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  • JWPearl
    JWPearl Posts: 19,893
    interested but me not yet theres a different site here i use

    do you think affection both ways makes a big difference in a relationship at private war
  • hedonist
    hedonist Posts: 24,524
    I've never had a private war in a relationship.

    Affection is important though, in both words and action.

    Don't we all need to be stroked with genuineness?
  • RKCNDY
    RKCNDY Posts: 31,013
    Yes.

    Am I the only one who is confused here?
    The joy of life comes from our encounters with new experiences, and hence there is no greater joy than to have an endlessly changing horizon, for each day to have a new and different sun.

    - Christopher McCandless
  • hedonist
    hedonist Posts: 24,524
    Nope!

    Have you ever hired a maid/cleaning service? I've never done it but thinking the end result would be worth the weirdness of having a stranger in our home, basically cleaning up after two adults and two cats.
  • RKCNDY
    RKCNDY Posts: 31,013
    No...sometimes I think I'd like it, but then how does that person know what to throw away or not?

    Do you hire someone to detail your car?
    The joy of life comes from our encounters with new experiences, and hence there is no greater joy than to have an endlessly changing horizon, for each day to have a new and different sun.

    - Christopher McCandless
  • oftenreading
    oftenreading Victoria, BC Posts: 12,856
    Yes. It's worth it when you have a huge disparity in the willingness of both parties to do housework (i.e. one won't do any :frowning: so the other has to do it all) so disagreements can be avoided.

    Are you taking formal lessons in anything these days?
    my small self... like a book amongst the many on a shelf
  • hedonist
    hedonist Posts: 24,524
    RK, yes (rather, my husband does; his work has great car guys who come once a week). THAT is worth it.

    often, no (unless you count life!)

    I just can't physically handle the major cleaning and don't want my guy to take all of that on. Figured I'd take a day off work and have it done as his birthday gift.

    Is that a lame gift? I mean, I benefit too.....
  • RKCNDY
    RKCNDY Posts: 31,013
    No, if it's a major deep clean....worth it!

    Do you like raisins?
    The joy of life comes from our encounters with new experiences, and hence there is no greater joy than to have an endlessly changing horizon, for each day to have a new and different sun.

    - Christopher McCandless
  • Raisins are good. Craisins are too!

    Have you ever smelled rain in the desert?
  • hedonist
    hedonist Posts: 24,524
    No.

    Have you heard that when you smell rain you're actually smelling everything upon which the rain has fallen - that it brings out those scents?
  • hedonist said:

    No.

    Have you heard that when you smell rain you're actually smelling everything upon which the rain has fallen - that it brings out those scents?

    Yes, that's why I asked about rain in the desert. Beautiful smell.

    What is your favorite smell? Mine is listed above
  • jnimhaoileoin
    jnimhaoileoin Baile Átha Cliath Posts: 2,682
    hedonist said:

    I've never had a private war in a relationship.

    Affection is important though, in both words and action.

    Don't we all need to be stroked with genuineness?

    This made me laugh he he

    hedonist said:

    No.

    Have you heard that when you smell rain you're actually smelling everything upon which the rain has fallen - that it brings out those scents?

    Yes, that's why I asked about rain in the desert. Beautiful smell.

    What is your favorite smell? Mine is listed above
    Christmas cake fresh out of the oven :)

    What was the last foreign country you visited?
  • HesCalledDyer
    HesCalledDyer Maryland Posts: 16,491
    Canada in 2002. Only time I've ever been out of the US.

    Where would you like to go that you've never been before?
  • JWPearl
    JWPearl Posts: 19,893
    to paris

    do you get paranoid sometimes
  • No.

    Do you like stinky cheese?
  • RKCNDY
    RKCNDY Posts: 31,013
    How stinky? Like gorgonzola stinky? I eat most cheese...the cheese with maggots I will pass on.

    Do you like jelly beans?
    The joy of life comes from our encounters with new experiences, and hence there is no greater joy than to have an endlessly changing horizon, for each day to have a new and different sun.

    - Christopher McCandless
  • JWPearl
    JWPearl Posts: 19,893
    yes love them

    do you like french wine
  • HesCalledDyer
    HesCalledDyer Maryland Posts: 16,491
  • hedonist
    hedonist Posts: 24,524
    I love its scent but don't like anything carbonated.

    Might the term "root beer" sound dirty to a juvenile mind?

    (wasn't referring to my mind...nope, not at all)
  • RKCNDY
    RKCNDY Posts: 31,013
    Yes!

    When you go out to eat (at your favorite restaurant/cafe) do you typically order the same thing?
    The joy of life comes from our encounters with new experiences, and hence there is no greater joy than to have an endlessly changing horizon, for each day to have a new and different sun.

    - Christopher McCandless