you think you've been rejected

normnorm Posts: 31,146
edited August 2009 in All Encompassing Trip
Rejection Hurts
Love-Struck Wheelchair Warrior Falls Head Over Heels, Twice


A German pensioner traveled hundreds of miles in a wheelchair to propose marriage. He was rejected.

Love can make people do bizarre things. A pensioner in western Germany, who went cross-country in his wheelchair to propose, found out first hand that the course of true love never runs smooth.

A 67-year-old love-struck pensioner, who propelled himself more than 200 kilometers (125 miles) in a standard arm-powered wheelchair to propose to the woman he loved, was found lying in a cornfield after the object of his affections gave him the brush-off.

The infatuated retiree from Minden in the western state of North Rhine-Westphalia told local police who rescued him from beneath his wheelchair that it had taken him four days to get to Salzwedel in the eastern state of Saxony-Anhalt, whereupon the lady of his dreams had spurned his marriage proposal.

Spurned, the senior decided to embark on the long trek back home. But trouble struck while he was passing through Celle, in Lower Saxony. Overcome by hunger, the by now lovesick pensioner stopped by a cornfield. He fell out of his wheelchair while reaching for a cob to nibble on and was unable to get back in.

Homeward Bound

Following a mobile phone call from the stranded man, police rushed to the scene. But after being assisted back into his chair, there was no stopping him, the police said. The man immediately hit the road again, homeward bound.

"What makes this story even more funny but also even more tragic, is that the corn he wanted to eat was not even edible. It was field corn for animal fodder," Celle police spokesman Guido Koch told SPIEGEL ONLINE.

Police said the man hadn't been uninjured, that he was completely sane. He was, however, disappointed that his love went unrequited. He said it would probably take him another three or four days to get home, but he refused a lift in a car.

"He must have immense upper body strength," Koch said, adding that he had never come across a similar case in his career as a policeman.

This long-distance wheelchair mission is not the first of its kind to hit the headlines in Germany. Last year a severely paralysed German pensioner crossed the Alps in a wheelchair, making the 2,500 kilometer journey from Hamburg to Rome to try to raise awareness about the failings of Germany's healthcare system.

http://www.spiegel.de/international/ger ... 97,00.html
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  • tybirdtybird Posts: 17,388
    Raw corn???? dude was really hungry.
    All the world will be your enemy, Prince with a thousand enemies, and whenever they catch you, they will kill you. But first they must catch you, digger, listener, runner, prince with the swift warning. Be cunning and full of tricks and your people shall never be destroyed.
  • the wolfthe wolf Posts: 7,027
    sad.
    Peace, Love.


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    to not question your government is unpatriotic."
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  • Black DiamondBlack Diamond Posts: 25,107
    They must have met here.
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  • decides2dreamdecides2dream Posts: 14,977
    awwwwwww....how sad, yet beautiful.
    to go on such a journey, and to fall in love at 67.....just beautiful. too sad that it went unrequited, but does not diminish the beauty of the story, nor his capacity to fall in love...or propel himself days on end in his wheelchair! :) so hopefully he will discover love again, and be loved in return. *wipes tears*


    :mrgreen:
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    Let's just breathe...


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  • They must have met here.
    :lol::lol::lol::lol::lol::lol::lol::lol::lol::lol:
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    Once I get out of this town


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  • Drowned OutDrowned Out Posts: 6,056
    awwwwwww....how sad, yet beautiful.
    to go on such a journey, and to fall in love at 67.....just beautiful. too sad that it went unrequited, but does not diminish the beauty of the story, nor his capacity to fall in love...or propel himself days on end in his wheelchair! :) so hopefully he will discover love again, and be loved in return. *wipes tears*


    :mrgreen:
    somewhere in Germany, there is a little old lady thinking, 'that guy was creepy' ;)
  • decides2dreamdecides2dream Posts: 14,977
    awwwwwww....how sad, yet beautiful.
    to go on such a journey, and to fall in love at 67.....just beautiful. too sad that it went unrequited, but does not diminish the beauty of the story, nor his capacity to fall in love...or propel himself days on end in his wheelchair! :) so hopefully he will discover love again, and be loved in return. *wipes tears*


    :mrgreen:
    somewhere in Germany, there is a little old lady thinking, 'that guy was creepy' ;)


    well if the old guy in the wheelchair had simply fallen in *love* thru stalking the poor woman thru the window at her work in the hair salon....rightly so. ;)
    Stay with me...
    Let's just breathe...


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  • the wolfthe wolf Posts: 7,027
    awwwwwww....how sad, yet beautiful.
    to go on such a journey, and to fall in love at 67.....just beautiful. too sad that it went unrequited, but does not diminish the beauty of the story, nor his capacity to fall in love...or propel himself days on end in his wheelchair! :) so hopefully he will discover love again, and be loved in return. *wipes tears*


    :mrgreen:
    somewhere in Germany, there is a little old lady thinking, 'that guy was creepy' ;)


    well if the old guy in the wheelchair had simply fallen in *love* thru stalking the poor woman thru the window at her work in the hair salon....rightly so. ;)

    I heard he sent her a flower and note with his number on it. ;)
    Peace, Love.


    "To question your government is not unpatriotic --
    to not question your government is unpatriotic."
    -- Sen. Chuck Hagel
  • arqarq Posts: 8,049
    They must have met here.

    lmao!
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  • decides2dreamdecides2dream Posts: 14,977
    the wolf wrote:
    somewhere in Germany, there is a little old lady thinking, 'that guy was creepy' ;)


    well if the old guy in the wheelchair had simply fallen in *love* thru stalking the poor woman thru the window at her work in the hair salon....rightly so. ;)

    I heard he sent her a flower and note with his number on it. ;)


    if he GAVE her a flower and his #, in person (rather than sent), would've probably worked far better. ;)
    Stay with me...
    Let's just breathe...


    I am myself like you somehow


  • Drowned OutDrowned Out Posts: 6,056
    :lol::lol:
  • Who PrincessWho Princess out here in the fields Posts: 7,305
    the wolf wrote:
    well if the old guy in the wheelchair had simply fallen in *love* thru stalking the poor woman thru the window at her work in the hair salon....rightly so. ;)

    I heard he sent her a flower and note with his number on it. ;)


    if he GAVE her a flower and his #, in person (rather than sent), would've probably worked far better. ;)

    Didn't he even try to find out if she was married or seeing somebody else first? That makes a difference too. :roll:
    "The stars are all connected to the brain."
  • 125 miles in a wheelchair?

    He must have arms like Popeye!!
    It's gonna be a glorious day...
  • The ChampThe Champ Posts: 4,063
    See, this is what happens when you put pussy on a pedestal..what a sap..
    979479-5-pussy-on-a-pedestal.jpg
    'I want to hurry home to you
    put on a slow, dumb show for you
    and crack you up
    so you can put a blue ribbon on my brain
    god I'm very, very frightening
    and I'll overdo it'
  • decides2dreamdecides2dream Posts: 14,977
    The Champ wrote:
    See, this is what happens when you put pussy on a pedestal..what a sap..
    979479-5-pussy-on-a-pedestal.jpg



    OMG...that made me laugh!!!
    :lol:
    :mrgreen:
    Stay with me...
    Let's just breathe...


    I am myself like you somehow


  • The ChampThe Champ Posts: 4,063
    The Champ wrote:
    See, this is what happens when you put pussy on a pedestal..what a sap..
    979479-5-pussy-on-a-pedestal.jpg



    OMG...that made me laugh!!!
    :lol:
    :mrgreen:

    Seriously, I know you think it was a beautiful act of romance..but man, what a poor schmuck..jesus..
    'I want to hurry home to you
    put on a slow, dumb show for you
    and crack you up
    so you can put a blue ribbon on my brain
    god I'm very, very frightening
    and I'll overdo it'
  • justamjustam Posts: 21,412
    To me, driving a wheelchair across miles of country is almost like the guy that asks a woman to marry him on a sign in a sports arena. It's a gesture to try to force a "Yes" out of a woman who probably doesn't wanna say that. (To guilt the person into feeling obligated.)

    Am I being cold-hearted to think that? :oops:
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  • decides2dreamdecides2dream Posts: 14,977
    The Champ wrote:
    The Champ wrote:
    See, this is what happens when you put pussy on a pedestal..what a sap..
    979479-5-pussy-on-a-pedestal.jpg



    OMG...that made me laugh!!!
    :lol:
    :mrgreen:

    Seriously, I know you think it was a beautiful act of romance..but man, what a poor schmuck..jesus..




    well yea, exactly.....it is both.
    you don't go for the *bold gesture* unless you feel fairly certain of the outcome, imo...b/c otherwise...sucks for you and her, both.
    Stay with me...
    Let's just breathe...


    I am myself like you somehow


  • normnorm Posts: 31,146
    well yea, exactly.....it is both.
    you don't go for the *bold gesture* unless you feel fairly certain of the outcome, imo...b/c otherwise...sucks for you and her, both.


    i think it sucked a little more for him though...dude fell out of his wheelchair in a cornfield...that's gotta suck :P :D
  • decides2dreamdecides2dream Posts: 14,977
    norm wrote:
    well yea, exactly.....it is both.
    you don't go for the *bold gesture* unless you feel fairly certain of the outcome, imo...b/c otherwise...sucks for you and her, both.


    i think it sucked a little more for him though...dude fell out of his wheelchair in a cornfield...that's gotta suck :P :D


    well sure...thus why the 'poor schmuck' comment truly fits. :? :P :mrgreen:
    Stay with me...
    Let's just breathe...


    I am myself like you somehow


  • Who PrincessWho Princess out here in the fields Posts: 7,305
    justam wrote:
    To me, driving a wheelchair across miles of country is almost like the guy that asks a woman to marry him on a sign in a sports arena. It's a gesture to try to force a "Yes" out of a woman who probably doesn't wanna say that. (To guilt the person into feeling obligated.)

    Am I being cold-hearted to think that? :oops:
    No. With my luck there's somebody here that proposed that way and I'll get flamed but I've always thought those kinds of public proposals were stupid, attention-seeking stunts. A few years ago a guy in Houston proposed to his girlfriend at a game and while they were being shown on the stadium jumbotron she dumped a bucket of popcorn on his head and stomped out. Touching, eh? :P :lol:
    "The stars are all connected to the brain."
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