{{{GOOD VIBES}}} Update Cancer

Phantom PainPhantom Pain Posts: 9,876
edited August 2009 in All Encompassing Trip
My Step-Dad has been battling an issue with his lungs and wouldn't go to the doctor

He's had a bad cough for a month dropped like 18lbs and looked really bad he thought he was just battling something but it never really got better

My Mom finally convinced him to go to the Doctor he listened to his chest sent him for a chest x-ray and after the x-ray sent him right to the hospital

Left lung was fine right lung was filled with so much fluid they couldnt see the lung..they said he needed a chest tube to drain out his lung

After they drained over 500cc of fluid they found some blood in the fluid and his blood work came back with high red/white blood cell counts...the Hematologist came in and said they need to drain more fluid out then do another chest x-ray

He's been a smoker for so many years we're scared/nervous it might be cancer..they have to wait before running more tests

Thanks for any good vibes :|
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  • normnorm Posts: 31,146
    sending vibes your way
  • Drowned OutDrowned Out Posts: 6,056
    {{{{{VIBES}}}}}
  • tybirdtybird Posts: 17,388
    Lost my Grandmother to Lung Cancer....so, my good vibes are yours to use as you see fit.
    All the world will be your enemy, Prince with a thousand enemies, and whenever they catch you, they will kill you. But first they must catch you, digger, listener, runner, prince with the swift warning. Be cunning and full of tricks and your people shall never be destroyed.
  • decides2dreamdecides2dream Posts: 14,977
    definite (((((((((((good vibes)))))))))))))))
    here's hoping for the best!
    Stay with me...
    Let's just breathe...


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  • Phantom PainPhantom Pain Posts: 9,876
    Thanks guys

    still waiting on an update from this morning from my Mom at the hospital
    My drinking team has a hockey problem

    The ONLY thing better than a glass of beer is tea with Miss McGill



    A protuberance of flesh above the waistband of a tight pair of trousers
  • gooooooooood vibes your way!!!
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  • Cinnamon GirlCinnamon Girl Posts: 1,854
    done and done. Good vibes sent Express Post!

    I hope everything goes smoothly.
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  • small town becksmall town beck Posts: 6,691
    Good vibes your way, PP.
  • LizardLizard So Cal Posts: 12,091
    Good vibes sent~~~~~~~>>>

    A lady at work just had a scan done and she was sure it was cancer
    but it WASN'T so KEEP UP THE FAITH.
    So I'll just lie down and wait for the dream
    Where I'm not ugly and you're lookin' at me
  • WildsWilds Posts: 4,329
    G.V. to you and yours.
  • FifthelementFifthelement Lotusland Posts: 6,963
    (((((GOOD VIBES))))) to you, your dad and the rest of your family
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  • WobbieWobbie Posts: 30,512
    (((((( V-V-V-V-V-V-V-IBES ))))))

    Good luck!
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  • Phantom PainPhantom Pain Posts: 9,876
    I don't even know what to say

    They found out this morning

    Tumor on the right lung...spots on his left lung..spots on his liver and lymph nodes

    Thanks for the supports guys..I'm taking the day off to be there with my Step-Dad and Mom

    Everyone PLEASE STOP SMOKING
    My drinking team has a hockey problem

    The ONLY thing better than a glass of beer is tea with Miss McGill



    A protuberance of flesh above the waistband of a tight pair of trousers
  • decides2dreamdecides2dream Posts: 14,977
    I don't even know what to say

    They found out this morning

    Tumor on the right lung...spots on his left lung..spots on his liver and lymph nodes

    Thanks for the supports guys..I'm taking the day off to be there with my Step-Dad and Mom

    Everyone PLEASE STOP SMOKING



    :( :( :(
    i'm so sorry for your step-dad and your entire family. wish you all the best...



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  • small town becksmall town beck Posts: 6,691
    I don't even know what to say

    They found out this morning

    Tumor on the right lung...spots on his left lung..spots on his liver and lymph nodes

    Thanks for the supports guys..I'm taking the day off to be there with my Step-Dad and Mom

    Everyone PLEASE STOP SMOKING

    I am sorry to hear that. Take care, Phantom.
  • tybirdtybird Posts: 17,388
    I don't even know what to say

    They found out this morning

    Tumor on the right lung...spots on his left lung..spots on his liver and lymph nodes

    Thanks for the supports guys..I'm taking the day off to be there with my Step-Dad and Mom

    Everyone PLEASE STOP SMOKING
    Hate to hear it.....it was bittersweet that I always argued with my Grandmother in regards to the health effects of smoking.....I really hated being right. Make the most of your time. More Good vibes
    All the world will be your enemy, Prince with a thousand enemies, and whenever they catch you, they will kill you. But first they must catch you, digger, listener, runner, prince with the swift warning. Be cunning and full of tricks and your people shall never be destroyed.
  • Cinnamon GirlCinnamon Girl Posts: 1,854
    I'm so sorry :(

    You've got support here, if you need it.
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  • FifthelementFifthelement Lotusland Posts: 6,963
    (((((HUGS)))))

    I'm so sorry to hear this. My thoughts are with you and your family.
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  • Phantom PainPhantom Pain Posts: 9,876
    Thanks again everyone for the support I really appreciate it

    The Oncologist came in around 4:00pm and gave use some more news

    He said its Stage 4 cancer its into his bones and everything its incurable

    He said best case scenario without treatment 1yr prognosis or 3-5 yrs with treatment

    I'm still kind of numb my Mom is holding strong my Step sister is a mess..they brought my Step-Dad's mother to the hospital she's 88 yrs old so they had to wheel her in on a wheelchair

    He may choose to do the treatment at Fox Chase Cancer Center in Philly..they are pretty well known as one of the best places to go

    Kinda weird as soon as I left for the hospital this morning and turned on the radio PJ was on after that the whole ride to the hospital I listened to Avocado

    Everyone hug their loved ones and doggies for me
    My drinking team has a hockey problem

    The ONLY thing better than a glass of beer is tea with Miss McGill



    A protuberance of flesh above the waistband of a tight pair of trousers
  • LizardLizard So Cal Posts: 12,091
    I am truly sorry ....
    So I'll just lie down and wait for the dream
    Where I'm not ugly and you're lookin' at me
  • keeponrockinkeeponrockin Posts: 7,446
    Sending good vibes. Stay strong.
    Believe me, when I was growin up, I thought the worst thing you could turn out to be was normal, So I say freaks in the most complementary way. Here's a song by a fellow freak - E.V
  • normnorm Posts: 31,146
    Thanks again everyone for the support I really appreciate it

    The Oncologist came in around 4:00pm and gave use some more news

    He said its Stage 4 cancer its into his bones and everything its incurable

    He said best case scenario without treatment 1yr prognosis or 3-5 yrs with treatment

    I'm still kind of numb my Mom is holding strong my Step sister is a mess..they brought my Step-Dad's mother to the hospital she's 88 yrs old so they had to wheel her in on a wheelchair

    He may choose to do the treatment at Fox Chase Cancer Center in Philly..they are pretty well known as one of the best places to go

    Kinda weird as soon as I left for the hospital this morning and turned on the radio PJ was on after that the whole ride to the hospital I listened to Avocado

    Everyone hug their loved ones and doggies for me


    my mom was diagnosed stage 4 with a year to live

    that was 5 years ago this week and she's still going strong (albeit undergoing chemo for most of that time)

    once the shock wears off it's important to be positive and be strong for your mom and step dad

    hang in there
  • PearlOfAGirlPearlOfAGirl Posts: 15,993
    Sending Out (((((((((((((((((((( GOOD VIBES )))))))))))))))))))))))

    To you and your family....

    Wish you were here...

    ~RIP Dad
  • I don't even know what to say

    They found out this morning

    Tumor on the right lung...spots on his left lung..spots on his liver and lymph nodes

    Thanks for the supports guys..I'm taking the day off to be there with my Step-Dad and Mom

    Everyone PLEASE STOP SMOKING

    I'm so sorry Phantom :(

    I can't even begin to imagine how you feel. My thoughts are with you and your family.
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  • Phantom PainPhantom Pain Posts: 9,876
    Well...he was diagnosed last Wednesday and died Saturday

    We really cant believe how sudden everything has happened

    We have the viewing tomorrow and Funeral Saturday

    After the biopsy last Thursday he started with Pneumonia on Friday they put him on a ventilator and he was sedated...my Mom had signed the DNR on Thursday not thinking it would be needed so soon

    Eventually by Saturday night he couldnt hold on any longer...his blood pressure was slowly dropping until he finally passed away

    We're all in shock how fast it took him

    I can't thank everyone enough for the well wishes and sympathy you guys have shown

    If there's anything good that is coming out of his death it has brought my relationship back with my brother and my sister-in-law...weird how things work out
    My drinking team has a hockey problem

    The ONLY thing better than a glass of beer is tea with Miss McGill



    A protuberance of flesh above the waistband of a tight pair of trousers
  • normnorm Posts: 31,146
    wow...man i'm so sorry....hang in there
  • EnkiduEnkidu So Cal Posts: 2,996
    More hugs and prayers coming your way from California. I'm so sorry.
  • Cinnamon GirlCinnamon Girl Posts: 1,854
    omg.....too fast. I'm so so sorry. I just can't imagine.
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  • FifthelementFifthelement Lotusland Posts: 6,963
    I'm so sorry PP. My thoughts are with you and your family. ((((hugs))))
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  • Back_PedalBack_Pedal Posts: 1,171
    Here's hoping it's nothing big, and you're Step Father pulls through just fine!
    Thanks EPOTTSIII!
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    424, xxx
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