OK so why the fuck can't people be who they say they are?

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  • harmless_little_f***
    harmless_little_f*** Posts: 8,005
    Rygar wrote:
    So did they take things that she owned, or were they joint-ownership items? Or even worse, yours?
    Get the cops involved (get that Strongbow into you, already!) Wait...leave the Strongbow till after you call the cops...

    She only took her stuff... I'm more just pissed off that the guy fucking chickened out - completely lost his nerve - before I got home. He said he wanted to 'clear the air with me' but he hasn't even got the fucking knackers to do it without pissing off before I arrive home.

    Thanks everyone for the concern. :) It's appreciated, really.

    I just don't know who to listen to anymore. It sounds stupid but I'm having such a fucking existential crisis right now. I mean I can't be in a town/country/world that's so horrible to people all the time. All I wanted was to share my life with someone - love them - do what I could for them. And I get shat on. Where is the fucking justice and what place do people like me have on this piece of shit earth.
    'We're learning songs for baby Jesus' birthday. His mum and dad were Merry and Joseph. He had a bed made of clay and the three kings bought him Gold, Frankenstein and Merv as presents.'

    - the great Sir Leo Harrison
  • Jeremy1012
    Jeremy1012 Posts: 7,170
    harmless_little_f*** wrote:
    My ex wife is now with another guy - one of my friends, as it happens. I've said 'Fuck it, you know, he's a good guy, he'll make you happier than I was ever going to.' i.e. I've given them my blessing. You've got to understand that I was so fucking fed up of trying to make someone so high maitenance and full of baggage, happy. So I just told my friend it's not worth losing his friendship over, as well as my wife.

    So after weeks and weeks of him and her giving me 'space' (translated as not contactiing me) my friend says hey, we need to clear the air. You need your computer looked at. What time can you get in from work and I'll come over, look at it, hang out. I had the impression he was bringing her with him... whatever. I said if you're still here at 6, we'll hang out.

    Just got home. Looking forward to seeing my friend, I don't hold grudges. Looked around. They've both been here, it's obvious. They've turned all the lights off that I'd left on. They've taken one of the double beds, the old computer (not that I mind - I'm on a laptop) and fucked off. And they've left the house an even bigger shit hole than it was in the first place with my atrocious housekeeping skills.

    Why the fuck are people NEVER who they claim to be? Friends? Life-long soulmates? Any fucking thing?

    Just someone give me some fucking honesty..... Why is there no honesty in this world.
    That's really crossing a line. Fuck, I can't imagine how much it must have taken to give them your blessing and he threw that back in your face. I swear to god, if I was you he'd get a kicking, and I'm not a violent guy. Just know one thing Mark, you are better than them. I know being the good guy feels like shit 99% of them time, I've always known this, but one day things don't work out so well for the assholes of this world.
    "I remember one night at Muzdalifa with nothing but the sky overhead, I lay awake amid sleeping Muslim brothers and I learned that pilgrims from every land — every colour, and class, and rank; high officials and the beggar alike — all snored in the same language"
  • Jennytree
    Jennytree Posts: 5,340
    Ah for fuck sake that really is ridiculous! They took one of yer beds?! you seem like a nice dude, if they asked you probably would have let them in to get it, y'know?

    I'm really sorry m'dear, tis a shit buzz :(
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  • MattCameronKicksButt
    MattCameronKicksButt Posts: 4,317
    Well that's answered your question from earlier.

    No present for her! heh heh *nervous laugh*
  • decides2dream
    decides2dream Posts: 14,977
    WOW. :(
    that is beyond sad. you're the bigger/better person harmless. i am continually amazed by ex-wife/husband stories. i cannot imagine loving someone enough to MARRY them, and then treating them so horrifically if the marriage doesn't work.
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  • GraySaturday
    GraySaturday Posts: 2,878
    Bitch!


    Okay I totally take back my present comment in another thread, bitch is lucky if she gets a calender.

    Not everyone is a shit head. Really.. they though, yes are shit heads.
  • Rygar
    Rygar Posts: 8,712
    harmless_little_f*** wrote:
    She only took her stuff... I'm more just pissed off that the guy fucking chickened out - completely lost his nerve - before I got home. He said he wanted to 'clear the air with me' but he hasn't even got the fucking knackers to do it without pissing off before I arrive home.

    OK, forget the stuff.
    Forget the guy. Forget the girl.
    Change the locks, move, whatever. You need to distance yourself from these people cause all their doing, and probably ever going to do, is bring you down.
  • RolandTD20Kdrummer
    RolandTD20Kdrummer Posts: 13,066
    harmless_little_f*** wrote:
    She only took her stuff... I'm more just pissed off that the guy fucking chickened out - completely lost his nerve - before I got home. He said he wanted to 'clear the air with me' but he hasn't even got the fucking knackers to do it without pissing off before I arrive home.


    Ok, now I'm seeing the situation. In the next day or two, tell her you need the space, and she needs to pick up the remainder of her stuff asap (if she hasn't already). You're not a storage facility (but don't exactly say that...hehe). Just the same, change the locks. It's your place, and you're the boss. They'll make each other miserable soon enough...heh

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  • Lizard
    Lizard So Cal Posts: 12,092
    Damn!! That is seriously effed up.

    sounds like what happened to my brother when his wife left (not that he was an angel)> He comes home early from work and she and her family and taking all the furniture, etc.!

    HLF---do you have any immediate family close to you?
    So I'll just lie down and wait for the dream
    Where I'm not ugly and you're lookin' at me
  • harmless_little_f***
    harmless_little_f*** Posts: 8,005
    Lizard wrote:
    Damn!! That is seriously effed up.

    sounds like what happened to my brother when his wife left (not that he was an angel)> He comes home early from work and she and her family and taking all the furniture, etc.!

    HLF---do you have any immediate family close to you?

    Yeah. They're being supportive. They're the only people I know right now to be honest.
    'We're learning songs for baby Jesus' birthday. His mum and dad were Merry and Joseph. He had a bed made of clay and the three kings bought him Gold, Frankenstein and Merv as presents.'

    - the great Sir Leo Harrison
  • josevolution
    josevolution Posts: 32,224
    harmless_little_f*** wrote:
    My ex wife is now with another guy - one of my friends, as it happens. I've said 'Fuck it, you know, he's a good guy, he'll make you happier than I was ever going to.' i.e. I've given them my blessing. You've got to understand that I was so fucking fed up of trying to make someone so high maitenance and full of baggage, happy. So I just told my friend it's not worth losing his friendship over, as well as my wife.

    So after weeks and weeks of him and her giving me 'space' (translated as not contactiing me) my friend says hey, we need to clear the air. You need your computer looked at. What time can you get in from work and I'll come over, look at it, hang out. I had the impression he was bringing her with him... whatever. I said if you're still here at 6, we'll hang out.

    Just got home. Looking forward to seeing my friend, I don't hold grudges. Looked around. They've both been here, it's obvious. They've turned all the lights off that I'd left on. They've taken one of the double beds, the old computer (not that I mind - I'm on a laptop) and fucked off. And they've left the house an even bigger shit hole than it was in the first place with my atrocious housekeeping skills.

    Why the fuck are people NEVER who they claim to be? Friends? Life-long soulmates? Any fucking thing?

    Just someone give me some fucking honesty..... Why is there no honesty in this world.

    you seem like a quality individual the people who you thought were friends really have no clas at all to do that to you ,i personally would find the so call friend and punch his lights out for doing that ......
    jesus greets me looks just like me ....
  • Get_Right
    Get_Right Posts: 14,235
    time to refocus
    and look out for number one

    that would be you

    dont waste anymore negative energy on those two-it aint worth it.

    does she have a sister?

    ;)
  • harmless_little_f***
    harmless_little_f*** Posts: 8,005
    Get_Right wrote:
    time to refocus
    and look out for number one

    that would be you

    dont waste anymore negative energy on those two-it aint worth it.

    does she have a sister?

    ;)

    Yeah. She's even higher maintenance. Fuck knows how HER husband copes.
    'We're learning songs for baby Jesus' birthday. His mum and dad were Merry and Joseph. He had a bed made of clay and the three kings bought him Gold, Frankenstein and Merv as presents.'

    - the great Sir Leo Harrison
  • MattCameronKicksButt
    MattCameronKicksButt Posts: 4,317
    Have you spoken to them since? Did you say what a low thing that was to do? :(
  • harmless_little_f***
    harmless_little_f*** Posts: 8,005
    MattCameronKicksButt wrote:
    Have you spoken to them since? Did you say what a low thing that was to do? :(

    No. I can't be bothered with the argument. I'm just going to forget about them.
    'We're learning songs for baby Jesus' birthday. His mum and dad were Merry and Joseph. He had a bed made of clay and the three kings bought him Gold, Frankenstein and Merv as presents.'

    - the great Sir Leo Harrison
  • MattCameronKicksButt
    MattCameronKicksButt Posts: 4,317
    harmless_little_f*** wrote:
    No. I can't be bothered with the argument. I'm just going to forget about them.

    Yeah. fair enough.
  • harmless_little_f***
    harmless_little_f*** Posts: 8,005
    MattCameronKicksButt wrote:
    Yeah. fair enough.

    Hey.. sorry for being so emo. I hope you had a good day.
    'We're learning songs for baby Jesus' birthday. His mum and dad were Merry and Joseph. He had a bed made of clay and the three kings bought him Gold, Frankenstein and Merv as presents.'

    - the great Sir Leo Harrison
  • MattCameronKicksButt
    MattCameronKicksButt Posts: 4,317
    harmless_little_f*** wrote:
    Hey.. sorry for being so emo. I hope you had a good day.

    You're not an Emu. You're more like a goose.
  • harmless_little_f***
    harmless_little_f*** Posts: 8,005
    MattCameronKicksButt wrote:
    You're not an Emu. You're more like a goose.

    What, and some of the more refined and discerning families in the country are going to eat me for Christmas?
    'We're learning songs for baby Jesus' birthday. His mum and dad were Merry and Joseph. He had a bed made of clay and the three kings bought him Gold, Frankenstein and Merv as presents.'

    - the great Sir Leo Harrison
  • Rygar
    Rygar Posts: 8,712
    harmless_little_f*** wrote:
    What, and some of the more refined and discerning families in the country are going to eat me for Christmas?
    Not if you stay indoors.
    Get that Strongbow cracked yet?

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