MY NEIGHBOR'S PREVIOUS JOB WAS TO MAKE ME SANDWICHES...and a guy i worked with killed his wife

RKCNDY said:

ldent42 said:

Juggler you should consider writing this into a mini series for Netflix lol

Totally...I'm gonna have to go back and re-read the entire thread. If I remember correctly, sammich guy was a clown...pissed off over a fence or something I think.

Yeah, the fence is a different thread. Hated living next to that guy....

The Waiting Trophy Man said:

Wow, how did I miss is thread!?

Any more details you can provide on the murder? He stabbed her 12 times? What else? This is crazy.

well i think it's mostly in here. here's some other details:
they were having marital problems. they apparently were each cheating on each other. according to friends who know him better than i ,his wife wasn't shy about flirting with guys in front of him and making him jealous and stuff (she apparently cheated on him with someone else at our company---but he was also having an affair with a woman there as well). he then starting tracking her every move by putting a gps device on her car, installing surveillance in their home so he can spy on her when he's not home (one day he showed me the webcam of his house when he was trying to get me to buy it from him--in retrospect that is pretty creepy)...they filed for divorce a few weeks before he killed her....he met her father and mother in a motel to show them all the evidence he had collected of her cheating on him and how that is why he was divorcing her...right around the time they filed for divorce he claims she asked him to kill her with a knife--and then he tried to have her committed to some mental health facility but they determined that she was fine and released her...he also was granted a temporary protection from abuse order against her but it was dismissed only a few days later. lots of crazy stuff going on.

he also took combat and knife wielding lessons in the months prior to the murder. the reason, from what i gather, that the 1st degree charge was not thrown out was the manner in which he stabbed her. he went after all of the vital areas of her body--neck, torso, face, back of neck, and both arms, wrists, and hands----so, in theory, because of his combat training he knew exactly what he was trying to do and it wasn't just an act of self defense.

and his twin 5 year old daughters were sleeping upstairs while it happened.

the morning we found out was so surreal. my wife saw the story on a local news app. the names were not shown at that time but the address was and she though it was in the neighborhood of my co-workers house that he showed us to buy (behind his wife's back while she was out of town--he wanted leverage in getting her to agree to sell the house). so she texted me about it. what was odd was, that the accused (i'm leaving his name out), sent an email to one of our friends at work who sat near us saying something bad happened and that he needed him to clear out his desk of all his stuff (he had a lot of the info he gathered on his wife there). the email was sent at like 3am and from his work email address, which we can access outside of work. so we were already talking about how weird that was and about what might have happened, yada yada yada....then i get the text from my wife, quickly pull up the address on google maps and BAM...within a minute or two we came to the definitive conclusion that it was his house and that he had killed his wife. there was no wondering about "could he have?" "is that really his house?" "no that can't be"...it was so definitive. fucking crazy. a guy we knew pretty well and interacted with on a daily basis had just killed his wife.