Allowable Infidelity List

Black Diamond

My wife and I each have one celebrity where, if the situation ever presented itself :roll: , you would be allowed to stray from our vows. Any of you out there have this with their significant other

Wife - Richard Gere
Me - Meg Ryan

Wilds

Black Diamond wrote:

My wife and I each have one celebrity where, if the situation ever presented itself :roll: , you would be allowed to stray from our vows. Any of you out there have this with their significant other

Wife - Richard Gere
Me - Meg Ryan

I don't have one. But given your list, are you allowed to update as the decades roll by?

Black Diamond

Wilds wrote:

Black Diamond wrote:

My wife and I each have one celebrity where, if the situation ever presented itself :roll: , you would be allowed to stray from our vows. Any of you out there have this with their significant other

Wife - Richard Gere
Me - Meg Ryan

I don't have one. But given your list, are you allowed to update as the decades roll by?

Meg is like fine wine, my friend.

decides2dream

Wilds wrote:

Black Diamond wrote:

My wife and I each have one celebrity where, if the situation ever presented itself :roll: , you would be allowed to stray from our vows. Any of you out there have this with their significant other

Wife - Richard Gere
Me - Meg Ryan

I don't have one. But given your list, are you allowed to update as the decades roll by?

that made me laugh!



bd, why just one each? sheesh! seriously, my husband and i have quite a list ....but let's be real; if either one of us were ever presented with a celebrity that we found attractive AND said person was willing to have sex with either of us, hell yea, even if not on the *list*....a free pass would be given. then again, my husband and i are both fairly open-minded.

ed is of course tops of my list
and i am embarassed to say....keanu reeves. :oops: dear gawd he may be a shit actor but there is just *something* so physically gorgeous about him that i can overlook the acting...:P there are others of course, but those are probably the top 2. hubby's list is always varying, tho michelle pfeiffer and gwenyth paltrow have always been biggies, but he's always developing new crushes. eh, so am i. how the hell else does one stay happily married for over 17 years?

thunderDAN

I don't have an actual list, but I don't think my girlfriend would care if I slept with Mila Kunis. I used to tell her she could sleep with John Hartnett if she got the chance, but I think I better take that back because his career has fallen to the point that he might be fucking my girlfriend on of these days

jecica

I have a top 5...

1. Prince
2. Eddie Vedder
3. Dave Navarro
4. Mark Wahlberg
5. Elijah Wood

My husband doesn't give a shit.

jimed14

THEN ...



NOW ... (and forgive me if you're in the middle of dinner ... ooof)

guacamolejoe

Black Diamond wrote:

Wilds wrote:

Black Diamond wrote:

My wife and I each have one celebrity where, if the situation ever presented itself :roll: , you would be allowed to stray from our vows. Any of you out there have this with their significant other

Wife - Richard Gere
Me - Meg Ryan

I don't have one. But given your list, are you allowed to update as the decades roll by?

Meg is like fine wine, my friend.

When I worked for UPS back in the 80s, the part of the day I looked forward to was delivering her package . Always started her block at 10:30 am. Its seams I always caught her working out in tights & sweating :shock:,great body. Timing is "everything"

Dissidentman

jecica wrote:

I have a top 5...

1. Prince
2. Eddie Vedder
3. Dave Navarro
4. Mark Wahlberg
5. Elijah Wood

My husband doesn't give a shit.

Really, #1???

surfanddestroy

My list

Eddie
Val Kilmer
Johnny Depp
Jeremy Sisto
Vince Neill

Not really sure who the boyfriend likes at the moment it changes all the time.

Rygar

Wilds wrote:

Black Diamond wrote:

My wife and I each have one celebrity where, if the situation ever presented itself :roll: , you would be allowed to stray from our vows. Any of you out there have this with their significant other

Wife - Richard Gere
Me - Meg Ryan

I don't have one. But given your list, are you allowed to update as the decades roll by?

haha, nice one!

comebackgirl

Eddie Vedder
Johnny Depp
David Beckham (but he's not allowed to talk)

I think there were a few others...but I always forget who they are
Just Ed would do nicely.

Claireack

decides2dream wrote:

and i am embarassed to say....keanu reeves.

Ed of course first, but what's wrong with Keanu? - I am a proud Keanu fancier. I would have loved to have been Sandra Bullock in The Lake House (my husband would have been quite pleased to), I cried at the end of the film.

My top 5 would probably be;

1. Ed
2. Johnny Depp
3. The great Keanu
4. Jonathon Rhys Myers (although he's prob a little young for me)
5. Viggo Mortenson (while in character and costume of Aragorn)

My husband, well he's not fussy he'd probably have anyone that offered.

I did say to my husband once that EV would probably be the only man I left him for, he seemed ok with that (but I did say I'd keep him on as my bit of fluff on the side).

pearljgirl2010

comebackgirl wrote:

Eddie Vedder
Johnny Depp
David Beckham (but he's not allowed to talk)

I think there were a few others...but I always forget who they are
Just Ed would do nicely.

again, I agree with you...Eddie is always on the list, but the other rotate when i remember someone else :-)

Eddie
Johnny Depp
David Beckham
Christian Bale (no talking allowed)

decides2dream

Claireack wrote:

decides2dream wrote:

and i am embarassed to say....keanu reeves.

Ed of course first, but what's wrong with Keanu? - I am a proud Keanu fancier. I would have loved to have been Sandra Bullock in The Lake House (my husband would have been quite pleased to), I cried at the end of the film.

My top 5 would probably be;

1. Ed
2. Johnny Depp
3. The great Keanu
4. Jonathon Rhys Myers (although he's prob a little young for me)
5. Viggo Mortenson (while in character and costume of Aragorn)

My husband, well he's not fussy he'd probably have anyone that offered.

I did say to my husband once that EV would probably be the only man I left him for, he seemed ok with that (but I did say I'd keep him on as my bit of fluff on the side).

simply b/c i know he's a crap actor...and yet i'd want him anyway.
your list is VERY nice...i could work with that.

and your husband sounds very much like my husband...

LoveSurmounts

For me:
Scott Weiland
Christian Bale

Husband:
Christina Ricci
Anne Hathaway

81

my gf said i can have sex with anyone i want as long as i don't tell her about it.

Enkidu

My husband and I call it the Elevator List. As in - if you're trapped in an elevator with...

His list includes Heidi Klum, most Sports Illustrated swimsuit models, that cute dancer (Jeanine?) who won So You Think You Can Dance.

My list - Clive Owen, Daniel Craig, David Beckham, Rafael Nadal.

Oddly enough Rachel Maddow is on both our lists. We LOVE her.

Thorns2010

Now why is it that most responses in this thread are from women?

cincybearcat

Enkidu wrote:

Oddly enough Rachel Maddow is on both our lists. We LOVE her.

I just threw up. Thanks alot.

Hawkshore

LoveSurmounts wrote:

For me:
Scott Weiland
Christian Bale

Husband:
Christina Ricci
Anne Hathaway

Weiland really??? :? ....Well it souldn't really be to hard .....lets see get yourself and eight ball and front row seats .....show it to him and I'm sure he will WHATEVER you want!!!

decides2dream

Hawkshore wrote:

LoveSurmounts wrote:

For me:
Scott Weiland
Christian Bale

Husband:
Christina Ricci
Anne Hathaway

Weiland really??? :? ....Well it souldn't really be to hard .....lets see get yourself and eight ball and front row seats .....show it to him and I'm sure he will WHATEVER you want!!!

while he's not on my list....weiland most definitely has always been *sexy*. and hey, differing tastes....

(tho let's face it, again, if offered the opportunity and the *chemistry* was there.....hell yea )



btw...

81 wrote:

my gf said i can have sex with anyone i want as long as i don't tell her about it.

smart girl....;)
funny too, my husband kinda says the same thing except.....as long as i do tell him about it.

josevolution

Thorns2010 wrote:

Now why is it that most responses in this thread are from women?

yea i thought the same thing ..

ZiggyStar

Mine would be Ed Ved during 2000 or so or an Aussie named David Williams. Not sure about my bf.

I've been having sex with the same person for 11 years......and of course I'd never cheat on him but come onnnn....eleven years is a long fucking time to be having sex with the same person....but it's also fantastic too.

Anyway, I think all relationships should have ONE weekend a year where you both go to a different city and can fuck ONE person for ONE night......and then both come home knowing that you both did it......but you can't ask ANY questions at all because they're the rules. And you can't do it with the same person more than once. But you BOTH have to do it so it's equal. I'm all about equality in my relationship!

Tilda Swinton has the right fucking idea! She's in her 40s, married and has kids to someone in his 60s and has a toyboy in his 30s that she takes travelling with her and sometimes stays at their family home etc. Her husband is totally cool with it! GO TILDA!

comebackgirl

ZiggyStar wrote:

Mine would be Ed Ved during 2000 or so or an Aussie named David Williams. Not sure about my bf.

I've been having sex with the same person for 11 years......and of course I'd never cheat on him but come onnnn....eleven years is a long fucking time to be having sex with the same person....but it's also fantastic too.

Anyway, I think all relationships should have ONE weekend a year where you both go to a different city and can fuck ONE person for ONE night......and then both come home knowing that you both did it......but you can't ask ANY questions at all because they're the rules. And you can't do it with the same person more than once. But you BOTH have to do it so it's equal. I'm all about equality in my relationship!

Tilda Swinton has the right fucking idea! She's in her 40s, married and has kids to someone in his 60s and has a toyboy in his 30s that she takes travelling with her and sometimes stays at their family home etc. Her husband is totally cool with it! GO TILDA!

Just looked up David Williams...OH YEAH...he'll do
Women would be Scarlett Johansson and Kim Kardashian...I like my women curvy

ZiggyStar

comebackgirl wrote:

Just looked up David Williams...OH YEAH...he'll do
Women would be Scarlett Johansson and Kim Kardashian...I like my women curvy

Are you sure you looked at the right David Williams? This is the one I'm talking about! Mmmmm....

comebackgirl

ZiggyStar wrote:

comebackgirl wrote:

Just looked up David Williams...OH YEAH...he'll do
Women would be Scarlett Johansson and Kim Kardashian...I like my women curvy

Are you sure you looked at the right David Williams? This is the one I'm talking about! Mmmmm....

hmmmm...maybe not...the one I saw was a footballer and had a lot less clothing on Not sure if I can post it here

comebackgirl

Found a safe one:

http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_1epUfqmW7cI/S ... tball--+(6).jpg

http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_1epUfqmW7cI/S ... tball--+(7).jpg

ZiggyStar

comebackgirl wrote:

hmmmm...maybe not...the one I saw was a footballer and had a lot less clothing on Not sure if I can post it here

YES! That's him without the beard!!! Hot, hey! I prefer the beard though.....he just recently shaved it off for charity. I wasn't happy! :x

comebackgirl

ZiggyStar wrote:

comebackgirl wrote:

hmmmm...maybe not...the one I saw was a footballer and had a lot less clothing on Not sure if I can post it here

YES! That's him without the beard!!! Hot, hey! I prefer the beard though.....he just recently shaved it off for charity. I wasn't happy! :x

mmmm yummy. LOVE those hot aussies. You can have him with the beard...and I'll take him without

decides2dream

ZiggyStar wrote:

Tilda Swinton has the right fucking idea! She's in her 40s, married and has kids to someone in his 60s and has a toyboy in his 30s that she takes travelling with her and sometimes stays at their family home etc. Her husband is totally cool with it! GO TILDA!

tilda is cool...as is her husband....tho yea, i don't want a husband 20 years older than me! mr. dream is 2.5 years older, that works...but so does tilda's idea too.