Should I ask Agnes out on a date?
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YesI have not been in this thread in a long time.Anyways, I'm getting so sick and tired of every girl I get really interested in ending up in a relationship.I met a girl in my university cohort tonight after a careers seminar for undergraduates. We ended up walking from university to the train station and I asked if I could add her on Facebook. She said yes and we got connected and have been chatting online. I looked at her profile and she's in a relationship. I hate that feeling.Was so happy when I got home with the seminar being so helpful for me and finding out my best friend and his long term partner got engaged. And I thought this very friendly, good looking, talkative, girl with a cheeky sense of humour was someone I might have a chance with. Now I feel so disappointed and embarrassed. I even told my best friend I met a girl and would tell him more tomorrow as he had to go to bed.Adelaide 17/11/2009, Melbourne 20/11/2009, Sydney 22/11/2009, Melbourne (Big Day Out Festival) 24/01/20140
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YesSea. Fish. Plenty.I SAW PEARL JAM0
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Yesdankind said:Sea. Fish. Plenty.Happens all the time and has been for 15 years now. Feeling flat right now.She probably knows I'm interested because I asked if I could add her on Facebook. Embarrassing.Adelaide 17/11/2009, Melbourne 20/11/2009, Sydney 22/11/2009, Melbourne (Big Day Out Festival) 24/01/20140
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NoThoughts_Arrive said:I have not been in this thread in a long time.Anyways, I'm getting so sick and tired of every girl I get really interested in ending up in a relationship.I met a girl in my university cohort tonight after a careers seminar for undergraduates. We ended up walking from university to the train station and I asked if I could add her on Facebook. She said yes and we got connected and have been chatting online. I looked at her profile and she's in a relationship. I hate that feeling.Was so happy when I got home with the seminar being so helpful for me and finding out my best friend and his long term partner got engaged. And I thought this very friendly, good looking, talkative, girl with a cheeky sense of humour was someone I might have a chance with. Now I feel so disappointed and embarrassed. I even told my best friend I met a girl and would tell him more tomorrow as he had to go to bed.0
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Yes^^^What she said.Thoughts_Arrive said:dankind said:Sea. Fish. Plenty.Happens all the time and has been for 15 years now. Feeling flat right now.She probably knows I'm interested because I asked if I could add her on Facebook. Embarrassing.I SAW PEARL JAM0
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YesOffSheGoes35 said:Thoughts_Arrive said:I have not been in this thread in a long time.Anyways, I'm getting so sick and tired of every girl I get really interested in ending up in a relationship.I met a girl in my university cohort tonight after a careers seminar for undergraduates. We ended up walking from university to the train station and I asked if I could add her on Facebook. She said yes and we got connected and have been chatting online. I looked at her profile and she's in a relationship. I hate that feeling.Was so happy when I got home with the seminar being so helpful for me and finding out my best friend and his long term partner got engaged. And I thought this very friendly, good looking, talkative, girl with a cheeky sense of humour was someone I might have a chance with. Now I feel so disappointed and embarrassed. I even told my best friend I met a girl and would tell him more tomorrow as he had to go to bed.That'd require her to break up with her boyfriend and I wouldn't wish that.You made a good point.I always think of friend zones as bad.Adelaide 17/11/2009, Melbourne 20/11/2009, Sydney 22/11/2009, Melbourne (Big Day Out Festival) 24/01/20140
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Yesdankind said:^^^What she said.Thoughts_Arrive said:dankind said:Sea. Fish. Plenty.Happens all the time and has been for 15 years now. Feeling flat right now.She probably knows I'm interested because I asked if I could add her on Facebook. Embarrassing.
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YesThoughts_Arrive said:dankind said:^^^What she said.Thoughts_Arrive said:dankind said:Sea. Fish. Plenty.Happens all the time and has been for 15 years now. Feeling flat right now.She probably knows I'm interested because I asked if I could add her on Facebook. Embarrassing.I SAW PEARL JAM0
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NoSo, is it not okay to talk with someone if you are single and the other person has a boyfriend/girlfriend? Does that equal trying to steal them away?0
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Thoughts_Arrive said:dankind said:Sea. Fish. Plenty.Happens all the time and has been for 15 years now. Feeling flat right now.She probably knows I'm interested because I asked if I could add her on Facebook. Embarrassing.
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NoOffSheGoes35 said:So, is it not okay to talk with someone if you are single and the other person has a boyfriend/girlfriend? Does that equal trying to steal them away?0
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YesOffSheGoes35 said:So, is it not okay to talk with someone if you are single and the other person has a boyfriend/girlfriend? Does that equal trying to steal them away?Nah that's not what I meant.I speak to many girls with boyfriends at university. I meant hoping to be in a relationship with her would also mean her having to break up with her boyfriend.On another note, I met a current honours student at this seminar who I got to talk to. She revealed she's on antidepressants and that got me to do the same. We seemed to have a good time chatting and I am interested. Found her on Facebook and Instagram. She said I could add her on Researchgate or LinkedIn. I wonder if she would mind on social media? She appears to be single.Adelaide 17/11/2009, Melbourne 20/11/2009, Sydney 22/11/2009, Melbourne (Big Day Out Festival) 24/01/20140
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YesJPPJ84 said:Thoughts_Arrive said:dankind said:Sea. Fish. Plenty.Happens all the time and has been for 15 years now. Feeling flat right now.She probably knows I'm interested because I asked if I could add her on Facebook. Embarrassing.
You take care of yourself first and the rest will come along eventually.
Adelaide 17/11/2009, Melbourne 20/11/2009, Sydney 22/11/2009, Melbourne (Big Day Out Festival) 24/01/20140 -
NoThoughts_Arrive said:OffSheGoes35 said:So, is it not okay to talk with someone if you are single and the other person has a boyfriend/girlfriend? Does that equal trying to steal them away?Nah that's not what I meant.I speak to many girls with boyfriends at university. I meant hoping to be in a relationship with her would also mean her having to break up with her boyfriend.On another note, I met a current honours student at this seminar who I got to talk to. She revealed she's on antidepressants and that got me to do the same. We seemed to have a good time chatting and I am interested. Found her on Facebook and Instagram. She said I could add her on Researchgate or LinkedIn. I wonder if she would mind on social media? She appears to be single.
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YesThoughts_Arrive said:OffSheGoes35 said:So, is it not okay to talk with someone if you are single and the other person has a boyfriend/girlfriend? Does that equal trying to steal them away?Nah that's not what I meant.I speak to many girls with boyfriends at university. I meant hoping to be in a relationship with her would also mean her having to break up with her boyfriend.On another note, I met a current honours student at this seminar who I got to talk to. She revealed she's on antidepressants and that got me to do the same. We seemed to have a good time chatting and I am interested. Found her on Facebook and Instagram. She said I could add her on Researchgate or LinkedIn. I wonder if she would mind on social media? She appears to be single.0
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YesOffSheGoes35 said:OffSheGoes35 said:So, is it not okay to talk with someone if you are single and the other person has a boyfriend/girlfriend? Does that equal trying to steal them away?I SAW PEARL JAM0
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YesOffSheGoes35 said:Thoughts_Arrive said:OffSheGoes35 said:So, is it not okay to talk with someone if you are single and the other person has a boyfriend/girlfriend? Does that equal trying to steal them away?Nah that's not what I meant.I speak to many girls with boyfriends at university. I meant hoping to be in a relationship with her would also mean her having to break up with her boyfriend.On another note, I met a current honours student at this seminar who I got to talk to. She revealed she's on antidepressants and that got me to do the same. We seemed to have a good time chatting and I am interested. Found her on Facebook and Instagram. She said I could add her on Researchgate or LinkedIn. I wonder if she would mind on social media? She appears to be single.She and her boyfriend seem very much in love judging by the photos. Probably appear more interested because I spent more time with the one with a boyfriend.The other one is 1 year older than me whereas the first one mentioned is way younger. 21! I'm 35.Adelaide 17/11/2009, Melbourne 20/11/2009, Sydney 22/11/2009, Melbourne (Big Day Out Festival) 24/01/20140
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