is 33 too late to find love for the first time

IndianSummer wrote:

i have had to undergo corrective surgery twice

Do elaborate please.

IndianSummer wrote:

well firstly thanks everyone who answered and encouraged me on the "is 33 too late to marry thread".

i asked the same question in another forum where someone asked me if i wanted to fall in love or just get married.

i am 28 going on 29 soon. never had a relationship of any kind. am not likely to have one anytime soon either. so i ask - "is 33 too late to find/fall in love for the first time" ???

not to be rude but with the attitude that you have of yourself i.e. "never had a relationship of any kind. am not likely to have one anytime soon" i will say that 33 is toolate but i will also say that 21 was too late for you. if you change that attidude than no 33 is not too late. i am 31 and i have love one person that didn't work out but i will also try to find that other person. that is what youhave to do. why do you think that you won't find someone.

IndianSummer wrote:

i was born bad looking. had to undergo cosmetic surgery twice.:(

Dude, I feel for ya. I was born semi-good looking and that helped me into the sack more times than I probably am aware of. I've been called "cute" by so many women that it just makes you wonder if they are as concerned about appearances as are men.

You remind me of my cousin. When he was young, he developed a tumor in his jaw. To remove the tumor, the doctors also had to remove a big piece of his jaw so that it looks like he has only one side of his face.

He endured merciless teasing when he was growing up. Kids can be so cruel and heartless as you already know.

But, he worked hard and stayed in school, later graduating from UCLA and now he's a registered nurse who works in the operating room.

So, he makes decent money. On top of that he's just an all-around great guy who knows how lucky he is to have a girlfriend, and I guess that's why he has the one that he has right now.

But, all I can say is that the sooner you get over your fears, the better. There is someone out there waiting for a guy like you to appear in her life. I don't think anyone on this board would argue with that.

I agree with the people here who argued that age is irrelevant. I was in Love w/ a girl from 15 years old until I was 21. I mean the at first sight, wide eyed puppy dog kind. After that, I have dated girls on and off, nothing that has lasted more than a few months.

I believe that you find someone when it is truly is not expected, and when it is most natural. I am all about the "it's meant to be" belief.

You don't have to talk to every person you see. You don't have to make it a point to say "I am single, here I am." You just have to go out and live your life. If you see someone who you can't help but say hi to, then go for it. If you feel like just relaxing, and watching a movie, or staying in, then do that too.

If you are 33 when you find the person you want to marry, then that's when you will marry them. If you find that person at 45, then you'll be happily married at 45. That's the way I look at it anyway.

JUST LIVE YOUR LIFE THE WAY YOU WANT TO! That's the best advice I can give. It's coming from a single 25 year old living at home, by the way.

It's never to late to find love or for love to find you

eyedclaar wrote:

I fall in love every time a sexy female walks by and I'm already married. Hell, fall in love all you want.

haha, I thought I was the only one..... I was at the pub tonight, I fell in love at least 20 times. Man I am a slut.