How you feeling right now???

Thoughts_Arrive · January 2018

kce8 said:

Thoughts_Arrive said:

Pretty down.
My mum just told me that I am never going to get married and said that 'who'd want me?'.

Please, don't listen to her. I am shocked to read this! Sent your mum greetings and tell her that she has to stop that!
I mean, for how long is she telling you stuff like that? For me that sounds like she is guilty of causing the problem! She needs to realise that.
Stop thinking that way. And listen to these advices from people here and go out. Find things you like to do. Be good to yourself and try to think positive! I know that's not easy! But it's just like the others said earlier, you can't hide, you need to show up somewhere and have fun and then things are happening when you won't expect it.
And come on, you guys don't have a problem with grey hairs.. it just make you look even better! It's only a point of view!
33 is freaking young! A lot of people wish to be that young again!

She's always been verbally (and used to be physically when I was smaller than her) abusive.
Thank you for your kind words.

HughFreakingDillon · January 2018

Thoughts_Arrive said:

jnimhaoileoin said:

Yeah I really don't see why that would be an issue. Fuck it, I'm 32 and have plenty of grey hairs. Believe me, it's got to be worse for a girl!

At least you can colour it.

the hottest girl in high school went out with, and ended up marrying, a guy who had grey hair. he had grey hair in high school. like, seriously, grey like worse than those just for men commercials.

my mom's side of the family, all of the men go bald early. i'm balding now (43), but my male cousins all went bald in their early 20's. all married. all happy.

my point is, you are focusing on shit that doesn't matter. you are letting the real issue seep into these non-issues.

hedonist · January 2018

HughFreakingDillon said:

Thoughts_Arrive said:

jnimhaoileoin said:

Yeah I really don't see why that would be an issue. Fuck it, I'm 32 and have plenty of grey hairs. Believe me, it's got to be worse for a girl!

At least you can colour it.

the hottest girl in high school went out with, and ended up marrying, a guy who had grey hair. he had grey hair in high school. like, seriously, grey like worse than those just for men commercials.

my mom's side of the family, all of the men go bald early. i'm balding now (43), but my male cousins all went bald in their early 20's. all married. all happy.

my point is, you are focusing on shit that doesn't matter. you are letting the real issue seep into these non-issues.

Ha, my dad was your age when I was born

He started losing his hair well before that - well before my parents were married - and it was already greying.

I've found that people worth their salt, those worth investing yourself in and vice versa, don't give two fucks about hair amount or its color. They care more about character, integrity, compassion, etc. All the worthwhile good shit that doesn't fade. The rest is just dressing and fluff.

HughFreakingDillon · January 2018

correct. my wife doesn't give two shits about my hair. if she did, i'd know it. before it started to thin, i had a pony tail. she was not fond of it! she'd probably appreciate if i lost few pounds, but like the awesome woman she is, she'd never say it.

Thoughts_Arrive · January 2018

That makes me feel kinda better.
With age I am getting more of a double chin.
That scares me.

stuckinline · January 2018

Pfft... age is just a number. I've seen over 33 fans rocking out harder at PJ shows than the under 33 fans.
I agree with the suggestion to volunteer for a cause you are interested in. You will meet like minded people and remember to just take it slow. Sometimes relationships take time to build.

Shyner · January 2018

I have a bald spot. Thinking of a tattoo or shaving for the combover.

I'm a renewed virgin of 20 years

Every second is new and great

RogueStoner · January 2018

I’m so off today, since the moment I woke up. Like I’m in a fog or something. Probably too much running through my head at once. And lack of sleep seeing as I’ve gotten about 3 hours per night all week. Oh well. Sleep will have to wait until Sunday night.

PJ_Soul · January 2018

Thoughts_Arrive said:

jnimhaoileoin said:

Thoughts_Arrive said:

HughFreakingDillon said:

Thoughts_Arrive said:

dankind said:

I don’t have many friends—zero anywhere near me—but I like it that way.

I did, however, find someone crazy enough to marry me and my winning personality, so there’s hope for you yet, T_A.

I feel like it's too late for me.

33 years old is too late? dude, it's NEVER TOO LATE.

My hair is greying

That's not going to affect your ability to make friends

Girlfriend I mean

Yeah, women actually don't give a shit about that, FYI.

PJ_Soul · January 2018

oftenreading said:

Thoughts_Arrive said:

jnimhaoileoin said:

Yeah I really don't see why that would be an issue. Fuck it, I'm 32 and have plenty of grey hairs. Believe me, it's got to be worse for a girl!

At least you can colour it.

Well, so could you, if you're going to be picky about it.

Half the guys I know have grey hair Thoughts. This is seriously not an issue for women. Grey hair looks good on men (I just wish you men would feel the same about grey on women - it's really not fair). My bro-in-law is actually totally white-haired (has been for several years now - he just turned 50), but my sister prefers it just grey rather than white, so he colours it to be grey, lol. Just for Men Grey. Looks good. I didn't even know he did it until he botched the job one day for some reason and I asked him why the fuck his hair was all patchy on the back.

I also have a friend who went totally grey in high school. For a bit he dyed it, but then he just owned it. He grew that grey hair out long and rocked that shit, lol. And it worked, I have always been secretly attracted to him, ahaha.

bluegrace · January 2018

I'm fine, even though I seem to have lost my appetite. Working from home and for lunch I had - coffee.

dankind · January 2018

Like this:

https://youtu.be/rE90fWBT__0

hedonist · January 2018

Is it the new pup, DK?

I just love that song, though it breaks my heart every time.

Annafalk · January 2018

hedonist said:

Is it the new pup, DK?

I just love that song, though it breaks my heart every time.

It was a good song but with very sad lyrics.

dankind · January 2018

Annafalk said:

hedonist said:

Is it the new pup, DK?

I just love that song, though it breaks my heart every time.

It was a good song but with very sad lyrics.

The pup and my son (aka, the bitch and the dickhead). Fuck them!

I'm looking for a new job far away. I'll send money for the bills, etc., and visit on weekends. Maybe.

My cat is the only one I can live with. She'll come with me.

Annafalk · January 2018

dankind said:

Annafalk said:

hedonist said:

Is it the new pup, DK?

I just love that song, though it breaks my heart every time.

It was a good song but with very sad lyrics.

The pup and my son (aka, the bitch and the dickhead). Fuck them!

I'm looking for a new job far away. I'll send money for the bills, etc., and visit on weekends. Maybe.

My cat is the only one I can live with. She'll come with me.

Healing thoughts and love for everyone.