Need advice on property dispute.

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  • Gern Blansten
    Gern Blansten Mar-A-Lago Posts: 22,192
    Hi! said:
    PJPOWER said:
    Hi! said:
    Had a phone consultation. We’re joint tenets or whatever, need to file partition suit to force a sale. First she gets served the papers, 
    then it goes to mediation. If that doesn’t work we go in front of judge, forced sale, everything split 50/50. 
    So basically time and money. 
    Hoping to get this resolved before PJs next tour.🙏🏻

    Yuck, you will be hearing the words “fair market value” a lot in the near future :(. My parents recently went through this process over some land.  In the end, they just ended up buying the property outright.  The sucky part is that if it is sold at “fair market value”, you both will most likely get quite a bit less in the end than if it were sold through a realtor...and if I’m not mistaken, it could even be put up for auction if there are no up front buyers that you can agree on.  Property grievances are so frustrating :(
    We got the house on the cheap and will have no problems selling at fair market value. We will both walk away with a nice chunk of change. I am worried about a downturn in the market if it takes awhile. I feel like prices have probably peaked and it would be nice to sell sooner than later but I live is highly desirable area so would still see some profit.
     
    Are you still communicating?  I would reach out and try to convince her as to what the inevitable path is and that if she plays ball it will mean more money in her pocket.  She will save attorney fees and potentially the cost of a market downturn if she works with you.

    If she doesn't want to do that the mediation will make it happen.  Her attorney is likely telling her that it is in her best interest also.

    Unfortunately you just have to wait on the process.  Good luck!
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  • ed243421
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  • Hi!
    Hi! Posts: 3,095
    Its a go. I offered her a nice amount of my half of sale in order to get this going.
    Bittersweet, it’s still gonna hurt like hell.
    Thanks y’all. ✌️

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  • Gern Blansten
    Gern Blansten Mar-A-Lago Posts: 22,192
    Hi! said:
    Its a go. I offered her a nice amount of my half of sale in order to get this going.
    Bittersweet, it’s still gonna hurt like hell.
    Thanks y’all. ✌️
    good deal...glad she was reasonable about it
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  • stuckinline
    stuckinline Posts: 3,406
    Hi! said:
    Its a go. I offered her a nice amount of my half of sale in order to get this going.
    Bittersweet, it’s still gonna hurt like hell.
    Thanks y’all. ✌️
    Glad to hear!
    But please document that she accepted your offer. Ideally, put something in writing and ask her to sign and date acceptance of your offer.
    Good luck!
  • cincybearcat
    cincybearcat Posts: 16,836
    stuckinline said:
    Hi! said:
    Its a go. I offered her a nice amount of my half of sale in order to get this going.
    Bittersweet, it’s still gonna hurt like hell.
    Thanks y’all. ✌️
    Glad to hear!
    But please document that she accepted your offer. Ideally, put something in writing and ask her to sign and date acceptance of your offer.
    Good luck!
    Not ideally, you have to get it in writing and both sign it. 
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  • Hi!
    Hi! Posts: 3,095
    We discussed that we are just going to meet with realtor and set it up that we each get 50/50 +- what I offered. That’s our plan anyway, should be sufficient, I hope.

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  • PJPOWER
    PJPOWER Posts: 6,499
    Hi! said:
    We discussed that we are just going to meet with realtor and set it up that we each get 50/50 +- what I offered. That’s our plan anyway, should be sufficient, I hope.
    Great news!
  • dankind
    dankind Posts: 20,841
    ed243421 said:
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  • Jason P
    Jason P Posts: 19,306
    hopefully she doesn't go this route ...


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