Incels? WTF

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  • PJ_Soul
    PJ_Soul Vancouver, BC Posts: 50,759
    edited November 2018
    rgambs said:
    DarthMaeglin said:
    josevolution said:
    I find Sex to be the most over rated function of being a human , i've had plenty of it ...
    I’ve had it and not had it for stretches at various points, and I agree, while fun, too much emphasis is placed on the physical act. Human connections are far more fulfilling, I’ve found.

    And sometimes good ol’ Lefty does a better job than a partner, lol.
    It isn't an either/or scenario though, it's that plus physical bliss at the second time.
    Some people just have higher sex drives than others man. It's simply not the same kind of experience for everyone, even when they are all "doing it right" or doing it with the "right" person. And hell, something like 50% of men over 40 have some form/degree of erectile dysfunction, so that definitely changes the game. And for many women, emotions are way more wrapped up in the act of sex than it is for men, so there is a lot more variance in sexual experiences for women for that reason too.
    And then some other people are just all, "SEX! YAAY!", no matter what.

    As far as incels go.... well they're not getting any by definition (unless they're rapists I guess), so their attitudes are way more about feelings of inferiority, social disconnection, extreme entitlement, and sexism and misogyny than they are about the pleasure of sex.
    Post edited by PJ_Soul on
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  • HughFreakingDillon
    HughFreakingDillon Winnipeg Posts: 39,758
    rgambs said:
    You guys are insane, sex is the most enjoyable thing we do in our lives.
    If not, you aren't doing it right, or with the right person.
    It's every good feeling rolled together emotionally and physically.
    WTF else do you do that consumes every aspect of your attention and delivers such pleasure that you are rendered incapable of even having complex thought, or expressing even the most simple one???


    Lefty??? What the fuck kind of fucking are y'all doing?? 
    Never had any straight up Vulcan Mind Meld Sex??
    for some, you just described hearing Release at a  PJ show. 
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  • rhanishane
    rhanishane NSW Australia Posts: 505
    PJ_Soul said:
    rgambs said:
    DarthMaeglin said:
    josevolution said:
    I find Sex to be the most over rated function of being a human , i've had plenty of it ...
    I’ve had it and not had it for stretches at various points, and I agree, while fun, too much emphasis is placed on the physical act. Human connections are far more fulfilling, I’ve found.

    And sometimes good ol’ Lefty does a better job than a partner, lol.
    It isn't an either/or scenario though, it's that plus physical bliss at the second time.
    Some people just have higher sex drives than others man. It's simply not the same kind of experience for everyone, even when they are all "doing it right" or doing it with the "right" person. And hell, something like 50% of men over 40 have some form/degree of erectile dysfunction, so that definitely changes the game. And for many women, emotions are way more wrapped up in the act of sex than it is for men, so there is a lot more variance in sexual experiences for women for that reason too.
    And then some other people are just all, "SEX! YAAY!", no matter what.

    As far as incels go.... well they're not getting any by definition (unless they're rapists I guess), so their attitudes are way more about feelings of inferiority, social disconnection, extreme entitlement, and sexism and misogyny than they are about the pleasure of sex.
    👍
  • rhanishane
    rhanishane NSW Australia Posts: 505
    HughFreakingDillon said:
    rgambs said:
    You guys are insane, sex is the most enjoyable thing we do in our lives.
    If not, you aren't doing it right, or with the right person.
    It's every good feeling rolled together emotionally and physically.
    WTF else do you do that consumes every aspect of your attention and delivers such pleasure that you are rendered incapable of even having complex thought, or expressing even the most simple one???


    Lefty??? What the fuck kind of fucking are y'all doing?? 
    Never had any straight up Vulcan Mind Meld Sex??
    for some, you just described hearing Release at a  PJ show. 
    😂
  • Thoughts_Arrive
    Thoughts_Arrive Melbourne, Australia Posts: 15,165
    I am an incel. 
    Adelaide 17/11/2009, Melbourne 20/11/2009, Sydney 22/11/2009, Melbourne (Big Day Out Festival) 24/01/2014
  • PJ_Soul
    PJ_Soul Vancouver, BC Posts: 50,759
    edited November 2018
    Thoughts_Arrive said:
    I am an incel. 
    Ummmmm.... do you know what an incel really is?? Don't just interpret the word literally - there is serious meaning that comes with that label. If you're really an incel, that would probably make you enemy #1 here. It's an incredibly offensive thing to be.
    With all its sham, drudgery, and broken dreams, it is still a beautiful world. Be careful. Strive to be happy. ~ Desiderata
  • Thoughts_Arrive
    Thoughts_Arrive Melbourne, Australia Posts: 15,165
    PJ_Soul said:
    Thoughts_Arrive said:
    I am an incel. 
    Ummmmm.... do you know what an incel really is?? Don't just interpret the word literally - there is serious meaning that comes with that label. If you're really an incel, that would probably make you enemy #1 here. It's an incredibly offensive thing to be.
    I am an incel without the hatred towards women. I may as well be a priest.
    Adelaide 17/11/2009, Melbourne 20/11/2009, Sydney 22/11/2009, Melbourne (Big Day Out Festival) 24/01/2014
  • PJ_Soul
    PJ_Soul Vancouver, BC Posts: 50,759
    edited November 2018
    Thoughts_Arrive said:
    PJ_Soul said:
    Thoughts_Arrive said:
    I am an incel. 
    Ummmmm.... do you know what an incel really is?? Don't just interpret the word literally - there is serious meaning that comes with that label. If you're really an incel, that would probably make you enemy #1 here. It's an incredibly offensive thing to be.
    I am an incel without the hatred towards women. I may as well be a priest.
    Then you're not an incel. Stop saying it. Those woman haters are the ones who coined the term. It's like saying you're KKK but not racist. 

    Post edited by PJ_Soul on
    With all its sham, drudgery, and broken dreams, it is still a beautiful world. Be careful. Strive to be happy. ~ Desiderata
  • Thoughts_Arrive
    Thoughts_Arrive Melbourne, Australia Posts: 15,165
    PJ_Soul said:
    Thoughts_Arrive said:
    PJ_Soul said:
    Thoughts_Arrive said:
    I am an incel. 
    Ummmmm.... do you know what an incel really is?? Don't just interpret the word literally - there is serious meaning that comes with that label. If you're really an incel, that would probably make you enemy #1 here. It's an incredibly offensive thing to be.
    I am an incel without the hatred towards women. I may as well be a priest.
    Then you're not an incel. Stop saying it. Those woman haters are the ones who coined the term. It's like saying you're KKK but not racist. 

    It makes me feel like one being a single virgin at 34 who scares women away.
    Adelaide 17/11/2009, Melbourne 20/11/2009, Sydney 22/11/2009, Melbourne (Big Day Out Festival) 24/01/2014
  • PJ_Soul
    PJ_Soul Vancouver, BC Posts: 50,759
    Thoughts_Arrive said:
    PJ_Soul said:
    Thoughts_Arrive said:
    PJ_Soul said:
    Thoughts_Arrive said:
    I am an incel. 
    Ummmmm.... do you know what an incel really is?? Don't just interpret the word literally - there is serious meaning that comes with that label. If you're really an incel, that would probably make you enemy #1 here. It's an incredibly offensive thing to be.
    I am an incel without the hatred towards women. I may as well be a priest.
    Then you're not an incel. Stop saying it. Those woman haters are the ones who coined the term. It's like saying you're KKK but not racist. 

    It makes me feel like one being a single virgin at 34 who scares women away.
    I am disturbed that you keep insisting on relating to incels. I just have to hope that it's because you don't understand the implications of the comment.
    With all its sham, drudgery, and broken dreams, it is still a beautiful world. Be careful. Strive to be happy. ~ Desiderata
  • Thoughts_Arrive
    Thoughts_Arrive Melbourne, Australia Posts: 15,165
    PJ_Soul said:
    Thoughts_Arrive said:
    PJ_Soul said:
    Thoughts_Arrive said:
    PJ_Soul said:
    Thoughts_Arrive said:
    I am an incel. 
    Ummmmm.... do you know what an incel really is?? Don't just interpret the word literally - there is serious meaning that comes with that label. If you're really an incel, that would probably make you enemy #1 here. It's an incredibly offensive thing to be.
    I am an incel without the hatred towards women. I may as well be a priest.
    Then you're not an incel. Stop saying it. Those woman haters are the ones who coined the term. It's like saying you're KKK but not racist. 

    It makes me feel like one being a single virgin at 34 who scares women away.
    I am disturbed that you keep insisting on relating to incels. I just have to hope that it's because you don't understand the implications of the comment.
    What are the implications? I said my situations makes me feel like I am one not that I am one.
    I am very respectful towards women.
    Adelaide 17/11/2009, Melbourne 20/11/2009, Sydney 22/11/2009, Melbourne (Big Day Out Festival) 24/01/2014
  • mickeyrat
    mickeyrat Posts: 44,748
    Thoughts_Arrive said:
    PJ_Soul said:
    Thoughts_Arrive said:
    PJ_Soul said:
    Thoughts_Arrive said:
    PJ_Soul said:
    Thoughts_Arrive said:
    I am an incel. 
    Ummmmm.... do you know what an incel really is?? Don't just interpret the word literally - there is serious meaning that comes with that label. If you're really an incel, that would probably make you enemy #1 here. It's an incredibly offensive thing to be.
    I am an incel without the hatred towards women. I may as well be a priest.
    Then you're not an incel. Stop saying it. Those woman haters are the ones who coined the term. It's like saying you're KKK but not racist. 

    It makes me feel like one being a single virgin at 34 who scares women away.
    I am disturbed that you keep insisting on relating to incels. I just have to hope that it's because you don't understand the implications of the comment.
    What are the implications? I said my situations makes me feel like I am one not that I am one.
    I am very respectful towards women.
    but you made a declarative statement  as fact.
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  • Thoughts_Arrive
    Thoughts_Arrive Melbourne, Australia Posts: 15,165
    I am a Jedi, like my father before me.
    Another declarative statement.
    Adelaide 17/11/2009, Melbourne 20/11/2009, Sydney 22/11/2009, Melbourne (Big Day Out Festival) 24/01/2014
  • Thoughts_Arrive
    Thoughts_Arrive Melbourne, Australia Posts: 15,165
    I am a non violent, respectful, feminist incel. 
    Adelaide 17/11/2009, Melbourne 20/11/2009, Sydney 22/11/2009, Melbourne (Big Day Out Festival) 24/01/2014
  • mickeyrat
    mickeyrat Posts: 44,748
    have fun....
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    you're finally here and I'm a mess................................................... nationwide arena columbus '10
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    another man ..... moved by sleight of hand...................................... joe louis arena detroit '14
  • Thoughts_Arrive
    Thoughts_Arrive Melbourne, Australia Posts: 15,165
    mickeyrat said:
    have fun....
    Fun with what?
    Adelaide 17/11/2009, Melbourne 20/11/2009, Sydney 22/11/2009, Melbourne (Big Day Out Festival) 24/01/2014
  • 1ThoughtKnown
    1ThoughtKnown Posts: 6,155
    edited November 2018
    In all fairness to Thoughts_Arrive, the “incel” movement was originally created with the best of intentions. Unfortunately it was overtaken by the extremist, fringe element.  Have a look for more info here:
    https://www.google.ca/amp/s/www.bbc.com/news/amp/world-us-canada-45284455

    You seem like a nice person Thoughts_Arrive and you might not understand how this has devolved. 
    As long as you maintain a sense of humour in life, everything you want (peace and love!)  will come to you my fellow Jammer! 
    Post edited by 1ThoughtKnown on
  • Thoughts_Arrive
    Thoughts_Arrive Melbourne, Australia Posts: 15,165
    1ThoughtKnown said:
    In all fairness to Thoughts_Arrive, the “incel” movement was originally created with the best of intentions. Unfortunately it was overtaken by the extremist, fringe element.  Have a look for more info here:
    https://www.google.ca/amp/s/www.bbc.com/news/amp/world-us-canada-45284455

    You seem like a nice person Thoughts_Arrive and you might not understand how this has devolved. 
    As long as you maintain a sense of humour in life, everything you want (peace and love!)  will come to you my fellow Jammer! 
    Interesting article.
    I learned it was founded by a woman which astounded me.
    I can't believe people got all upset about me saying I am an incel, as the woman who founded the group dubbed it.
    Thank you for the kind words.

    Adelaide 17/11/2009, Melbourne 20/11/2009, Sydney 22/11/2009, Melbourne (Big Day Out Festival) 24/01/2014
  • 1ThoughtKnown
    1ThoughtKnown Posts: 6,155
    Thoughts_Arrive said:
    1ThoughtKnown said:
    In all fairness to Thoughts_Arrive, the “incel” movement was originally created with the best of intentions. Unfortunately it was overtaken by the extremist, fringe element.  Have a look for more info here:
    https://www.google.ca/amp/s/www.bbc.com/news/amp/world-us-canada-45284455

    You seem like a nice person Thoughts_Arrive and you might not understand how this has devolved. 
    As long as you maintain a sense of humour in life, everything you want (peace and love!)  will come to you my fellow Jammer! 
    Interesting article.
    I learned it was founded by a woman which astounded me.
    I can't believe people got all upset about me saying I am an incel, as the woman who founded the group dubbed it.
    Thank you for the kind words.

    So much in life begins with good intentions... unfortunately the fringe element can usurp a term/belief and then it comes with all sorts of negative connotations.    
    My grandfather gave me the best advice when I was younger... chase your dreams not women. When you chase your dreams the women will come.  When I actually grew up and took his advice.... well of course he was right haha
  • Thoughts_Arrive
    Thoughts_Arrive Melbourne, Australia Posts: 15,165
    1ThoughtKnown said:
    Thoughts_Arrive said:
    1ThoughtKnown said:
    In all fairness to Thoughts_Arrive, the “incel” movement was originally created with the best of intentions. Unfortunately it was overtaken by the extremist, fringe element.  Have a look for more info here:
    https://www.google.ca/amp/s/www.bbc.com/news/amp/world-us-canada-45284455

    You seem like a nice person Thoughts_Arrive and you might not understand how this has devolved. 
    As long as you maintain a sense of humour in life, everything you want (peace and love!)  will come to you my fellow Jammer! 
    Interesting article.
    I learned it was founded by a woman which astounded me.
    I can't believe people got all upset about me saying I am an incel, as the woman who founded the group dubbed it.
    Thank you for the kind words.

    So much in life begins with good intentions... unfortunately the fringe element can usurp a term/belief and then it comes with all sorts of negative connotations.    
    My grandfather gave me the best advice when I was younger... chase your dreams not women. When you chase your dreams the women will come.  When I actually grew up and took his advice.... well of course he was right haha
    Interesting advice. I don't even know what my dream is sadly. Is it academia? Is it art? Is it music?
    Adelaide 17/11/2009, Melbourne 20/11/2009, Sydney 22/11/2009, Melbourne (Big Day Out Festival) 24/01/2014

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