OK so why the fuck can't people be who they say they are?

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  • chiquimonkey
    chiquimonkey Posts: 9,337
    aw man, that is messed up! :mad: sorry...well hopefully if karma does indeed exist it'll bite 'em both in the ass someday.
  • harmless_little_f***
    harmless_little_f*** Posts: 8,005
    Thanks for you concern guys :)
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  • vital5
    vital5 Posts: 5,486
    harmless_little_f*** wrote:
    My ex wife is now with another guy - one of my friends, as it happens. I've said 'Fuck it, you know, he's a good guy, he'll make you happier than I was ever going to.' i.e. I've given them my blessing. You've got to understand that I was so fucking fed up of trying to make someone so high maitenance and full of baggage, happy. So I just told my friend it's not worth losing his friendship over, as well as my wife.

    So after weeks and weeks of him and her giving me 'space' (translated as not contactiing me) my friend says hey, we need to clear the air. You need your computer looked at. What time can you get in from work and I'll come over, look at it, hang out. I had the impression he was bringing her with him... whatever. I said if you're still here at 6, we'll hang out.

    Just got home. Looking forward to seeing my friend, I don't hold grudges. Looked around. They've both been here, it's obvious. They've turned all the lights off that I'd left on. They've taken one of the double beds, the old computer (not that I mind - I'm on a laptop) and fucked off. And they've left the house an even bigger shit hole than it was in the first place with my atrocious housekeeping skills.

    Why the fuck are people NEVER who they claim to be? Friends? Life-long soulmates? Any fucking thing?

    Just someone give me some fucking honesty..... Why is there no honesty in this world.
    This shit is happening every day somewhere in the world.... dirty fucking scoundrels everywhere.... I hope they split up heh... that's all i can do :) unless you were a prick of course... then congrats to them ;)

    Get Boy george to send a Karma Chameleon after them!
  • harmless_little_f***
    harmless_little_f*** Posts: 8,005
    vital5 wrote:
    This shit is happening every day somewhere in the world.... dirty fucking scoundrels everywhere.... I hope they split up heh... that's all i can do :) unless you were a prick of course... then congrats to them ;)

    Get Boy george to send a Karma Chameleon after them!

    Karma chameleon..yeah I bet they're scary.... only problem is that chamelons are pretty slow so probably wouldn;t catch up with them!
    'We're learning songs for baby Jesus' birthday. His mum and dad were Merry and Joseph. He had a bed made of clay and the three kings bought him Gold, Frankenstein and Merv as presents.'

    - the great Sir Leo Harrison
  • redrock
    redrock Posts: 18,341
    I'm shocked Mark..... really. That is real shitty. I know easier said than done, but try not to think about it (the why's, etc.). And yes, think about you and do as you feel for a bit. Work can wait.
  • SoonForgotten2
    SoonForgotten2 Posts: 2,245
    Yeah, people do suck. I wish I had some words of encouragement for you beyond 'fuck 'em' but alas, I do not. So yeah. Fuck 'em.
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  • iluvcats
    iluvcats Posts: 5,153
    does "look at your computer" equal taking it? I'm missing something. Call the cops.
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  • harmless_little_f***
    harmless_little_f*** Posts: 8,005
    iluvcats wrote:
    does "look at your computer" equal taking it? I'm missing something. Call the cops.

    Na man.. no one took any computer ;) don't worry... the stuff they took was hers... that's not the issue.
    'We're learning songs for baby Jesus' birthday. His mum and dad were Merry and Joseph. He had a bed made of clay and the three kings bought him Gold, Frankenstein and Merv as presents.'

    - the great Sir Leo Harrison
  • iluvcats
    iluvcats Posts: 5,153
    people suck. people in broken relationships often end up with one of their friends of the spouse or significant other -- not in my experience, but in novels, movies, unfortunately it happens.
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  • genie
    genie Posts: 2,222
    harmless_little_f*** wrote:
    I'm so at the end of my fucking tether.

    and i don't wonder why!!

    i'm sorry to say this to you but those people who you've loved and hangout with are pieces of garbage!! it's amazing what people can do!! :mad: i know this didn't happen to me but they are pieces of shit!!

    my advice

    leave your house as it is take some pictures, call the police and tell them you've been robbed by the people you hardly knew who forcefully took the keys from you and then broke into your home.

    that should teach those fucking pricks!!!

    anyway, all the best Harmless, don't think of them too much, you meet bad people but you also meet good people. :)
  • genie
    genie Posts: 2,222
    harmless_little_f*** wrote:
    She only took her stuff...

    phew, i feel a bit better now
  • genie
    genie Posts: 2,222
    Jeremy1012 wrote:
    :D damn near everyone of your posts in this thread has mentioned strongbow :p

    dirty drink to be honest. there are better ciders

    i can't stand strongbow, everytime i read its name on your post i get a memory of how nasty it's taste is.......ewwwww
  • Heineken Helen
    Heineken Helen Posts: 18,095
    Pegasus wrote:

    I'm really pissed off for you now! :mad:
    :mad: me too. I could give you plenty of advice right now, but you're way too much of a nice person to follow ANY of the advice I WOULD give you right now... and you're dead right. You keep your head up and keep your dignity and let her continue to make an absolute bitch of herself.

    That's just disgusting what they did. You haven't replied to advice to changing the locks though... are you in a position to do so? I wouldn't have her able to come and go as she pleases. Fair enough if the place is jointly owned or whatever but if you're able to change the locks do it.
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  • urbanhippie
    urbanhippie Posts: 3,007
    People are never who they say they are. This is a fact of life. Everyone is out for number 1. It's easier to just accept this now. Even the people who think they have your best interests at heart, don't really. They're just trying to make themselves feel better about their selfishness.

    But, saying all that, are YOU 100% honest about your intentions 100% of the time?
    I have been, and I'll never make that mistake again. It cost me too much.
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