What is wrong with kids/parents these days?
purple_chick79
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So, check this out.
My boyfriends daughter is going to a birthday party of a boy that is in her little group of friends. She was gonna sleep over her friends house, a girl who is like boyfriend/girlfriend with this boy.
So, she (daughter) get off the phone with the girl and says that she isn't sleeping over because that girl wants to sleep over the boys house! So, I'm in shock and I say "her parents will allow that" and she says "I guess so".
These kids are only 11-12 years old!!!!!!!!!! What in the FUCK!!! I would never even dream of it when I was that age. My boyfriend would NEVER allow that.
And this girl is a girl that she spends a lot of time with. Oh my god.
Am I just being old fashioned? Is this normal these days?
My boyfriends daughter is going to a birthday party of a boy that is in her little group of friends. She was gonna sleep over her friends house, a girl who is like boyfriend/girlfriend with this boy.
So, she (daughter) get off the phone with the girl and says that she isn't sleeping over because that girl wants to sleep over the boys house! So, I'm in shock and I say "her parents will allow that" and she says "I guess so".
These kids are only 11-12 years old!!!!!!!!!! What in the FUCK!!! I would never even dream of it when I was that age. My boyfriend would NEVER allow that.
And this girl is a girl that she spends a lot of time with. Oh my god.
Am I just being old fashioned? Is this normal these days?
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10/27/06
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10/27/06
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That said, 11-year-old girls do not need to be attending co-ed sleepovers. No way. Uh-uh.
for the least they could possibly do
No, you're not being old fashion. You're being a good parent.
Probably on line bulletin boards too. :shock:
It's AL about the *Me Myself and I* generation that they have a sense of entitlement.
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.....song_Music & Politics....Michael Franti
*The scientists of today think deeply instead of clearly. One must be sane to think clearly, but one can think deeply and be quite INSANE*....Nikola Tesla(a man who shaped our world of electricity with his futuristic inventions)
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He said there is NO WAY IN HELL she would be sleeping at a boys house.
Kids these days have some balls to ask these kinds of things. You should hear the shit that come out of her mouth. I've had to set her straight and let her know she doesn't run the show, we do. My boyfriend is so passive at times, most of the time, that he let's things just blow right by him.
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10/27/06
The sleeping over takes second place over 'a girl who is like boyfriend/girlfriend with this boy'. At 11-12? THAT is shocking. How can parents allow this type of 'relationship' at that age? Though I assume all is platonic to a point, you just do not have a boyfriend/girlfriend thing going on at 11-12.
really? that seems to be about the normal age for that stuff to actually start. i mean, i remember i had my first girlfriend when i was in 4th grade, so i was like 9 or 10 years old. of course, this was before i realized what it meant to have that sort of relationship, but it wasn't like i was the only one in my class doing the same. it's just the normal progression of things. by the time i was 12 i went on "dates" to movies and things, which my parents drove me to. it's an important part of growing up and if it happens later in life it seems that you are behind the curve. i dunno. that's my viewpoint at least.
That's going a bit far I think. No sleepovers doesn't make you old school. Sleepovers were a blast when I was a kid.
Now co-ed sleepovers... I can agree that's too far.
So.......you're trying to tell me that there is something wrong with me?? I didn't have a date until I was a junior in high school. So I was like 17 or so.
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But a mother allowing her 11-12 year old to a SLEEPOVER at her 'boyfriend's' house... that's pushing it (and the other mother allowing the girl to sleepover is just as bad).
He also says a women is alot like a refrigerator.
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Reading these stories of the 11 and 12 year old girls makes me thankful after playing GI Joe my buddy didn't ask me to play hide the sausage
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When I was 11 and 12 thats when I remember my hormones raging towards girl
I think 6th grade was my first kiss with tongue action
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As an adult, I told my lifelong friend about the 11 year old's advances and she thought nothing of it! She knew her but probably could not remember her. She made a remark that we all tried that at that age. Ahem...no, not all of us did.
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10/10 - Brad in B'more
i agree that's pushing it. but the you said that the real issue was with the relationship aspect at such a young age (unless i misunderstood the post). that's why i was talking about that.