A serious question about Michael Jackson and Pete Townshend

goldrushgoldrush everybody knows this is nowhere Posts: 7,633
edited June 2009 in Other Music
There has been a lot of negative, bigoted rubbish written about Michael Jackson on these boards recently and I have a question for those of you who are responsible for judging him purely based on the controversies of his last years.

What if Pete Townshend died last week?

I'm not for one second accusing Pete of the kinds of things that MJ has been accused of but please consider this before you flame me. Michael Jackson was found innocent of the child abuse accusations that were leveled at him; Pete Townshend was cautioned by police in 2003 for accessing a website that allegedly advertised child pornography. Both men were effectively accused of a form of child abuse and both men were found to be not guilty.

Pete was not charged but was cautioned. The police said at the time, "After four months of investigation by officers from Scotland Yard's child protection group, it was established that Mr Townshend was not in possession of any downloaded child abuse images." Pete responded with, "I accept that I was wrong to access this site, and that by doing so, I broke the law, and I have accepted the caution that the police have given me." As a statutory consequence of accepting the caution, Townshend was entered on the Violent and Sex Offender Register for five years.

I have a very strong feeling that if, God forbid, it had been Pete that had died, there would be very few of you on here saying that the world would be a safer place for children without him. Both men were found not guilty, one of them admitted that he had broken the law (albeit in the name of research), and has been punished for his crime, the other will always be condemned by other people's prejudices.

I'd be really interested to hear your thoughts on this...
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  • mrveddersonmrvedderson Posts: 784
    i dont see michael as anything bad, just the king of pop, the lyrics to man in the mirror let u know how he feels
  • PearlJamaholicPearlJamaholic Posts: 2,019
    whether either guy did what ever, its very different to look at something and quite another to do what it is others watch. not that its ok either way, but they are different.

    also micheal has been accused of this weird stuff for a long time, it wasnt a once and done deal.
  • mrveddersonmrvedderson Posts: 784
    whether either guy did what ever, its very different to look at something and quite another to do what it is others watch. not that its ok either way, but they are different.

    also micheal has been accused of this weird stuff for a long time, it wasnt a once and done deal.


    michael was accused by people who in the end got large cash settlements
  • chromiamchromiam Posts: 4,114
    The difference.... Pete was never sued or brought up on charges... MJ has been sued and settled lawsuits multiple times relating to child abuse charges... I don't think you could possibly try to compare accessing websites to physically abusing children.
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  • goldrushgoldrush everybody knows this is nowhere Posts: 7,633
    The point I was trying to make was that both men were found innocent and yet people still talk about Michael as if he was guilty. Pete was cautioned which is more than Michael was. This isn't an anti-Pete post, I'm not particularly a fan of either's music, but I think that both of the alleged crimes are very serious and I don't see why there's such a glaring double standard in people's opinions.
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  • merkinballmerkinball Posts: 2,262
    Well, Pete never did an interview where he said he liked to sleep with young boys, and didn't see a problem with it. Michaels actions over the years sure made it appear a lot more likely/suspicious to the larger world.
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  • musicismylife78musicismylife78 Posts: 6,116
    I think its quite clear both are innocent. Both were and are victims of media bias and speculation, and of a police force that is trigger happy and willing to jump to conclusions as opposed to actually doing their job which is to catch bad guys.

    I will defend both these men.

    If their was evidence of either of them being abusers or pedophiles, then so be it. But lets face it, their isnt. There isnt one shred of evidence that MJ did a single thing to any of those kids. And same with Pete.

    Pete was researching for his book on his own abuse as a child.
  • musicismylife78musicismylife78 Posts: 6,116
    merkinball wrote:
    Well, Pete never did an interview where he said he liked to sleep with young boys, and didn't see a problem with it. Michaels actions over the years sure made it appear a lot more likely/suspicious to the larger world.

    Yep but there was no evidence beyond this interview. Its one thing to say someone sleeps in the same bed, and another thing to say something bad happened.

    There is no evidence at all that the sleepovers were anything other than just sleepovers.
  • PJGARDENPJGARDEN Posts: 1,484
    If their was evidence of either of them being abusers or pedophiles, then so be it. But lets face it, their isnt. There isnt one shred of evidence that MJ did a single thing to any of those kids. And same with Pete.

    If there was not one shred of evidence, MJ would have never been charged in a civil or crimminal case. He was never convicted and there is a huge difference. That's like saying there was no evidence against OJ.
  • musicismylife78musicismylife78 Posts: 6,116
    the mj allegations came out in 1993 PJ Garden. And the LAPD admitted they spent the next 12 or so years trying to get MJ. As I said, they tore Neverland apart. They searched everywhere. Its not like this was a half done search. They really investigated things. Probably the only time the LAPD ever really researched something.

    And they couldnt come up with anything. So it goes both ways PJ Garden. They brought it to trial, but there was NO EVIDENCE so he was innocent.

    Further, I am not aware of any evidence beyond the allegations, and I followed both cases pretty heavily. If you are going to say there is evidence of wrongdoing, go ahead, but you need to talk about what that is.

    The truth is, for both the 1993 and the 2005 accusations there was nothing beyond allegations. No evidence of any wrongdoing. Nothing whatsoever.

    And I dont think its right to charge someone with a crime without evidence of it.

    Even the things that were reported in the press as "damning" for MJ were actually non issues. The book of nude photos of little boys, wasnt some gross porno mag, it was given to him I cant remember either by a fan or by a friend. It was a art coffee table book. And the inscription inside the book proved this.

    As I said, there were famous people who had sleepovers with MJ. You dont think one of them would have also reported something happening, if the allegations were true.

    Corey Feldman, Wade Robson and Macauley Culkin, three famous people, all had sleepovers with him, and EVERY SINGLE ONE said nothing happened. If MJ was some sicko, why did these people say nothing happened?
  • merkinballmerkinball Posts: 2,262
    merkinball wrote:
    Well, Pete never did an interview where he said he liked to sleep with young boys, and didn't see a problem with it. Michaels actions over the years sure made it appear a lot more likely/suspicious to the larger world.

    Yep but there was no evidence beyond this interview. Its one thing to say someone sleeps in the same bed, and another thing to say something bad happened.

    There is no evidence at all that the sleepovers were anything other than just sleepovers.

    Yeah, but that's enough to tarnish him. I don't care if it's Michael Jackson or anyone else, if a 45 year old guy comes out and says that he likes to sleep with young boys that aren't related to him, I'm going to have concerns about it. Hell, if it was my neighbor I'd make sure that my son didn't go anywhere near him.

    I don't deny that some of these kids and their familes likely exagerrated the situation to get cash from him. But engaging in this behavior and then trying to defend it publically wasn't going to get him a lot of sympathy.
    "You're no help," he told the lime. This was unfair. It was only a lime; there was nothing special about it at all. It was doing the best it could.

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  • Kilgore_TroutKilgore_Trout Posts: 7,334
    if i might play devils advocate - MJ wasnt found not guilty, he settled out of court for a large sum of $ - which many people think suggests he was guilty and didnt want the trial to continue to sentencing... of course on the otherhand if he was guilty you would think the families of the kids would refuse the settlement and see the guy rot in jail... the fact that a kid could accurately describe MJ's penis is troubling to say the least but i dont think the prosecution had much else to go on beside that and some very odd behavior

    definitely NOT as black and white as the townshend case... not that either is right

    i just try to remember each of them for what they are known for in the first place - the MUSIC
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  • musicismylife78musicismylife78 Posts: 6,116
    the mj allegations came out in 1993 PJ Garden. And the LAPD admitted they spent the next 12 or so years trying to get MJ. As I said, they tore Neverland apart. They searched everywhere. Its not like this was a half done search. They really investigated things. Probably the only time the LAPD ever really researched something.

    And they couldnt come up with anything. So it goes both ways PJ Garden. They brought it to trial, but there was NO EVIDENCE so he was innocent.

    Further, I am not aware of any evidence beyond the allegations, and I followed both cases pretty heavily. If you are going to say there is evidence of wrongdoing, go ahead, but you need to talk about what that is.

    The truth is, for both the 1993 and the 2005 accusations there was nothing beyond allegations. No evidence of any wrongdoing. Nothing whatsoever.

    And I dont think its right to charge someone with a crime without evidence of it.

    Even the things that were reported in the press as "damning" for MJ were actually non issues. The book of nude photos of little boys, wasnt some gross porno mag, it was given to him I cant remember either by a fan or by a friend. It was a art coffee table book. And the inscription inside the book proved this.

    As I said, there were famous people who had sleepovers with MJ. You dont think one of them would have also reported something happening, if the allegations were true.

    Corey Feldman, Wade Robson and Macauley Culkin, three famous people, all had sleepovers with him, and EVERY SINGLE ONE said nothing happened. If MJ was some sicko, why did these people say nothing happened?


    There is also a precedent for child accusing people of abuse and it being coached lies. The whole satanic panic, where across the country in the 80's and 1990's you had tons of cases of people accusing others of satanic ritual abuse and all that. Very few of those ever panned out. There was that whole case of that preschool in NY, where the teachers there were accused of abuse, and that was all lies as well. And of course the WM3.

    testimony from children should be looked at with a skeptical eye, as all testimony should. Eye witness accounts of what happened during an incident are known to vary widely. In fact, research has shown that most of the time, when someone says "I saw that man doing this" in a court of law at least, that many times that testimony is either lies or mistaken.
  • musicismylife78musicismylife78 Posts: 6,116
    edited June 2009
    sgossard3 wrote:
    if i might play devils advocate - MJ wasnt found not guilty, he settled out of court for a large sum of $ - which many people think suggests he was guilty and didnt want the trial to continue to sentencing... of course on the otherhand if he was guilty you would think the families of the kids would refuse the settlement and see the guy rot in jail... the fact that a kid could accurately describe MJ's penis is troubling to say the least but i dont think the prosecution had much else to go on beside that and some very odd behavior

    definitely NOT as black and white as the townshend case... not that either is right

    i just try to remember each of them for what they are known for in the first place - the MUSIC


    Whats your take on the second accusers mother? If settling out of court is suspect, shouldnt her behavior be also suspect?

    I have posted the stuff about the mom six times now, and only one person has legitimately responded to it. I find it odd, people spouting off about how odd MJ was and this and that, yet refuse to even engage in talk about how odd and disturbing the accusers family is.

    The fact is, in the 2005 trial, the reason he was found innocent was two fold. There was absolutely no evidence of any wrong doing. None. As I said, if someone can tell me one shred of evidence beyond the allegations I would love to hear it. I followed both cases and I cant think of a single piece of evidence that suggests MJ was having anything beyond sleepovers.

    Your also talking about the first case. The second case he didnt settle out of court. he was found not guilty

    The prosecution had NOTHING to go on. Thats the whole point. They pursued the case aggressively. I would think if you are bringing a man to trial and accusing him of VERY serious things, you would have major evidence and examples of the things that MJ was accused of. They had nothing.

    And the thing is, why couldnt they find a single piece of evidence linking MJ to any of these allegations? Maybe because he was and is innocent?
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  • PJGARDENPJGARDEN Posts: 1,484
    merkinball wrote:
    merkinball wrote:
    Well, Pete never did an interview where he said he liked to sleep with young boys, and didn't see a problem with it. Michaels actions over the years sure made it appear a lot more likely/suspicious to the larger world.

    Yep but there was no evidence beyond this interview. Its one thing to say someone sleeps in the same bed, and another thing to say something bad happened.

    There is no evidence at all that the sleepovers were anything other than just sleepovers.

    Yeah, but that's enough to tarnish him. I don't care if it's Michael Jackson or anyone else, if a 45 year old guy comes out and says that he likes to sleep with young boys that aren't related to him, I'm going to have concerns about it. Hell, if it was my neighbor I'd make sure that my son didn't go anywhere near him.

    I don't deny that some of these kids and their familes likely exagerrated the situation to get cash from him. But engaging in this behavior and then trying to defend it publically wasn't going to get him a lot of sympathy.

    My thoughts exactly.

    My question to musicismylife78. If you had a young child, wouldn't you be concerned about letting them have a sleepover at a 45 year old man's house. You don't think there's something wrong with that? Say they were JUST sleepovers, there is still something twisted about it and no child of mine would go near him. If this was anyone other than MJ, you wouldn't be defending him like that. At least I hope not.
  • musicismylife78musicismylife78 Posts: 6,116
    Even though pete was proven innocent, the actions the police took in that case illustrate the point beautifully. Pete didnt do anything wrong. And the rest of his life, until the day he dies, there will always be people who are wary of him, and think he is a monster. Thats the power of the allegation.

    The LAPD didnt need a single piece of evidence. They tried him in the public and the public was willing to eat it up and believe every single lie the LAPD told.

    The thing with Pete was absurd from the start. He posted about the website thing even before the police closed in on him. He said he visited the site and that it was for his book. If you are visiting naughty sites like that, I highly doubt you are going to publicly talk about it for harmful purposes, I highly doubt you are going to talk about it publicly let alone post info about it on your widely read website.

    The Guardian, the UK paper did an expose on the case and suggested that, Pete admitted to going on the site, but that there was ample evidence that he confessed to a crime he was innocent of. There is evidence according to the paper that pete visited a website but that it wasnt porn.
  • musicismylife78musicismylife78 Posts: 6,116
    I would defend them if they went on trial and the police investigated things as thouroughly as they did with MJ.

    Again, the trial was all about investigating these things. Dont you think if there had been some smoking gun, or major evidence of abuse that that would of come out, and become the biggest story in the world?

    The sleepovers allegations can go both ways. As I said you have three celebrity, high profile folks, who said sleepovers happened and none of them said anything bad happened. That to me is major evidence that, maybe, just maybe, the allegations against MJ were completely and utterly false.

    If your gonna accuse someone of assault of a child, I think you need to have evidence. And if you look at the facts of the case, and the evidence, it becomes clear that there was never any wrongdoing by MJ.

    There were no incriminating photos, or dirty websites visited. There were no books about abuse, beyond the innocent art book I mentioned above. There were no videos. Nothing. There were no diary entries by MJ about incidents. Nothing.
  • musicismylife78musicismylife78 Posts: 6,116
    i think the question comes down to, reguardless of if its appropriate or not, can a 45 year old man have sleepovers with young boys and nothing bad happen. Sure there are pedophiles who do this and something horrible happens. There is no denying that.

    But MJ said he let Barry Gibbs of the BeeGees sleep with his kids, and I havent ever heard anyone say he is a pedophile. So I would assume, that indeed it can be innocent.

    Was MJ wise to broadcast to the world that he had sleepovers with young boys? Probably not, but that doesnt make him a pedophile.
  • PJGARDENPJGARDEN Posts: 1,484
    I would defend them if they went on trial and the police investigated things as thouroughly as they did with MJ.

    Again, the trial was all about investigating these things. Dont you think if there had been some smoking gun, or major evidence of abuse that that would of come out, and become the biggest story in the world?

    The sleepovers allegations can go both ways. As I said you have three celebrity, high profile folks, who said sleepovers happened and none of them said anything bad happened. That to me is major evidence that, maybe, just maybe, the allegations against MJ were completely and utterly false.

    If your gonna accuse someone of assault of a child, I think you need to have evidence. And if you look at the facts of the case, and the evidence, it becomes clear that there was never any wrongdoing by MJ.

    There were no incriminating photos, or dirty websites visited. There were no books about abuse, beyond the innocent art book I mentioned above. There were no videos. Nothing. There were no diary entries by MJ about incidents. Nothing.

    I agree that you need some evidence to accuse someone of something like that. But, to me, a middle aged man sleeping in the same bed as a child he doesn't know is enough evidence for me to say my kid would't go within 10 miles of him. And actually this makes me blame the parents as much as him. He obviously had issues plus the allegations....why would you let your child near him. I don't care if he has been convicted or not.

    I also wouldn't use the word of a celebrity as evidence. Maybe he didn't abuse every child, maybe they are lying, maybe he didn't abuse anyone. To me, the word of three people doesn't mean jack. If he was one of their heroes, they may just not want to accept that it ever happened. Many many children that are abused never say a word and it's never reported. It's just like women who never report being raped. Unfortunately it happens way too often.
  • musicismylife78musicismylife78 Posts: 6,116
    so are you gonna start calling the police to arrest Barry Gibbs because as I said he slept in the same bed with MJ's kids?


    Fair is fair. Hypocrisy doesnt fly in my book. If you believe all people who sleep with kids who arent their own are pedophiles or are suspect, thats fine, but the book doesnt begin and end with MJ.

    You gonna ask the police to haul in the Bee Gees?
  • musicismylife78musicismylife78 Posts: 6,116
    PJGARDEN wrote:
    I would defend them if they went on trial and the police investigated things as thouroughly as they did with MJ.

    Again, the trial was all about investigating these things. Dont you think if there had been some smoking gun, or major evidence of abuse that that would of come out, and become the biggest story in the world?

    The sleepovers allegations can go both ways. As I said you have three celebrity, high profile folks, who said sleepovers happened and none of them said anything bad happened. That to me is major evidence that, maybe, just maybe, the allegations against MJ were completely and utterly false.

    If your gonna accuse someone of assault of a child, I think you need to have evidence. And if you look at the facts of the case, and the evidence, it becomes clear that there was never any wrongdoing by MJ.

    There were no incriminating photos, or dirty websites visited. There were no books about abuse, beyond the innocent art book I mentioned above. There were no videos. Nothing. There were no diary entries by MJ about incidents. Nothing.

    I agree that you need some evidence to accuse someone of something like that. But, to me, a middle aged man sleeping in the same bed as a child he doesn't know is enough evidence for me to say my kid would't go within 10 miles of him. And actually this makes me blame the parents as much as him. He obviously had issues plus the allegations....why would you let your child near him. I don't care if he has been convicted or not.

    I also wouldn't use the word of a celebrity as evidence. Maybe he didn't abuse every child, maybe they are lying, maybe he didn't abuse anyone. To me, the word of three people doesn't mean jack. If he was one of their heroes, they may just not want to accept that it ever happened. Many many children that are abused never say a word and it's never reported. It's just like women who never report being raped. Unfortunately it happens way too often.


    So the word of people who said he didnt do anything is jack to you. But the word of kids who said he did do something is to be taken as fact?

    Either you accept all evidence from both sides, or you dont accept evidence from either side.

    The testimony of those three celebrities is just as important as anything.

    And didnt Jay Leno testify as well as George Lopez, under oath that this mother tried to get money from them too?
  • musicismylife78musicismylife78 Posts: 6,116
    PJGARDEN wrote:
    I would defend them if they went on trial and the police investigated things as thouroughly as they did with MJ.

    Again, the trial was all about investigating these things. Dont you think if there had been some smoking gun, or major evidence of abuse that that would of come out, and become the biggest story in the world?

    The sleepovers allegations can go both ways. As I said you have three celebrity, high profile folks, who said sleepovers happened and none of them said anything bad happened. That to me is major evidence that, maybe, just maybe, the allegations against MJ were completely and utterly false.

    If your gonna accuse someone of assault of a child, I think you need to have evidence. And if you look at the facts of the case, and the evidence, it becomes clear that there was never any wrongdoing by MJ.

    There were no incriminating photos, or dirty websites visited. There were no books about abuse, beyond the innocent art book I mentioned above. There were no videos. Nothing. There were no diary entries by MJ about incidents. Nothing.

    I agree that you need some evidence to accuse someone of something like that. But, to me, a middle aged man sleeping in the same bed as a child he doesn't know is enough evidence for me to say my kid would't go within 10 miles of him. And actually this makes me blame the parents as much as him. He obviously had issues plus the allegations....why would you let your child near him. I don't care if he has been convicted or not.

    I also wouldn't use the word of a celebrity as evidence. Maybe he didn't abuse every child, maybe they are lying, maybe he didn't abuse anyone. To me, the word of three people doesn't mean jack. If he was one of their heroes, they may just not want to accept that it ever happened. Many many children that are abused never say a word and it's never reported. It's just like women who never report being raped. Unfortunately it happens way too often.


    Your right people who are abused sometimes dont report it for years, decades even.

    But that doesnt mean we can accuse people of things without evidence. if someone is accused of a crime, there needs to evidence that they did something wrong.

    Thats my whole problem with the Scott Peterson thing. Did his actions amount to wierd, odd and sick behavior, sure. But there was never anything linking him to the crime beyond circumstantial evidence. In my book, there needs to be more than that to convict someone of a crime like murdering your pregnant wife.

    Otherwise we are sort of arresting people for thought crimes or future crimes or crimes they didnt commit and thats wrong.
  • musicismylife78musicismylife78 Posts: 6,116
    the testimony of those three celebrities is evidence that he didnt commit a crime. Thats why it was allowed in court. If they had admitted that he did something to them, wouldnt you say that it does indeed "mean jack to you"?

    People dont normally just out of the blue snap and become killers or molestors. Sure it happens, but it isnt likely. So to have three people who said nothing happened when they were in the exact same situation, means there is a pattern developing, and it isnt a pattern of abuse, but rather a pattern of sleepovers, innocent sleepovers
  • musicismylife78musicismylife78 Posts: 6,116
    you cant say michael is guilty merely based on the fact you think the three celebrities are lying or may not want to hurt their hero as you put it.

    Its not acceptable to say someone is guilty merely based on the fact you think people dont report abuse.
  • PJGARDENPJGARDEN Posts: 1,484
    So the word of people who said he didnt do anything is jack to you. But the word of kids who said he did do something is to be taken as fact?

    Either you accept all evidence from both sides, or you dont accept evidence from either side.

    The testimony of those three celebrities is just as important as anything.

    And didnt Jay Leno testify as well as George Lopez, under oath that this mother tried to get money from them too?

    Umm when it comes to protecting your child, yes the word of a few people doesn't mean jack to me. If there were allegations like that against anyone, my dog wouldn't go near them much less a child. And no when you are talking about children, you don't have to look at both sides of the case, you have to do what is safe for them. I'm not talking about whether he should have been convicted or not. My original question to you was would you let your kid go sleep in the same bed with him. I guess you have answered my question and that's a little scary.

    Again, I never said he was guilty or he should or shouldn't have been convicted. I said my kid wouldn't go near him and I would think that a decent parent would have the same perspective. You don't gamble when it comes to children.
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