9,851
    edited January 2015
    PJSiren wrote: »
    So I have this ex boyfriend from when I live in Kentucky, who just won’t let go…I’ve unfriended him on FB and everything and he knows I’m married now and he still keeps trying to contact me…it’s really getting on my nerves, I don’t know what more to do other than ignore him…but seriously, he just won’t let go…and we haven’t been together since 2007, and he still holds a torch for me, like he’s always telling me I’m the one that got away and it’s really uncomfortable…the only good thing is he’s in KY and I’m in OR…but he doesn’t know how to take a hint….GAH!

    Have you actually blocked him on all forms of electronic communication, because you can from email to facebook, etc.. I know this because I had to do this several years ago as well...ignoring him did not work, every few months a message would pop up, would delete it and not respond but they never stopped. Block the crap out of him and if you know some common people tell them if they share any of your info with him they jeopardize their relationship with you. It's the only thing that worked for me.
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    Anything you lose from being honest
    You never really had to begin with.


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  • whispering hands
    whispering hands Under your skin Posts: 13,527
    northerndragon wrote: »
    PJSiren wrote: »
    So I have this ex boyfriend from when I live in Kentucky, who just won’t let go…I’ve unfriended him on FB and everything and he knows I’m married now and he still keeps trying to contact me…it’s really getting on my nerves, I don’t know what more to do other than ignore him…but seriously, he just won’t let go…and we haven’t been together since 2007, and he still holds a torch for me, like he’s always telling me I’m the one that got away and it’s really uncomfortable…the only good thing is he’s in KY and I’m in OR…but he doesn’t know how to take a hint….GAH!

    Have you actually blocked him on all forms of electronic communication, because you can from email to facebook, etc.. I know this because I had to do this several years ago as well...ignoring him did not work, every few months a message would pop up, would delete it and not respond but they never stopped. Block the crap out of him and if you know some common people tell them if they share any of your info with him the jeopardize their relationship with you. It's the only thing that worked for me.

    This is my suggestion as well.
  • PJSiren
    PJSiren Salem, OR Posts: 5,863
    northerndragon wrote: »
    PJSiren wrote: »
    So I have this ex boyfriend from when I live in Kentucky, who just won’t let go…I’ve unfriended him on FB and everything and he knows I’m married now and he still keeps trying to contact me…it’s really getting on my nerves, I don’t know what more to do other than ignore him…but seriously, he just won’t let go…and we haven’t been together since 2007, and he still holds a torch for me, like he’s always telling me I’m the one that got away and it’s really uncomfortable…the only good thing is he’s in KY and I’m in OR…but he doesn’t know how to take a hint….GAH!

    Have you actually blocked him on all forms of electronic communication, because you can from email to facebook, etc.. I know this because I had to do this several years ago as well...ignoring him did not work, every few months a message would pop up, would delete it and not respond but they never stopped. Block the crap out of him and if you know some common people tell them if they share any of your info with him they jeopardize their relationship with you. It's the only thing that worked for me.

    I haven't blocked him...I will have to look up how to do that on FB this weekend...I have a new email address so he doesn't have that, and a phone number since we had last spoken on the phone and yeah, I will definitely look into that though, I've never had to block anyone on FB before...thank you for the suggestion!!!
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  • ldent42
    ldent42 NYC Posts: 7,859
    northerndragon wrote: »
    PJSiren wrote: »
    So I have this ex boyfriend from when I live in Kentucky, who just won’t let go…I’ve unfriended him on FB and everything and he knows I’m married now and he still keeps trying to contact me…it’s really getting on my nerves, I don’t know what more to do other than ignore him…but seriously, he just won’t let go…and we haven’t been together since 2007, and he still holds a torch for me, like he’s always telling me I’m the one that got away and it’s really uncomfortable…the only good thing is he’s in KY and I’m in OR…but he doesn’t know how to take a hint….GAH!

    Have you actually blocked him on all forms of electronic communication, because you can from email to facebook, etc.. I know this because I had to do this several years ago as well...ignoring him did not work, every few months a message would pop up, would delete it and not respond but they never stopped. Block the crap out of him and if you know some common people tell them if they share any of your info with him the jeopardize their relationship with you. It's the only thing that worked for me.

    I second this. It's no fun being stalked but the best you can do is take control of your online presence, block him on every platform as NorthernDragon suggested & I'd change your profile photos too. I had changed mine to a photo of block letters "go away" for months before I felt assured he wouldn't find me. Changing your email address is not nearly as daunting as it might seem. I would do that as well. And make sure the photos you're tagged in are not on anyone's PUBLIC profile, including profile & cover photos.
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  • PJSiren
    PJSiren Salem, OR Posts: 5,863
    ldent42 wrote: »
    northerndragon wrote: »
    PJSiren wrote: »
    So I have this ex boyfriend from when I live in Kentucky, who just won’t let go…I’ve unfriended him on FB and everything and he knows I’m married now and he still keeps trying to contact me…it’s really getting on my nerves, I don’t know what more to do other than ignore him…but seriously, he just won’t let go…and we haven’t been together since 2007, and he still holds a torch for me, like he’s always telling me I’m the one that got away and it’s really uncomfortable…the only good thing is he’s in KY and I’m in OR…but he doesn’t know how to take a hint….GAH!

    Have you actually blocked him on all forms of electronic communication, because you can from email to facebook, etc.. I know this because I had to do this several years ago as well...ignoring him did not work, every few months a message would pop up, would delete it and not respond but they never stopped. Block the crap out of him and if you know some common people tell them if they share any of your info with him the jeopardize their relationship with you. It's the only thing that worked for me.

    I second this. It's no fun being stalked but the best you can do is take control of your online presence, block him on every platform as NorthernDragon suggested & I'd change your profile photos too. I had changed mine to a photo of block letters "go away" for months before I felt assured he wouldn't find me. Changing your email address is not nearly as daunting as it might seem. I would do that as well. And make sure the photos you're tagged in are not on anyone's PUBLIC profile, including profile & cover photos.

    Yeah, I recently did change my email, so that's not a problem, he doesn't have it...I try to untag myself when people tag me, I hate being tagged in photos on FB it annoys me because then I get alerted everytime someone comments on it...and I usually could give a flying fuck...lol But I'm definitely going to block him and I might change my pic too...thanks for that suggestion...
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  • ldent42
    ldent42 NYC Posts: 7,859
    anytime. It goes to the "out of sight out of mind" idea. Eventually they get sick of the stone wall and go after someone else.
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  • PJSiren
    PJSiren Salem, OR Posts: 5,863
    ldent42 wrote: »
    anytime. It goes to the "out of sight out of mind" idea. Eventually they get sick of the stone wall and go after someone else.

    Yup, he's BLOCKED and I changed my cover photo to a pick of Eddie, he doesn't know of my love for Eddie, he was during the time in my life when I was going through a different phase in my life...and I wasn't listening to a lot of PJ during that time...and I set my profile pic to the same pic as on here....
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  • jnimhaoileoin
    jnimhaoileoin Baile Átha Cliath Posts: 2,682
    Just signed up on another online dating site, sure I've nothing to lose at this point I guess!
  • Annafalk
    Annafalk Sweden Posts: 4,004
    edited January 2015
    Jennycoyle - I hope you will meet someone nice holding my thumbs for you :)
  • northerndragon
    northerndragon Posts: 9,851
    The exuberance of youth.
    Anything you lose from being honest
    You never really had to begin with.


    Sometimes it's not the song that makes you emotional it's the people and things that come to your mind when you hear it.
  • Pap
    Pap Serres, Greece Posts: 29,970
    shetellsherself wrote: »
    ^^^ where did you read that, pap?

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  • PJSiren
    PJSiren Salem, OR Posts: 5,863
    edited January 2015
    So I've been having headaches with more frequency lately...I have chronic headaches anyway, but they've been way worse the past few months, I think I might have figured it out...I think my eyes have changed and I need to go to the eye doctor again and get new glasses...the headaches have mostly been located around my eyes and I was thinking sinus headaches that's how they feel but I have them every day and when I leave work they usually go away, so I think staring at a computer screen every day with out of date glasses is the culprit....
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  • PJSiren
    PJSiren Salem, OR Posts: 5,863
    UGH...just told my husband about the ex harassing me...
    Music is my Religion and Pearl Jam, my Savior!
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  • Gillycw
    Gillycw Sydney Posts: 524
    PJSiren wrote: »
    UGH...just told my husband about the ex harassing me...
    Hope it went ok, it's not like it's your fault. Hopefully blocking him got rid of the problem :-)
  • PJSiren
    PJSiren Salem, OR Posts: 5,863
    Gillycw wrote: »
    PJSiren wrote: »
    UGH...just told my husband about the ex harassing me...
    Hope it went ok, it's not like it's your fault. Hopefully blocking him got rid of the problem :-)

    It went fine....I was just nervous...he said and I quote, "He can go pound sand!"
    Music is my Religion and Pearl Jam, my Savior!
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  • Gillycw
    Gillycw Sydney Posts: 524
    PJSiren wrote: »
    Gillycw wrote: »
    PJSiren wrote: »
    UGH...just told my husband about the ex harassing me...
    Hope it went ok, it's not like it's your fault. Hopefully blocking him got rid of the problem :-)

    It went fine....I was just nervous...he said and I quote, "He can go pound sand!"

    Haha, I've never heard that one before!
  • jnimhaoileoin
    jnimhaoileoin Baile Átha Cliath Posts: 2,682
    Annafalk wrote: »
    Jennycoyle - I hope you will meet someone nice holding my thumbs for you

    Cheers! :)

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