I met a murderer today.

ArcticangelArcticangel Posts: 1,443
edited August 2009 in All Encompassing Trip
Ok. Maybe "met" is a little strong of a word. Considering he's heavily sedated and possibly brain dead after killing three brothers ranging in age from 15 to 31 and shooting another one before he turned the gun on himself.

I work as a phlebotomist in a hospital. I go out to every ward from CCU to Neuro to ER to OB to surgery. When I started this job a year ago... I never imagined I would get the chance to see and experience the things I have. It's been a trip. I would say that 85% of it is awesome. I get a chance to meet so many people, and although our interaction may not be long...many of them have made permanent impressions on me.

I came to a strange realization on my way out of work tonight...that now I have "met" both a murderer, and a man who was murdered. Two different instances. This is not something I would have imagined growing up in west central Wisconsin. These things don't happen often around here.

And you know what else struck me? There were more people holding vigil at the bedside of the murderer than the man who was murdered.

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  • Given to...Given to... Wyoming Posts: 4,997
    Yep. Time for a few minutes to reflect.



    I applaud anyone who works in a field that requires compassion. Your smile has to be a comfort. Your job and interaction with all walks of life/ death is somewhat enviable.
    "...would you like some forks?" EV 12-02-06
  • Ok. Maybe "met" is a little strong of a word. Considering he's heavily sedated and possibly brain dead after killing three brothers ranging in age from 15 to 31 and shooting another one before he turned the gun on himself.

    I work as a phlebotomist in a hospital. I go out to every ward from CCU to Neuro to ER to OB to surgery. When I started this job a year ago... I never imagined I would get the chance to see and experience the things I have. It's been a trip. I would say that 85% of it is awesome. I get a chance to meet so many people, and although our interaction may not be long...many of them have made permanent impressions on me.

    I came to a strange realization on my way out of work tonight...that now I have "met" both a murderer, and a man who was murdered. Two different instances. This is not something I would have imagined growing up in west central Wisconsin. These things don't happen often around here.

    And you know what else struck me? There were more people holding vigil at the bedside of the murderer than the man who was murdered.

    http://www.leadertelegram.com/story-new ... KTAESTE094


    i had a buddy kill my cousin, and i will now secretly kill the buddy
  • WOW weird day at work I'm sure! I work as a Health Care Aide(nurses aide) and have for 10 years now. Hardest job I have ever had. I have had numerous inmates as patients and sometimes it is hard to put aside your feelings on the things that have landed them in jail, but then you remember why you do your job, and you treat them with compassion and respect. Sometimes easier said than done.
  • tacettacet Posts: 323
    Ok. Maybe "met" is a little strong of a word. Considering he's heavily sedated and possibly brain dead after killing three brothers ranging in age from 15 to 31 and shooting another one before he turned the gun on himself.

    I work as a phlebotomist in a hospital. I go out to every ward from CCU to Neuro to ER to OB to surgery. When I started this job a year ago... I never imagined I would get the chance to see and experience the things I have. It's been a trip. I would say that 85% of it is awesome. I get a chance to meet so many people, and although our interaction may not be long...many of them have made permanent impressions on me.

    I came to a strange realization on my way out of work tonight...that now I have "met" both a murderer, and a man who was murdered. Two different instances. This is not something I would have imagined growing up in west central Wisconsin. These things don't happen often around here.

    And you know what else struck me? There were more people holding vigil at the bedside of the murderer than the man who was murdered.

    http://www.leadertelegram.com/story-new ... KTAESTE094


    i had a buddy kill my cousin, and i will now secretly kill the buddy

    really??
    How you gonna do it?
    Tell me, I won't say a word. Your secret is safe with me.
    we're all sentient snowflakes
  • arqarq Posts: 8,049
    I had a buddy kill my cousin, and i will now secretly kill the buddy

    an eye for an eye? Well if some bastard touch one of my cousins I would go nuts, I'm a very forgiving person when the harm is done to me but when someone hurt any member of my family that person become an enemy rightaway.
    "The good thing about science is that it's true whether or not you believe in it"
    Neil deGrasse Tyson

    Why not (V) (°,,,,°) (V) ?
  • arq wrote:
    I had a buddy kill my cousin, and i will now secretly kill the buddy

    an eye for an eye? Well if some bastard touch one of my cousins I would go nuts, I'm a very forgiving person when the harm is done to me but when someone hurt any member of my family that person become an enemy rightaway.

    im pretty much the same way, the best part is i get like 15 years to calm down
  • PureandEasyPureandEasy Posts: 5,811
    I know several murderers. I actually hung with a few guys who ended up killing people and are currently in jail. It is a weird feeling.

    I too work in a humanitarian organization and it is a pleasure to come to work on a daily basis knowing that what I do helps SAVE lives and not take them away.
    Don't come closer or I'll have to go
  • ArcticangelArcticangel Posts: 1,443
    He died this morning.
    I wonder if we'll ever really know what happened and why.
    Just senseless tragedy.
    PJ: St. Paul 6.16.2003, St. Paul 6.26.2006, St. Paul 6.27.2006, Hartford 6.27.2008, Mansfield 6.28.2008, Mansfield 6.30.2008, Beacon Theater 7.1.2008, Toronto 8.21.2009, Chicago 8.23.2009, Chicago 8.24.2009, Philly 10.30.2009, Philly 10.31.2009, Columbus 5.6.2010, Noblesville 5.7.2010

    EV: Los Angeles 4.12.2008, Los Angeles 4.13.2008, Nashville 6.17.2009, Nashville 6.18.2009, Memphis 6.20.2009
  • arqarq Posts: 8,049
    He died this morning.
    I wonder if we'll ever really know what happened and why.
    Just senseless tragedy.

    Wow...
    "The good thing about science is that it's true whether or not you believe in it"
    Neil deGrasse Tyson

    Why not (V) (°,,,,°) (V) ?
  • The ChampThe Champ Posts: 4,063
    I know several murderers. I actually hung with a few guys who ended up killing people and are currently in jail. It is a weird feeling.

    A 'few' guys and killing multiple people? Where the hell do you hang out?
    'I want to hurry home to you
    put on a slow, dumb show for you
    and crack you up
    so you can put a blue ribbon on my brain
    god I'm very, very frightening
    and I'll overdo it'
  • JordyWordyJordyWordy Posts: 2,261
    I too work in a humanitarian organization and it is a pleasure to come to work on a daily basis knowing that what I do helps SAVE lives and not take them away.

    Is that a subtle understatement or is it just averagely rewarding? :D
  • FifthelementFifthelement Lotusland Posts: 6,963


    So this one time I was visiting a relative in prison for a Christmas in July dinner. It was paid for and prepared by the "Lifer" inmates. It was the first time I had gone to one of these functions and as we were heading up to the buffet table, I realised that I had left my cigarettes on the table. I was going to head back to get them when my relative said to me, "Don't worry, were all in for murder, not theft."
    :? ;):D
    For some reason that really made me crack up.

    At this same dinner I was sitting next to this really burly, biker-type guy. We got to talking and for some reason the topic of why he was in there came up (generally, this is not a topic that you bring up in polite conversation).

    Anyways, he proceeds to tell me about this guy that came into his bar and tried to rob him at gunpoint. Instead of giving up the money "my new friend" shot him. I replied, "well, surely that was self-defense." He replied, that, "yes, the first shot was, but the next five were considered manslaughter." :o :shock: ;):D

    He had a great sense of humour :D
    "What the CANUCK happened?!? - Esquimalt Barber Shop
  • stargirl69stargirl69 Posts: 6,387
    elle elle wrote:
    WOW weird day at work I'm sure! I work as a Health Care Aide(nurses aide) and have for 10 years now. Hardest job I have ever had. I have had numerous inmates as patients and sometimes it is hard to put aside your feelings on the things that have landed them in jail, but then you remember why you do your job, and you treat them with compassion and respect. Sometimes easier said than done.


    I work in social services and have dealt with a number of people,mostly men,who have killed.I knew a young man who killed his step father after being subjected to years of rape and abuse.

    Why is it when military kill in the line of duty they are declared heroes and when others kill as a result of years of abuse they are branded evil.
    “There should be a place where only the things you want to happen, happen”
  • PureandEasyPureandEasy Posts: 5,811
    JordyWordy wrote:
    I too work in a humanitarian organization and it is a pleasure to come to work on a daily basis knowing that what I do helps SAVE lives and not take them away.

    Is that a subtle understatement or is it just averagely rewarding? :D

    It's exceptionally rewarding :D
    Don't come closer or I'll have to go
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