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  • hedonist
    hedonist Posts: 24,524
    deadendp said:

    How some folks just can't let go of hate.

    :hug:

    Harboring hate is so...heavy. So toxic for the soul.
  • whispering hands
    whispering hands Under your skin Posts: 13,527
    hedonist said:

    deadendp said:

    How some folks just can't let go of hate.

    :hug:

    Harboring hate is so...heavy. So toxic for the soul.
    Deadly even. It has been shown as of late that anger and hatred actually cull years from your life, and increase your health risks by 25%.
  • deadendp
    deadendp Northeast Ohio Posts: 10,434

    hedonist said:

    deadendp said:

    How some folks just can't let go of hate.

    :hug:

    Harboring hate is so...heavy. So toxic for the soul.
    Deadly even. It has been shown as of late that anger and hatred actually cull years from your life, and increase your health risks by 25%.
    You teach me stuff. :hug: Thank you for that, Tree! :smile:
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  • northerndragon
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    :rofl:
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  • Ms. Haiku
    Ms. Haiku Washington DC Posts: 7,376
    I've been looking for a job for over a year. The last two positions I interviewed for had my name "all over them", so I'm confused as to why I'm still unemployed. To look at what I do differently I signed up for a session with a career coach. One of my sisters suggested it. I don't know what will happen, but I'm excited.
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  • whispering hands
    whispering hands Under your skin Posts: 13,527
    Ms. Haiku said:

    I've been looking for a job for over a year. The last two positions I interviewed for had my name "all over them", so I'm confused as to why I'm still unemployed. To look at what I do differently I signed up for a session with a career coach. One of my sisters suggested it. I don't know what will happen, but I'm excited.

    They have helped me a lot. A lot had changed in hiring processes since I had hanged careers. Thanks to my career coach, I plan on taking some business classes when I get done with
    Dog behavior school. I think they will be able to help you
    Land on your feet girl! Big :hug:
  • hauntingfamiliar
    hauntingfamiliar Wilmington, NC Posts: 10,360
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  • lolobugg
    lolobugg BLUE RDGE MTNS Posts: 8,195
    edited March 2017
    Ms. Haiku said:

    I've been looking for a job for over a year. The last two positions I interviewed for had my name "all over them", so I'm confused as to why I'm still unemployed. To look at what I do differently I signed up for a session with a career coach. One of my sisters suggested it. I don't know what will happen, but I'm excited.

    hang in there, Ms H.
    we are rooting for ya

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  • deadendp
    deadendp Northeast Ohio Posts: 10,434
    Ms. Haiku said:

    I've been looking for a job for over a year. The last two positions I interviewed for had my name "all over them", so I'm confused as to why I'm still unemployed. To look at what I do differently I signed up for a session with a career coach. One of my sisters suggested it. I don't know what will happen, but I'm excited.

    I think that this is a fantastic idea!

    My husband went to one right after college. Basically he graduated with a degree and had no idea what to do with it. She put him through a bunch of tests, figured out what was best for him, wrote a resume for him and gave him interview pointers. She pointed him to the career he has. Thanks to her, my husband has been employed in his chosen field for 21 years. I will suggest the same for my daughter when her time comes.

    I agree with Lolo, we're all pulling for you! :hug:
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  • hedonist
    hedonist Posts: 24,524
    deadendp said:

    Ms. Haiku said:

    I've been looking for a job for over a year. The last two positions I interviewed for had my name "all over them", so I'm confused as to why I'm still unemployed. To look at what I do differently I signed up for a session with a career coach. One of my sisters suggested it. I don't know what will happen, but I'm excited.

    I think that this is a fantastic idea!

    My husband went to one right after college. Basically he graduated with a degree and had no idea what to do with it. She put him through a bunch of tests, figured out what was best for him, wrote a resume for him and gave him interview pointers. She pointed him to the career he has. Thanks to her, my husband has been employed in his chosen field for 21 years. I will suggest the same for my daughter when her time comes.

    I agree with Lolo, we're all pulling for you! :hug:
    Same here, Ms. H. You're a smart woman and have tenacity. The fit will come.

    Ever wonder what the hell you (apparently...?) did to someone to warrant coldness? And then ride the fence between caring and thinking, well, fuck 'em?

    It's too bad, but even this late in the game as I'm still learning, such is life.

    Such are some people.
  • deadendp
    deadendp Northeast Ohio Posts: 10,434
    hedonist said:

    deadendp said:

    Ms. Haiku said:

    I've been looking for a job for over a year. The last two positions I interviewed for had my name "all over them", so I'm confused as to why I'm still unemployed. To look at what I do differently I signed up for a session with a career coach. One of my sisters suggested it. I don't know what will happen, but I'm excited.

    I think that this is a fantastic idea!

    My husband went to one right after college. Basically he graduated with a degree and had no idea what to do with it. She put him through a bunch of tests, figured out what was best for him, wrote a resume for him and gave him interview pointers. She pointed him to the career he has. Thanks to her, my husband has been employed in his chosen field for 21 years. I will suggest the same for my daughter when her time comes.

    I agree with Lolo, we're all pulling for you! :hug:
    Same here, Ms. H. You're a smart woman and have tenacity. The fit will come.

    Ever wonder what the hell you (apparently...?) did to someone to warrant coldness? And then ride the fence between caring and thinking, well, fuck 'em?

    It's too bad, but even this late in the game as I'm still learning, such is life.

    Such are some people.
    :hug: (Although it auto corrected to hug. Um, no! :angry: )
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  • bluegrace
    bluegrace Posts: 2,357
    Ms. Haiku said:

    I've been looking for a job for over a year. The last two positions I interviewed for had my name "all over them", so I'm confused as to why I'm still unemployed. To look at what I do differently I signed up for a session with a career coach. One of my sisters suggested it. I don't know what will happen, but I'm excited.

    One thing I learned when looking for a new job, never dwell over the ones you didn't get. It can be any or one reason. Good luck with the career coach, sounds like a really good idea.
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  • Ms. Haiku
    Ms. Haiku Washington DC Posts: 7,376
    I have an in person interview for a job next Monday, about a week before my first coaching session.

    Thank you all for the good vibes! I appreciate it :)

    Here I go!
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  • deadendp
    deadendp Northeast Ohio Posts: 10,434
    Ms. Haiku said:

    I have an in person interview for a job next Monday, about a week before my first coaching session.

    Thank you all for the good vibes! I appreciate it :)

    Here I go!

    Hooray!

    Could you write down a list of questions they ask, have someone "interview" you while recording yourself? That might give you insight to whatever glitch there may be.
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  • Nami
    Nami Newfoundland Posts: 5,999
    Ms. Haiku said:

    I have an in person interview for a job next Monday, about a week before my first coaching session.

    Thank you all for the good vibes! I appreciate it :)

    Here I go!

    good luck!


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  • 23scidoo
    23scidoo Thessaloniki,Greece Posts: 19,970
    Ms. Haiku said:

    I have an in person interview for a job next Monday, about a week before my first coaching session.

    Thank you all for the good vibes! I appreciate it :)

    Here I go!

    Wish you the best Ms.
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  • jnimhaoileoin
    jnimhaoileoin Baile Átha Cliath Posts: 2,682
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  • hedonist
    hedonist Posts: 24,524
    Hug to you, Jenny. I'm in a strangely similar place.

    With this.

    These songs of freedom :)

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SmKW-2dmNfM
  • mfc2006
    mfc2006 HTOWN Posts: 37,491
    Fucking taxes. Good god, we got nailed again. Ugh.
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  • hauntingfamiliar
    hauntingfamiliar Wilmington, NC Posts: 10,360
    mfc2006 said:

    Fucking taxes. Good god, we got nailed again. Ugh.

    X 2