Should I ask Agnes out on a date?

Hey OffSheGoes!  

Well, I just ignored it. 
He called me after I did not go to this BBQ. He said he knows why I didn't go and that he needed to talk to me urgently. I just said "please do not" and hung up. Haven't heard from him since. I think our connection is ruined now.
But let's see what happens next week. He has invited us all to a BBQ at his home. I will probably feel very uncomfortable, but I will still give our friendship a chance.
Another friend is about to divorce and is totally devastated. That should be daunting enough...
Somehow the old friendships are still very important. They have always been, although some of us have not seen each other often over the years. I just love these guys.  
I have always had very close relationships with male friends. Unfortunately, some of these friendships have failed because the men suddenly hoped for a different relationship.

I guess I just do not want to accept that it could be the same way with him. This long time friendship is just too important to me to lose it. I want to keep it for a life time. 
So I think I have to ignore and pretend that nothing has happened. Hope it works out.


It was funny to read some stuff from this thread again. A lot of stuff I even didn't read before. Some stuff I never will understand… ... and this hilarious video from JP from Hamburg somewhere on a 90+ page which I can't find back again... lol

Hope everybody had a great time lately!

@ S_C: I saw you at Eddie's gig in Berlin. Unfortunately you were already too far away otherwise I would have said hello quickly.
What a great show it was!

PEACE!