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  • rollings
    rollings unknown Posts: 7,127
    CHANGEinWAVES wrote:
    A very close friend's brother died in a car accident this morning. I can't stop thinking about it and how it is hurting their family. He was in his early 20s and has two small sons. This year has been nothing but heartache for them. I have had friends in the past lose loved ones but this is affecting me in such a strong way. I think of the kids, who will grow up without a father. For his parents who hurt to lose a son. For his siblings...his sister (who has such a wonderful outlook on life and such a positive attitude, I wonder how this will change her) his brother who is still so young. As well as the rest of the family who have seen this type of heart ache in the past and hoped to never feel it again. Also for the mother of his children ( an estranged relationship), I'm sure the hurt there will be greater than anyone would think. I had a rough few days previous to this and now I feel childish for letting those trivial things break me, I have been blessed in my life to not deal with true loss such as this. I have hurt and had pain but not the type that a death can cause. I'm not sure where I'm going with this, I just needed to empty my thoughts.

    I'm sorry for the rambling, I didn't know where else to go with this but here.

    Wow. This is terribly, terribly sad. I can't even imagine...
    Writing this out is helpful, I hope you have somebody to talk to about this too
  • afroannnie
    afroannnie Posts: 12,995
    CHANGEinWAVES wrote:
    A very close friend's brother died in a car accident this morning. I can't stop thinking about it and how it is hurting their family. He was in his early 20s and has two small sons. This year has been nothing but heartache for them. I have had friends in the past lose loved ones but this is affecting me in such a strong way. I think of the kids, who will grow up without a father. For his parents who hurt to lose a son. For his siblings...his sister (who has such a wonderful outlook on life and such a positive attitude, I wonder how this will change her) his brother who is still so young. As well as the rest of the family who have seen this type of heart ache in the past and hoped to never feel it again. Also for the mother of his children ( an estranged relationship), I'm sure the hurt there will be greater than anyone would think. I had a rough few days previous to this and now I feel childish for letting those trivial things break me, I have been blessed in my life to not deal with true loss such as this. I have hurt and had pain but not the type that a death can cause. I'm not sure where I'm going with this, I just needed to empty my thoughts.

    I'm sorry for the rambling, I didn't know where else to go with this but here.


    Sorry sorry to hear this...what a tragedy. :( It's always good to get your feelings out...and we're all willing to listen.
    Show #13 was a lucky one for me....
  • thefixer9
    thefixer9 Posts: 9,376
    4 days and not a second longer!
    Tres Mts- 3/16/2011
    Eddie Vedder- 7/16/11
    Brad- 4/21/12 (RSD Performance), 4/27/12, 8/10/12
    Flight To Mars- 5/23/12
    RNDM- 11/27/12

    PEARL JAM- 12/6/13 I have finally seen Pearl Jam live!
  • mikalina
    mikalina Posts: 7,206
    Can't wait for the end of the school year....
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  • EmBleve
    EmBleve Posts: 3,019
    returning to the gym today. Hope that works out well.
  • rick1zoo2
    rick1zoo2 between a rock and a dumb place Posts: 12,632
    EmBleve wrote:
    returning to the gym today. Hope that works out well.


    I've been thinking I need to do the same. let me know how that works out for you
  • Pamela0222
    Pamela0222 Posts: 1,544
    How 4 o'clock cannot come fast enough. LOVE spa evenings!!
    The thing I like most about time is that it's not real. It's all in the head. Sure, it's a useful trick to use if you want to meet someone at a specific place in the universe and have tea or coffee- but that's all it is- a trick. There is no such thing as the past. It exists only in the memory. There is no such thing as the future. It exists only in our imagination. If our watches were truly accurate, the only thing they would ever say is "Now". That's what time it is. It's "Now". - Damien Echols
  • of.the.girl
    of.the.girl Posts: 10,026
    I just want to scream!!!!!

    AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH
  • EmBleve
    EmBleve Posts: 3,019
    conman wrote:
    i wanna be on you
    nice dose of eroticism.
  • EmBleve
    EmBleve Posts: 3,019
    rick1zoo2 wrote:
    EmBleve wrote:
    returning to the gym today. Hope that works out well.


    I've been thinking I need to do the same. let me know how that works out for you
    it worked out very well. I needed it. :)
  • whygohome
    whygohome Posts: 2,305
    I hope this bowl helps with my writer's block.
  • ShimmyMommy
    ShimmyMommy Posts: 7,505
    :think: :think: :think: whether or not I should put one of my 10C Analog Gift decals on my van...and whether I should frame the poster they sent...and whether I should stitch on the patch or iron it on...


    decisions! decisions! :lol:
    Lots of love, light and hugs to you all!
  • DS1119
    DS1119 Posts: 33,497
    ShimmyMommy wrote:
    :think: :think: :think: whether or not I should put one of my 10C Analog Gift decals on my van...and whether I should frame the poster they sent...and whether I should stitch on the patch or iron it on...


    decisions! decisions! :lol:


    That's a lot to consider at one time. Let us know how you make out. :corn:
  • ShimmyMommy
    ShimmyMommy Posts: 7,505
    DS1119 wrote:
    ShimmyMommy wrote:
    :think: :think: :think: whether or not I should put one of my 10C Analog Gift decals on my van...and whether I should frame the poster they sent...and whether I should stitch on the patch or iron it on...


    decisions! decisions! :lol:


    That's a lot to consider at one time.


    Indeed it is...I want to wear my PJ pride...and at the same time conserve it... :fp:
    Lots of love, light and hugs to you all!
  • conman
    conman Posts: 7,493
    EmBleve wrote:
    conman wrote:
    i wanna be on you
    nice dose of eroticism.
    :lol: actually i was quoting anchorman
  • ShimmyMommy
    ShimmyMommy Posts: 7,505
    time to go...hopefully I can visit again soon! bye for now! :wave:
    Lots of love, light and hugs to you all!
  • EmBleve
    EmBleve Posts: 3,019
    conman wrote:
    EmBleve wrote:
    conman wrote:
    i wanna be on you
    nice dose of eroticism.
    :lol: actually i was quoting anchorman
    :lol: it still was.
  • of.the.girl
    of.the.girl Posts: 10,026
    a cocktail with a certain someone. I much need this right now
  • AELARA
    AELARA Posts: 803
    Make love not war :D:D:D
    I am mine!
  • of.the.girl
    of.the.girl Posts: 10,026
    what constitutes 81 to be epic :think:

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