which song feels like it was written about u?

CHANGEinWAVESCHANGEinWAVES Posts: 10,169
edited November 2008 in The Porch
Not a situation you are going through, but you as a person... your internal thoughts and feelings about yourself. Which song makes you think... "Wow Pearl Jam knows me better then I know myself"?

For me it's Off He Goes. I don't think I could express myself any better then that song does.
I have to add All or None...it's the phrase my marriage therapist used to describe me.:rolleyes:
Know a man...his face seems pulled and tense...
Like he's riding on a motorbike... in the strongest winds
So I approach with tact... suggest that he should relax...
But he's always moving much too fast...

Said he'll see me on the flipside... of this trip he's taken for a ride
He's been takin'... too much on... off he goes
With his perfectly... unkept clothes... there he goes...

He's yet to come back...but I've seen his picture
Doesn't look the same up on the rack...we go way back...

I wonder bout his insides...
Its like his thoughts are too big for his size
He's been taken... where? I don't know... off he goes
With his perfectly... unkept hope... there he goes...

And now I rub my eyes... for he has returned
Seems my preconceptions are what should have been burned...
For he still smiles... and he's still strong
Nothing's changed, but the surrounding bullshit... that has grown

And now he's home... and we're laughing...
like we always did... my same old... same old friend

Until a quarter-to-ten... I saw the strain creep in...
He seems distracted and I know just what is gonna happen next

Before his first step... he is off again

with this song....I see it as me talking about myself.
"I'm not present, I'm a drug that makes you dream"
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  • demetriosdemetrios Posts: 93,740
    "I'm Still Here"

    :(

    she said to me, over the phone
    she wanted to see other people
    i thought, "well then, look around, they're everywhere"
    said that she was confused...
    i thought, "darling, join the club"
    24 years old, mid-life crisis
    nowadays hits you when you're young
    i hung up, she called back, i hung up again
    the process had already started
    at least it happened quick
    i swear, i died inside that night
    my friend, he called
    i didn't mention a thing
    the last thing he said was, "be sound"
    sound...
    i contemplated an awful thing, i hate to admit
    i just thought those would be such appropriate last words
    but i'm still here
    and small
    so small.. how could this struggle seem so big?
    so big...
    while the palms in the breeze still blow green
    and the waves in the sea still absolute blue
    but the horror
    every single thing i see is a reminder of her
    never thought i'd curse the day i met her
    and since she's gone and wouldn't hear
    who would care? what good would that do?
    but i'm still here
    so i imagine in a month...or 12
    i'l be somewhere having a drink
    laughing at a stupid joke
    or just another stupid thing
    and i can see myself stopping short
    drifting out of the present
    sucked by the undertow and pulled out deep
    and there i am, standing
    wet grass and white headstones all in rows
    and in the distance there's one, off on its own
    so i stop, kneel
    my new home...
    and i picture a sober awakening, a re-entry into this little bar scene
    sip my drink til the ice hits my lip
    order another round
    and that's it for now
    sorry
    never been too good at happy endings...
  • In Hiding.... On a few levels.

    The backround to the story is when I was 21 (I'm now 32) I had a girl that I was with for 4 years. She broke up with me the day after my 21st birthday and I was crushed. Funny thing was I got her into Pearl Jam and she surprised me with No Code a week before it's release. We went to our first show at the first Randals Island night in '96. After she broke up with me she showed up at my house on night with Yield a week early also (she also had music connections and obviously still cared). When I heard In Hiding it reminded me of how I felt at the time and I related. Not just at the moment but how I felt when I had continuous bouts with depression in my teens.

    Well I grew up a non depressed well to do adult. When you listen to the song he sings of how he gets out of Hiding and I relate a lot.
    9/29/1996 NY
    9/1&2/2000 Camden
    7/6/2003 Camden
    5/27/2006 Camden 6/1&3/2006 NJ
    6/19/2008 Camden, 6/22/2008 Washington DC, 6/25/2008 NY
    8/7/2008 Eddie Vedder NJ, 6/11/2008 Eddie Vedder Philly (3rd Row! Thanks 10c!!)
    10/28,30&31/2009 Philly
  • ViggoViggo Posts: 274
    Black (i like a girl that doesn't like me in a love kind of way..)
    It's okay, It's okay
    You don't have to run and hide away
    It's okay, it's okay
    I love you anyway
    2007: Pearl Jam concert in Düsseldorf (21. June)
    2007: Chris Cornell concert in Kristiansand (2. July)
    2007: The Who concert in Kristiansand (4. July)
  • inside job
    I will be what i could be
    Once I get out of this town


    9/29/04;6/27/08;6/30/08;8/23/09;08/24/09;5/17/10
  • Off He Goes for me as well. And what a beautiful song at that!
    I used to do drugs. I still do, but I used to, too.

    Mitch Hedberg
  • After all these years coming here, I never knew how insightful this could be...

    In response to the topic, I would like to say that with every song written a new belief is made, and with each new belief comes change. The change is the process in which the new belief is then made again and again and again, assuming that the written song is a reflection of one's personal beliefs. That said I would like to say that the one that describes me best is Satan's Bed; it still holds true no matter what else changes.

    It's now time for me to go play dad before my daughter goes to sleep. Good night.
  • finnanniefinnannie Posts: 1,186
    Inside job

    Underneath this smile lies everything
    all my hopes, anger, pride and shame

    make yourself a pact, not to shut doors on the past
    just for today,... I am free

    I will not lose my faith
    It's an inside job today

    I know this one thing well,...

    I used to try and kill love, it was the highest sin
    breathing insecurity out and in

    Searching hope, I'm shown the way to run straight
    pursuing the greater way for all,... human light.

    How I choose to feel,... Is how I am.
    How I choose to feel,... Is how I am.

    I will not lose my faith
    It's an inside job today

    Holding on, the light of night
    On my knees to rise and fix my broken soul

    Again.

    Let me run into the rain
    To be a human light again

    Let me run into the rain
    To shine a human light today

    Life comes from within your heart and desire
    Life comes from within my heart and desire
    Life comes from within your heart and desire



    AND

    Save you

    Gonna save you fucker,....not gonna lose you
    Feeling cocky and strong,.. can't let you go,...
    Too important to me

    Too important to us,... we'd be lost without you
    Baby, let yourself fall,... I'm right below you now

    And fuck me if I say something you don't wanna hear
    And fuck if you only hear what you wanna hear
    Fuck me if I care,... but I'm not leaving here

    You helped me when I was down,... I'll help when you're down
    Why are you hitting yourself?... c'mon hit me instead

    Let's pick up your will,... it's grown fat and lazy
    I'm sympathetic as well,... don't go on me now

    And I'm not living this life without you, I'm selfish and clear
    And you're not leaving here without me, I don't wanna be without
    My best... friend. Wake up, to see you could have it all

    Cause there is but you,... and something within you
    It's taken control,.. let's beat it, get up let's go!

    Oh you're in your own world, let's see the whole world
    Let's pick up your soul

    And fuck me if I say something you don't wanna hear
    And fuck me if you only hear the treble in your head
    Please help,... me,... to help you,... help yourself

    Help me help yourself,... please want me to,... please let me to

    Help you
    Won't let the light escape from me.
    Won't let the darkness swallow me.
  • ramborambo Posts: 170
    I got shit
    st. john's newfoundland, sept 24/2005
    st. john's newfoundland, sept. 25/2005
  • LONGRDLONGRD Posts: 6,036
    Not a situation you are going through, but you as a person... your internal thoughts and feelings about yourself. Which song makes you think... "Wow Pearl Jam knows me better then I know myself"?

    For me it's Off He Goes. I don't think I could express myself any better then that song does.
    I actually have more than 1, and Off He Goes is one of them. It pretty much describe my hardship of containing friendship and commitments; always find myself burning bridges along the way. In My Tree has the similar theme and meaning to me BUT in more uplifting and spirited fashion- like a friendship within oneself kinda way.

    The Mamasan trilogy(Alive-Once-Footstep) are another favorite of mine. These are more about the past and brokenhome upbringings I definitely can relate to. Release, Better Man, and Nothinman are somewhat a trilogy version I used to describe mine and my parents' relationship.

    Sorry, there are just WAY too many PJ songs I can relate too...
    one just isn't enough for me. :o
    PJ- 04/29/2003.06/24,25,27,28,30/2008.10/27,28,30,31/2009
    EV- 08/09,10/2008.06/08,09/2009
  • "Gone"



    Especially hearing the speech Eddie gave during Night 2 of the Chicago United Center show in 2006. I was a few rows from the stage, and the speech he made related so much to how I was feeling at the time, and still feel today.
    A child's rhyme stuck in my head...
    It said "Life is nothing but a dream."
    I've spent so many years in question
    To find I'd known this all along.
  • zenithzenith Posts: 3,191
    how many times has a fan said one of the things they love about this band, they write things you can connect with, so many levels, so many times

    i have happy memories to the first time i heard particular songs ... the first bars of an opening set after you havent seen them in 3 years ... songs you hear when your in a particular mood, be it sad or happy that have lines that you relate with ... and simply hearing a song come on while your driving in the car and think 'remember when' - really, they've pretty much written the soundtrack to my adult life, so theres a personal thought to be had with every song i hear

    one standout tho is nothingman - for sad reasons really ... it almost word for word describes the breakup of my kids dad and me
    impatience is a gift ........
  • BeerBaron wrote:
    But in certain parts of my life All or None speaks to me like no other.
    YES! This would be a 2nd for me...not even runner up...parallel with off he goes.
    "I'm not present, I'm a drug that makes you dream"
  • urbanhippieurbanhippie Posts: 3,007
    Inside Job, when I think I can cope.

    Off He Goes, when I know that I can't.
    A human being that was given to fly.

    Wembley 18/06/07

    If there was a reason, it was you.

    O2 Arena 18/09/09
  • A lot of them, but indifference most of all.
  • Lanegan7Lanegan7 Posts: 124
    Other side
  • GmoneyGmoney Posts: 1,618
    Evacuation!!
    Further back and forth a wave will break on me, today...
  • URthekeyURthekey Posts: 1,800
    Breakerfall.
  • pretextpretext Posts: 1,294
    Off He Goes or In Hiding.

    Working my way up to I Am Mine.
  • which song feels like it was written about u?


    Big Balls by AC/DC.
  • gobrowns19gobrowns19 Posts: 1,447
    Lanegan7 wrote:
    Other side

    I feel a combination of Other Side and Push Me, Pull Me.
    Happiness is only real when shared
  • Right now, it would be Ghost.

    I cant discuss it here so....

    Anyway, the last verse of Ghost just hits me good every time.

    "It doesn't hurt when I bleed
    But my memories they eat me
    I've seen it all before
    Bring it on cause I'm no victim."

    Anybody live in New Mexico and can help me with some legal advice?
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  • drummerboy_73drummerboy_73 Las Vegas, NV Posts: 2,011
    Dirty Frank...'cause I like chopping up and eating people.

    No...not really!

    I've always realted to a lot of the No Code-era stuff, especially during diffficult times in family and marriage..."Hail, Hail", "Long Road".
    Osaka, Japan (2/21/95), San Diego (7/10/98), Las Vegas (10/22/00), San Diego (10/25/00), Las Vegas (6/6/03), Las Vegas (7/6/06), Los Angeles (7/9/06), VH1 Rock Honors (7/12/08), Ed Solo (7/8/11), Ed Solo (11/1/12), Los Angeles (11/23/13)
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  • come back

    makes me think of my father who passed when i was six
    E. Rutherford 6/03/06
    Camden 6/19/08
    Newark 5/18/10
    MSG 5/20/10
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  • Thorns2010Thorns2010 Posts: 2,201
    Indifference, my on again off again bouts of depression, thats a great song!

    Present Tense, to remind me that I just need to live for the here and now

    and Sleight Of Hand, I feel if all I do is the same thing day after day, time after time.
  • catefrancescatefrances Posts: 29,003
    demetrios wrote:
    "I'm Still Here"

    :(

    she said to me, over the phone
    she wanted to see other people
    i thought, "well then, look around, they're everywhere"
    said that she was confused...
    i thought, "darling, join the club"
    24 years old, mid-life crisis
    nowadays hits you when you're young
    i hung up, she called back, i hung up again
    the process had already started
    at least it happened quick
    i swear, i died inside that night
    my friend, he called
    i didn't mention a thing
    the last thing he said was, "be sound"
    sound...
    i contemplated an awful thing, i hate to admit
    i just thought those would be such appropriate last words
    but i'm still here
    and small
    so small.. how could this struggle seem so big?
    so big...
    while the palms in the breeze still blow green
    and the waves in the sea still absolute blue
    but the horror
    every single thing i see is a reminder of her
    never thought i'd curse the day i met her
    and since she's gone and wouldn't hear
    who would care? what good would that do?
    but i'm still here
    so i imagine in a month...or 12
    i'l be somewhere having a drink
    laughing at a stupid joke
    or just another stupid thing
    and i can see myself stopping short
    drifting out of the present
    sucked by the undertow and pulled out deep
    and there i am, standing
    wet grass and white headstones all in rows
    and in the distance there's one, off on its own
    so i stop, kneel
    my new home...
    and i picture a sober awakening, a re-entry into this little bar scene
    sip my drink til the ice hits my lip
    order another round
    and that's it for now
    sorry
    never been too good at happy endings...

    HOLY HELL!!!! how has this one managed to pass by me?
    hear my name
    take a good look
    this could be the day
    hold my hand
    lie beside me
    i just need to say
  • thumbing my way

    to a T
    wah
  • Thoughts_ArriveThoughts_Arrive Melbourne, Australia Posts: 15,165
    Wishlist.

    I am missing things from my life I wish I had.
    Adelaide 17/11/2009, Melbourne 20/11/2009, Sydney 22/11/2009, Melbourne (Big Day Out Festival) 24/01/2014
  • Given to Fly.

    and Parting Ways (at the moment - nothing to do with Dave :))
    Been to this many PJ shows: Reading 2006 London 2007 Manchester & London 2009 Dublin, Belfast, London, Nijmegen & Berlin 2010 Manchester 1 & Manchester 2 2012...

    ... and I still think Drive-By Truckers are better.
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