i'm confused, are you?

genie
genie Posts: 2,222
edited December 2008 in All Encompassing Trip
i think i'm numb, i'm also very confused as to what i want from life, i'm not even sure if relationship is what i need. i think what i badly need is a soulmate or an adventure seeking buddy.
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  • South of Seattle
    South of Seattle West Seattle Posts: 10,724
    Join the peace corps? ;):p
    NERDS!
  • nuffingman
    nuffingman Posts: 3,014
    I think you need to get laid!!! :cool:
  • genie
    genie Posts: 2,222
    South of Seattle wrote:
    Join the peace corps? ;):p

    :D good suggestion, but the kind of adventure i'm talking about would not fit in with their standards, what i want will be wild for them ;)
  • genie
    genie Posts: 2,222
    nuffingman wrote:
    I think you need to get laid!!! :cool:

    ha!....nah, thanks i had sex and it won't solve my want for something meaningful and fun
  • nuffingman
    nuffingman Posts: 3,014
    genie wrote:
    ha!....nah, thanks i had sex and it won't solve my want for something meaningful and fun
    I know what you mean. Sex is OK but I prefer the real thing.
  • zacman13245
    zacman13245 Posts: 294
    i'm searching for something meaningful and fun to, I need an adventure and I'm just waiting for one to pop up, I wish I was more proactive about it.
    I'm spinning, oh, I'm spinning

    6/30/2008 - Mansfield, MA.
    5/17/2010 - Boston, MA
    9/3/2011 - East Troy, WI (PJ20)
    9/4/2011 - East Troy, WI (PJ20)
  • genie
    genie Posts: 2,222
    nuffingman wrote:
    I know what you mean. Sex is OK but I prefer the real thing.

    what real thing are you talking about?
  • South of Seattle
    South of Seattle West Seattle Posts: 10,724
    genie wrote:
    :D good suggestion, but the kind of adventure i'm talking about would not fit in with their standards, what i want will be wild for them ;)

    You think you're so wild don't you ;):D
    NERDS!
  • polaris
    polaris Posts: 3,527
    what you are experiencing is an awakening of sorts ... the real you is coming out ... if you have gone thru your share of good and bad relationships and are independent by nature then you are probably looking for a connection that transcends the superficial nature of most of our relationships ...
  • nuffingman
    nuffingman Posts: 3,014
    genie wrote:
    what real thing are you talking about?
    "Sex is OK but I prefer the real thing" was a piece of graffiti I saw in a book. It's always amused me. Then again I'm easily amused.
  • genie
    genie Posts: 2,222
    zacman13245 wrote:
    i'm searching for something meaningful and fun to, I need an adventure and I'm just waiting for one to pop up, I wish I was more proactive about it.

    well i'd be proactive, but i've got no one at the moment with whom i can have fun, i need someone who says "yes", spontaneous, flexible with time, has enough money to have fun, who can be trusted and relied on, and with wicked personality. so far i've found no one who's like that. someone who tries to work things out if i do something wrong.
  • genie
    genie Posts: 2,222
    South of Seattle wrote:
    You think you're so wild don't you ;):D

    :D i can't realise my full potential unfortunately
  • zacman13245
    zacman13245 Posts: 294
    genie wrote:
    well i'd be proactive, but i've got no one at the moment with whom i can have fun, i need someone who says "yes", spontaneous, flexible with time, has enough money to have fun, who can be trusted and relied on, and with wicked personality. so far i've found no one who's like that. someone who tries to work things out if i do something wrong.
    true, adventures suck alone, or with an unwilling participant.
    I'm spinning, oh, I'm spinning

    6/30/2008 - Mansfield, MA.
    5/17/2010 - Boston, MA
    9/3/2011 - East Troy, WI (PJ20)
    9/4/2011 - East Troy, WI (PJ20)
  • saveuplife
    saveuplife Posts: 1,173
    genie wrote:
    i think i'm numb, i'm also very confused as to what i want from life, i'm not even sure if relationship is what i need. i think what i badly need is a soulmate or an adventure seeking buddy.


    Get a beagle.
  • genie
    genie Posts: 2,222
    saveuplife wrote:
    Get a beagle.

    aw, that's so cute! but no as much as i love dogs i need someone to talk to and go to social places with.
  • saveuplife
    saveuplife Posts: 1,173
    genie wrote:
    aw, that's so cute! but no as much as i love dogs i need someone to talk to and go to social places with.


    They can do that. They howl. And there are doggie bars.
  • genie
    genie Posts: 2,222
    polaris wrote:
    what you are experiencing is an awakening of sorts ... the real you is coming out ... if you have gone thru your share of good and bad relationships and are independent by nature then you are probably looking for a connection that transcends the superficial nature of most of our relationships ...

    i don't think i'm independent, that's why i want someone with me, who will not suffocate me but will be there for me and share good times. like a companion
  • genie
    genie Posts: 2,222
    saveuplife wrote:
    They can do that. They howl. And there are doggie bars.

    :D you're joker! doggie bars sound interesting, i should check them out i wonder if they do "pedigree" cocktail
  • polaris
    polaris Posts: 3,527
    genie wrote:
    i don't think i'm independent, that's why i want someone with me, who will not suffocate me but will be there for me and share good times. like a companion

    oh ... so, it would seem you are looking for the superficial - in which case, it's a crap shoot because by its nature superficiality has no depth and is always fleeting ...
  • genie
    genie Posts: 2,222
    polaris wrote:
    oh ... so, it would seem you are looking for the superficial - in which case, it's a crap shoot because by its nature superficiality has no depth and is always fleeting ...

    how is it superficial? it's far from it. so what's not superficial then, describe it to me?

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